I have decided I don't want to be "Chasersprize" anymore.

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    Aug 01, 2008 6:05 AM GMT
    I don't know who I am but I don't want to be chased by someone who prizes me for something I dislike about myself.
  • GQjock

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    Aug 01, 2008 7:27 AM GMT
    Good for you The Man Formerly Known As Chasersprize icon_cool.gif
    Words and labels have power
    and you realizing that means a big step in the right direction
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    Aug 01, 2008 3:12 PM GMT
    Suggested names:
    CanDoDude - because you can do it!

    Myself - because you moving away from the "world" defining you and defining yourself
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    Aug 01, 2008 4:22 PM GMT
    Good for you brother! Rock On!
    It is you who defines who you are, no one else.

    Other's can "judge" but should never define the person you choose to be.
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    Aug 01, 2008 4:29 PM GMT
    must say positive step. just remember attitude follows action.
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    Aug 01, 2008 4:43 PM GMT
    Good luck! Life is all about taking control, after all, so good for you. icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 01, 2008 4:59 PM GMT
    That first step is always momentous. Keep us posted!
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    Aug 01, 2008 5:10 PM GMT
    There are people rooting for you on this site... I am one of 'em.
    Keep working, keep making progress.... BE POSITIVE!!!!
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    Aug 01, 2008 5:12 PM GMT
    How about WrkInProgress?

    Or TaknCntrol?

    In all fairness, NoNameGuy (formerly known as ChaserPrize), you've bemoaned your stature many times here in the forums. What do you propose to do about it now?

    You've take a very positive first step. Kudos to you! Now the hard part: following through.

    The very best of luck to you.icon_biggrin.gif

    ~Q
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    Aug 01, 2008 5:21 PM GMT
    Mighty_Q saidHow about WrkInProgress?


    I'd advice against WrkInProgress. The way it reads (in Arial/San Serif font), it looks too much like "wrinkle progress."

    But, this seems like an epiphany for you, and I can't wait to see your progress.

    Suggest: BoundlessBeau
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    Aug 01, 2008 5:29 PM GMT
    Just keep moving forward!!!
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    Aug 01, 2008 5:32 PM GMT
    NoNameGuy saidI don't know who I am but I don't want to be chased by someone who prizes me for something I dislike about myself.


    Welcome to my world. I've been here years. Now you have to build a foundation on this so that you don't find yourself tempted by the ease and flightsy of the lifestyle from being a chaserprize or a wolf.
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    Aug 01, 2008 5:47 PM GMT
    mickeytopogigio said
    Mighty_Q saidHow about WrkInProgress?


    I'd advice against WrkInProgress. The way it reads (in Arial/San Serif font), it looks too much like "wrinkle progress."


    LOL. Yeah, I guess it does. Didn't realize that.icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 02, 2008 12:30 AM GMT
    Oh, and no more giving head in the steamroom. That one's going to be tough.
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    Aug 02, 2008 12:59 AM GMT
    NoNameGuy saidOh, and no more giving head in the steamroom. That one's going to be tough.

    OMG!!! ... you dont have to go crazy! ...Giving head doesnt mean that you being used, unless you see it that way. Personally, I love to give head. In fact, it gives me the greatest sexual satisfaction with another guy. When I was at that gym that had the very sexually active steam and sauna rooms, I loved servicing all those hot guys and having them cream in my mouth. ......and of course, you always remember your first...he was in the Army! ... icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 02, 2008 1:11 AM GMT
    Rock on dude. Take control and be the person you want to be.

    But if giving head in the steamroom gets you to the gym to workout then maybe just cut down on it a little.
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    Aug 02, 2008 1:13 AM GMT
    NNJfitandbi saidWho DO you want to be?


    Can I get back to you on that?icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 03, 2008 2:01 PM GMT
    Good for you. I used to be pretty overweight. I immigrated from another country where being gay is just not discussed, lived with my folks through my 20s(probably would never understand-so choose not to share that part with them) and finally moved out.
    From my heaviest point have lost about 30 pounds. Still looking to loose about 15 to get to what I consider ideal weight for myself. I was always physically active but just got tired of lugging that weight around. I don't workout-more hiking, riding and diet.
    Just my experience though I have another take on this. I never really did have problems getting laid whenever I wanted to. Despite all this idea of gym bodies and perfection. I was always confident in myself. If someone was interested in me because of my race or maybe because I was overweight, well so what-how is that different from me being interested in some one because they are "hot"? Both are not looking at the person within.
    Of course if you are overweight you are not going to have the pick of the place-but you just need one guy not all the twenty folks who give you their number. Then when you get in bed -it is just chemistry-no telling who is going to be good in bed-one of my best experiences was with a 50+ year old guy who one would probably consider a troll-I was 25 then. He was just fabulous-knew every button in me-some I didn't know I had-so you know it depends. My taste varies-and if you are comfortable in yourself and dating/sex os only part of your life-looking like a Greek God is really not an absolute must to get what you want....It helps though!!
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    Aug 03, 2008 2:06 PM GMT
    Well I think there are probably numerous things that are positive about who you are and who you can be.. my suggestion: focus on who you want to be and make goals to accomplish it.

    I'm confident there is someone there who many of us would value, appreciate and enjoy getting to know.
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    Aug 03, 2008 2:16 PM GMT
    NoNameGuy saidI don't know who I am but I don't want to be chased by someone who prizes me for something I dislike about myself.


    I was always puzzled by that dissonance, and I think it's really good that you're dropping the "Chasersprize" persona and moving forward.
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    Aug 03, 2008 2:43 PM GMT
    good luck with the new name...

    btw... did you know that rj is google-able? I just googled my username and noticed that my realjock profile is there.
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    Aug 03, 2008 2:52 PM GMT
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    NoNameGuy saidI don't know who I am but I don't want to be chased by someone who prizes me for something I dislike about myself.


    I was always puzzled by that dissonance, and I think it's really good that you're dropping the "Chasersprize" persona and moving forward.


    I guess I figured if I could find someone now it would make my path a bit easier.