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  • brickboy1966

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    Jun 25, 2012 4:19 PM GMT
    Am I supposed to message someone before I add them to my buddy or hot list? If so I didn't know there were a set of rules to this site. Also, if that is true then this site is getting to be just like Facebook when you have to know someone in real life before you add them. Then whats the use of these sites if your not meeting new people. Sorry, I'm confused.icon_cry.gif
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    Jun 25, 2012 5:58 PM GMT
    A buddy list isn't a friend request on RJ. Buddy list is to keep the contacts you're already on messaging terms with. You can hot list anyone without messaging them first. Hot list is just a list of guys who are hot to you.
  • brickboy1966

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    Jun 25, 2012 6:59 PM GMT
    Nobody explained that to me. I thought you could add anybody.
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    Jun 25, 2012 8:23 PM GMT
    brickboy1966 saidNobody explained that to me. I thought you could add anybody.

    There isn't a manual or introductory course for this site, you just learn these things as you go along. Nothing physically stops you from adding anyone you want to your buddy list, but that's not what it's for.
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    Jun 25, 2012 8:42 PM GMT
    brickboy1966 saidAm I supposed to message someone before I add them to my buddy or hot list?
    Yes, because the system automatically shuts down your profile and blacklists you from rejoining if you don't.