Give me advice. !!

  • kemoze

    Posts: 390

    Jun 26, 2012 6:12 PM GMT
    Hello guys.,

    I would like to tell you guys that :

    1- i have never had sex.
    2- never had gay friends.
    3- never met gay guys in person.

    i will be in istanbul on 30 of june, i know there are some gay bars. and i can meet lots of gay guys there for the first time in my life..

    so, what advice would you guys give to someone who is gonna meet gay guys for the first time? what should i avoid?

    just give me some words of wisdom from your experience for someone looking for

    1- making good friends from the gay community
    2 looking for a serious and long term relationship.

    i have read a lot of forums since i joined realjock in 2010 and it has changed me a lot regarding the gay life style.
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    Jun 26, 2012 6:39 PM GMT
    Avoid the bad gays.
  • franklinstein

    Posts: 90

    Jun 27, 2012 4:16 AM GMT
    ^Yep, also gay guys tend to be very flakey.
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    Jun 27, 2012 4:18 AM GMT
    Don't have sex just to have sex, especially if you want a serious/long term relationship. You want to meet someone who wants you for you, not your body. As good as it feels, its better to have the feelings their first. icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 27, 2012 4:23 AM GMT
    WhyWhySee saidHave condoms just in case.


    True True
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    Jun 27, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    Be confident, be fun, and expect the unexpected.
  • waccamatt

    Posts: 1918

    Jun 27, 2012 4:44 AM GMT
    1) Have a good time and be careful

    2) Being gay is not a "lifestyle", it's an orientation. I always think of "Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous" whenever I hear that term. You get a pass though, since you're a newby. icon_smile.gif

    Are you going to stay in Istanbul or will you have to go back home to Egypt?
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    Jun 27, 2012 4:51 AM GMT
    Be yourself and don't do anything you're not comfortable with. If' you're in an uncomfortable spot with someone, just leave. You don't have to do anything that YOU don't want to. Have fun, be social and just meet others!
  • Suetonius

    Posts: 1842

    Jun 27, 2012 5:58 AM GMT
    kemoze said
    i will be in istanbul on 30 of june, i know there are some gay bars. and i can meet lots of gay guys there for the first time in my life..

    just give me some words of wisdom from your experience for someone looking for
    1- making good friends from the gay community
    2 looking for a serious and long term relationship.

    I thought you were moving to Australia - if so, it would be odd for you to pursue a long term relationship in Turkey.
    What eb925guy said is right on. Hang out with guys you feel very comfortable with - the best way to develop friendships in a new place. Also, if you want sex, you are more likely to have good first experiences if they are with guys you really like as opposed to just hot bodies.