Do you ever just feel like having raunchy, hot sex with someone other than your partner?

  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Jun 25, 2012 2:48 PM GMT
    I love my partner dearly, and we've had a few threesomes, but lately I've had the urge to just have that dirty, careless, hook-up-at-a-bathhouse sex with some random guy.

    I have no intentions of doing it; I don't cheat.

    It's just more of a fantasy than anything, but I would love to just meet a random hot guy and have it be purely physical.

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    Jun 25, 2012 4:13 PM GMT
    Nothing wrong with the urge to have raunchy, hot sex with someone other than your partner.

    JUST DON'T DO IT!

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  • Suetonius

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    Jun 25, 2012 7:49 PM GMT
    Yeah, I'm sure just about every partnered guy has had these thoughts. However, IRL, you may likely come home with something terrible (not necessarily HIV, hepatitis, gonorrhea, syphillis, chlamidia, or anal warts) but something more annoying, like crabs or scabies. How would you explain to your partner that you both have to dry clean or wash all your clothes, and apply noxious chemicals to your bodies to get back to normal?

    He just might not understand.

    Better a fantasy than reality.
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Jun 25, 2012 9:23 PM GMT
    Definitely best to not do it.

    But if some of these RJ's knocked at my door and said they want to bend me over and go to town, it'd be hard to say no. icon_smile.gif
  • Trepeat

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    Jun 25, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    You could tell him that, and see how he feels about it.

    He might just go, "Me too!", and you could you make a day of it at the local bathhouse. icon_biggrin.gificon_idea.gif
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    Jun 26, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    thought about it,, sure.. Have to say, I really would never do it tho