How to find Quality New York Gay Guys

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    Jun 25, 2012 2:29 PM GMT
    Hey studs, I'm new in Manhattan starting medical school now and I'm trying to get the lay of the gay land. Other than grindr (which seems to be the tail of the elephant), where are the good places to socialize and meet other good gay guys who are interested in dating.

    Any advice would help.
    -J
  • WhoDey

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    Jun 25, 2012 3:21 PM GMT
    There aren't any
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    Jun 26, 2012 2:02 AM GMT
    Yeah, I'll admit, it's definitely tough to find guys interested in dating around here. I've had some decent luck on online dating websites, and that's part of why I'm on here. And on top of that, I've been away from this city at college for the past 5 years, so I have no idea where to meet people. So basically, let me know if you find out icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 26, 2012 2:10 AM GMT
    WhoDey saidThere aren't any


    This.
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    Jun 26, 2012 2:24 AM GMT
    Quality gays are overrated, aim for a rancid gay.

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    Jul 12, 2012 1:36 AM GMT
    Boxer's ;)
  • Msljocknyc

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    Jul 12, 2012 1:52 AM GMT
    try one of them gay sports leagues. they seem like a decent crowd
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    Jul 12, 2012 1:54 AM GMT
    I am friends with 3 hot amazingly nice and stable gay guys in NYC... 2 of them are single icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 12, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    k3l3k0 saidI am friends with 3 hot amazingly nice and stable gay guys in NYC... 2 of them are single icon_biggrin.gif


    are they on rj? pimp em out for us ;)
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    Jul 12, 2012 1:58 AM GMT
    If you're lucky, friends of friends are a good source.
    But good luck making friends.

    Okcupid is probably your best bet. Look for friends, as well as potential "quality gays," and do some minor networking. Once you start meeting people I think it's probably easier.
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:01 AM GMT
    k3l3k0 saidI am friends with 3 hot amazingly nice and stable gay guys in NYC... 2 of them are single icon_biggrin.gif


    Too bad they're not up for parole 'til 2035.

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    Jul 12, 2012 2:03 AM GMT
    Cash said
    k3l3k0 saidI am friends with 3 hot amazingly nice and stable gay guys in NYC... 2 of them are single icon_biggrin.gif
    Too bad they're not up for parole 'til 2035.
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    Yoo bad your jokes aren't funny anymore.
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:11 AM GMT
    If yer looking on Grindr for ANYthing else than what WE ALL know it's for...your making a HUUUUUGE mistake.

    The social climate of NYC has changed drastically over the years.

    There was a time that Gay Men went to Gay bars to meet other Gay Men. That was really the only reasonably safe option and it was understood that that was part of the reason we went there.

    Bars now are very different. It is mostly groups of guys going together to talk amongst themselves -- and the uppitty dudes in some sort of perpetual snit who simply sit and text message all night while looking incredibly bored and angry.

    The real idea is to meet as many people as you can and keep GOING OUT. it is about networking to some degree. And it is a numbers game. The more people you know...the more people you will meet...the more places you will be invited to...the more opportunities to meet Quality Gay Dudes.

    Truth: there is no one place to meet a guy in one night and live happily ever after.

    Some nights you will strike out entirely.

    Some nights you will go home with 35 phone numbers.

    Enjoying the process is the most important step!!!

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    Jul 12, 2012 2:14 AM GMT
    I bow to Cash's NYC Wisdom and Eternal Awesomeness*^^

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    Jul 12, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    Anduru said
    Cash said
    k3l3k0 saidI am friends with 3 hot amazingly nice and stable gay guys in NYC... 2 of them are single icon_biggrin.gif
    Too bad they're not up for parole 'til 2035.
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    Yoo bad your jokes aren't funny anymore.


    Shouldn't you be going thru yer Mom's purse looking for stray pills now???

    When the day comes that you are able to move out of your Dad's house and put one foot in front of the other without bursting into tears and swallowing your tongue...THEN you may be qualified to comment on the hilarity of jokes and comedic value.

    Until then - hug your comic books and dream of your big fashion career.

    The big fashion career that is going to happen in the same room you slept in since you were 8 that you are too terrified to leave and that your parents pay for.

    You know - THAT one.

    Yeah.

    It's gonna happen.

    REALLY.

    It's gonna happen.

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    Jul 12, 2012 2:24 AM GMT
    Cash saidShouldn't you be going thru yer Mom's purse looking for stray pills now???
    When the day comes that you are able to move out of your Dad's house and put one foot in front of the other without bursting into tears and swallowing your tongue...THEN you may be qualified to comment on the hilarity of jokes and comedic value.
    Until then - hug your comic books and dream of your big fashion career.
    The big fashion career that is going to happen in the same room you slept in since you were 8 that you are too terrified to leave and that your parents pay for.
    You know - THAT one.
    Yeah.
    It's gonna happen.
    REALLY.
    It's gonna happen.
    You are truly a dumb fucking cunt. What happened to "I love you sweet prince"?
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:36 AM GMT
    Cash said
    Anduru said
    Cash said
    k3l3k0 saidI am friends with 3 hot amazingly nice and stable gay guys in NYC... 2 of them are single icon_biggrin.gif
    Too bad they're not up for parole 'til 2035.
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    Yoo bad your jokes aren't funny anymore.


    Shouldn't you be going thru yer Mom's purse looking for stray pills now???

    When the day comes that you are able to move out of your Dad's house and put one foot in front of the other without bursting into tears and swallowing your tongue...THEN you may be qualified to comment on the hilarity of jokes and comedic value.

    Until then - hug your comic books and dream of your big fashion career.

    The big fashion career that is going to happen in the same room you slept in since you were 8 that you are too terrified to leave and that your parents pay for.

    You know - THAT one.

    Yeah.

    It's gonna happen.

    REALLY.

    It's gonna happen.



    but what kind of a tl;dr retort is this tho?

    you try way too hard. i have so much second-hand embarrassment for you.
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:38 AM GMT
    Anduru said

    You are truly a dumb fucking cunt. What happened to "I love you sweet prince"?


    What happened to being a Sweet Prince worth loving???

    I defended you on here ENDLESSLY anduru ....and took plenty of crap for it.

    Drop it.

    It's not what this thread is about.
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:42 AM GMT
    getnassty said
    Cash said
    Anduru said
    Cash said
    k3l3k0 saidI am friends with 3 hot amazingly nice and stable gay guys in NYC... 2 of them are single icon_biggrin.gif
    Too bad they're not up for parole 'til 2035.
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    Yoo bad your jokes aren't funny anymore.





    but what kind of a tl;dr retort is this tho?

    you try way too hard. i have so much second-hand embarrassment for you.


    Your opinion means ALOT to Me.

    Thank you so much...you have really given Me a LOT to think about.

    If you are going to use a shirtless shot as your main pic shouldn't you at least provide us all with a blindfold???
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:43 AM GMT
    ^^^and THIS is why I wrote you off anduru^^^^

    Now: back to topic!!

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    Jul 12, 2012 2:44 AM GMT
    Cash saidWhat happened to being a Sweet Prince worth loving???
    I defended you on here ENDLESSLY anduru ....and took plenty of crap for it.
    Drop it.
    It's not what this thread is about.
    Yeah you clearly were defending me when there were rumours going around that I was making secondary accounts to post retarded shit with, instead of propagating those rumours on the forums.
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:45 AM GMT
    Cash said
    Your opinion means ALOT to Me.

    Thank you so much...you have really given Me a LOT to think about.

    If you are going to use a shirtless shot as your main pic shouldn't you at least provide us all with a blindfold???


    the same TIRED and PREDICTABLE reply from you.

    i'm revoking your library card cuz you can't read a bitch for shit.
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:47 AM GMT
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:52 AM GMT
    Msljocknyc said
    k3l3k0 saidI am friends with 3 hot amazingly nice and stable gay guys in NYC... 2 of them are single icon_biggrin.gif


    are they on rj? pimp em out for us ;)


    baha no... neither of the single guys is on RJ. They're both beyond amazing guys in both looks and personality.
    the one in a relatoinship is on RJ tho icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    Msljocknyc saidtry one of them gay sports leagues. they seem like a decent crowd


    This is a good Idea. I know that there is a baseball team here in CT that consists of only gay men. They bring in a crowd. Its better than bar crawling.

    However, I think Cash is right:

    Cash said
    The real idea is to meet as many people as you can and keep GOING OUT. it is about networking to some degree. And it is a numbers game. The more people you know...the more people you will meet...the more places you will be invited to...the more opportunities to meet Quality Gay Dudes.


    Sometimes you hit a home run when you go and walk away with 10 numbers or find a guy you like.

    or keep hitting a foul ball and hope you have better luck next time.

    You only strike out when you stop trying and start complaining....


    See what I did there. icon_biggrin.gif