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from work to gym. if they wanna ask something why not ask me . than just eye ball me.. feels like im being stalked by a raptor.....

Why not take it as the compliment that it is? And as an entree for more, if you're into it? They're giving you an opening for more, possibly?,

Sheesh, these youngins want it all served-up on a silver platter these days....

They want the peen or they're judging you.

Montague saidThey want the peen or they're judging you.

Or they want to hit it, but they're too weak to make the first move.

Larkin said

Montague saidThey want the peen or they're judging you.

Or they want to hit it, but they're too weak to make the first move.

Or they are hitting it, in their imagination

intensity69 said
Sheesh, these youngins want it all served-up on a silver platter these days....

on a slightly related note, this is actually a little alarming to me. i can't open up grindr without coming across some sassy brats (my generation) with some caption like "prove you're interesting" or "impress me." I mean wtf? makes me think there's something to the criticisms of my generation thinking we're special

Claystation said

Larkin said

Montague saidThey want the peen or they're judging you.

Or they want to hit it, but they're too weak to make the first move.

Or they are hitting it, in their imagination

I can think of a few I've hit in my imagination.

This is by far, the most annoying fucking thing about gay guys. I cannot stand it, when I see someone that interests me, I go up and start a conversation. Not stare into their soul like fucking john wayne gacy.

It's always a problem with the college kids when i go up to Ann Arbor. So many gays. Also, the old 'bachelors' here in town. They aren't very subtle either.

They want you but are afraid to make a move out of fear of rejection.

I had a friend who thought ALL the guys were eye balling him, but they were NOT. Why he thought this, I have no idea.

Mixleanmachine saidI had a friend who thought ALL the guys were eye balling him, but they were NOT. Why he thought this, I have no idea.

Because alot of people have a tendency to believe this, gay or not. More than likely it's becuase they WANT to believe it but in reality, people are looking at them because they have a shit stain on their pants or a booger in their nose.

Yup... that's the worst part with gay guys...
I am eye balled by a few but I am hardly approached by any...
I guess because they wanna show that they are like straight or something.. ??
:p :p :p

Maybe you have a booger hanging. Check yourself before you wreck yourself!

I can't stand this. It makes me think your a serial killer and not a potential boyfriend,hookup,etc. I say if you like what you see...come and get it

MadExistence saidMaybe you have a booger hanging. Check yourself before you wreck yourself!

Lol Mad.

Not everyone has the confidence to just walk up to someone and hit on them.

7Famark saidNot everyone has the confidence to just walk up to someone and hit on them.

I think that's an innate fear of gays. Not because of the fear of rejection, per se, but there is also fear that the other guy is not gay and/or could get violent if they are not gay. Unless you are at pride, or in gay bar, or absolutely know the other guy is gay, there is always that hesitation of not knowing.

MarcBodybuilding saidfrom work to gym. if they wanna ask something why not ask me . than just eye ball me.. feels like im being stalked by a raptor.....

This is a big reason I avoid the gay areas of Toronto, I can't stand men who just stare at you giving you that eye-fuck look. It's not only rude, but it makes me feel incredibly uncomfortable.

Sidebar: I find most of the time when they do actually come up and talk to you, they don't have much going on upstairs. Sorry to be cynical, but it's true.

^+1. No guy in real life ever seems to have it all. Not that I'm looking. Lol

ECnAZ said

7Famark saidNot everyone has the confidence to just walk up to someone and hit on them.

I think that's an innate fear of gays. Not because of the fear of rejection, per se, but there is also fear that the other guy is not gay and/or could get violent if they are not gay. Unless you are at pride, or in gay bar, or absolutely know the other guy is gay, there is always that hesitation of not knowing.

+1 even in cases where I've been pretty sure a guy at the gym or something is gay and checking me out, there's always that little voice in the back of my head saying "He's not gay, and when you hit on him - he's gonna beat your face in."

RayRip saidYup... that's the worst part with gay guys...
I am eye balled by a few but I am hardly approached by any...
I guess because they wanna show that they are like straight or something.. ??
:p :p :p

It's not just gay guys, I see it with straight guys and girls too.

That's just life dude, people look.

I get the stares and whatnot, I don't care much. If you were being stalked by a raptor, you wouldn't know.

The evolution of the gay stare

Teens thru 40s, you turn heads when you enter a bar. people stare at you as you walk by, wondering if you are in their future.

40s-50s attentions avert, gazes diminish

50s-60s & up the eyes don't just avert but heads that used to turn your way actually turn away so they don't have to see what's in their future.

If you think you've got something to complain about now with the staring, just wait until the ignoring begins. You ain't seen nothin' yet.

Enjoy it while you got it boyz.