coworker might have asked me out?

  • nefficles

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    Jun 27, 2012 2:02 AM GMT
    i got invited to this festival by my coworker today. I've been very outgoing with him trying to be friends and all. We share a lot of the same interests, and we can talk forever. He also seems to only talk a lot to me. I am not sure if this is because he is shy, or he just feels more comfortable with me.

    Anyways, he is hmong and my hmong coworkers were teaching me naughty words. All the girls know i like him, but he didn't have any idea...till today. One of my friends told me to tell him something in hmong so i did not knowing what it meant. She then said, "it means 'i like you'". He blushed hard haha.

    So back to this festival. I emailed him asking if he was participating in the sports at the festival. He said, "no, but there is a lot to do. food, merchandise, and girls". I responded with "oh okay that sounds fun! However, it sounds kind of pricey, and girls are not really my thing."

    His response was "don't worry i'll treat you".

    We then exchanged numbers and have planned to go out on Saturday.

    what do you guys think?
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    Jun 27, 2012 2:05 AM GMT
    I think you're going to get laid.
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    Jun 27, 2012 2:07 AM GMT
    Oh young love in its infancy, cute and sweet.
    Youre getting some mr, if not a shag then at least a lovely day out with a nice guy.icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 27, 2012 2:14 AM GMT
    jerradwolf saidSo back to this festival. I emailed him asking if he was participating in the sports at the festival. He said, "no, but there is a lot to do. food, merchandise, and girls". I responded with "oh okay that sounds fun! However, it sounds kind of pricey, and girls are not really my thing."

    His response was "don't worry i'll treat you".




    He put the 'girl' thing out there as a feeler and you gave the correct response. Have a great time Saturday.
  • nefficles

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    Jun 27, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    ahhh i hope you guys are right icon_smile.gif

    either way, i plan on having a great day with a great guy

    ps: HE'S IN THE ARMYY AHHHHHH
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    Jun 27, 2012 2:24 AM GMT
    Have fun icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 27, 2012 2:31 AM GMT
    jerradwolf saidahhh i hope you guys are right icon_smile.gif

    either way, i plan on having a great day with a great guy

    ps: HE'S IN THE ARMYY AHHHHHH

    I recall when I spent time in Minneapolis that were a number of instances of cultural misunderstandings between the Hmong and non-Hmong persons, incidents that made the news because of sometimes tragic consequences. Have you considered that his interest in you may represent an ordinary male-to-male interaction by Hmong standards, that has nothing to do with sexual attraction? You might wanna research this so you don't end up making erroneous assumptions that embarrass both of you, and spoil your workplace friendship.
  • nefficles

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    Jun 27, 2012 2:34 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    jerradwolf saidahhh i hope you guys are right icon_smile.gif

    either way, i plan on having a great day with a great guy

    ps: HE'S IN THE ARMYY AHHHHHH

    I recall when I spent time in Minneapolis that were a number of instances of cultural misunderstandings between the Hmong and non-Hmong people, incidents that made the news because of sometimes tragic consequences. Have you considered that his interest in you may represent an ordinary male-to-male interaction by Hmong standards, that has nothing to do with sexual attraction? You might wanna research this so you don't end up making erroneous assumptions that embarrass both of you, and spoil your workplace friendship.


    don't worry, i don't plan on being the assertive one. He will be in full control and if nothing happens, i am perfectly fine with being friends too.

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    Jun 27, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    jerradwolf said
    Art_Deco said
    jerradwolf saidahhh i hope you guys are right icon_smile.gif

    either way, i plan on having a great day with a great guy

    ps: HE'S IN THE ARMYY AHHHHHH

    I recall when I spent time in Minneapolis that were a number of instances of cultural misunderstandings between the Hmong and non-Hmong persons, incidents that made the news because of sometimes tragic consequences. Have you considered that his interest in you may represent an ordinary male-to-male interaction by Hmong standards, that has nothing to do with sexual attraction? You might wanna research this so you don't end up making erroneous assumptions that embarrass both of you, and spoil your workplace friendship.


    don't worry, i don't plan on being the assertive one. He will be in full control and if nothing happens, i am perfectly fine with being friends too.

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    Perfect, and good luck! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 27, 2012 4:20 AM GMT
    jerradwolf saidahhh i hope you guys are right icon_smile.gif

    either way, i plan on having a great day with a great guy

    ps: HE'S IN THE ARMYY AHHHHHH


    Best of luck! I dated a sexy red head who was in the army and let me tell you! icon_redface.gif nothing like peeling him out of that uniform...or uh leaving just his fatigues on and getting nasty.
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    Jun 27, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    OK, I'm confused. Just read your profile and it says you're in a monogamous relationship. I'm editing my response based upon this.

    I think you're approach is right, don't expect anything but to have fun with what sounds to be a nice guy. It will be nice to have met a nice friend. Enjoy and good luck.

    OK, I removed any reference to anything sexual that might happen because it shouldn't...right?
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    Jun 27, 2012 8:13 AM GMT
    Bustamante said
    jerradwolf saidahhh i hope you guys are right icon_smile.gif

    either way, i plan on having a great day with a great guy

    ps: HE'S IN THE ARMYY AHHHHHH


    Best of luck! I dated a sexy red head who was in the army and let me tell you! icon_redface.gif nothing like peeling him out of that uniform...or uh leaving just his fatigues on and getting nasty.


    you dirty boy icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif Lahve the responses to this topic. And I agree with whats his face, that was a great answer icon_razz.gif awwww
  • nefficles

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    Jun 27, 2012 11:20 AM GMT
    eb925guy saidOK, I'm confused. Just read your profile and it says you're in a monogamous relationship. I'm editing my response based upon this.

    I think you're approach is right, don't expect anything but to have fun with what sounds to be a nice guy. It will be nice to have met a nice friend. Enjoy and good luck.

    OK, I removed any reference to anything sexual that might happen because it shouldn't...right?


    Yup I am. I am more asking because I am trying to see what I should expect from this. He is a great guy, but I already have one of those haha. I am still not sure if this guy likes me, but I will not be pushing anything onto him, and I think friends would be best.