How to get a guy to kiss you, the art of seduction.

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    Jun 27, 2012 6:53 AM GMT
    Have you ever been in the position where, your on a date, and the other guy does not make the first move....Then you eventually run out of conversation topics, and the smooching has yet to commence... icon_sad.gif

    If so, I ask those of you that know how to incite a close up to post your wisdom for those of us that well, don't have such vast experience LOL. thanks in advance!
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    Jun 27, 2012 3:11 PM GMT
    Feel the situation, if there is attraction could be the guy is nervous and unsure, doesn't want to make the first move. I just happen to be very forward, I say go in for the smooch. Either he kisses you back or he doesn't either way you expressed yourself and he got the message!! GO for it ;) Mike
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    Jun 27, 2012 3:39 PM GMT
    TY mike !
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    Jun 27, 2012 4:11 PM GMT
    I'm with mikkel: go for the smooch. I've found the words, "I'd really like to kiss you" to be helpful.
  • FRIVER

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    Jun 27, 2012 4:29 PM GMT
    Look at him straight in the eyes, use a gentle smile the rest is just body language..
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    Jun 27, 2012 4:48 PM GMT
    Cenarion saidHave you ever been in the position where, your on a date, and the other guy does not make the first move....Then you eventually run out of conversation topics, and the smooching has yet to commence... icon_sad.gif

    If so, I ask those of you that know how to incite a close up to post your wisdom for those of us that well, don't have such vast experience LOL. thanks in advance!


    This in a nutshell sums up why gay guys (and probably straights too) have such relationship problems. We don't know what else to say so lets jump to the seduction, usually in hopes of scoring a little mattress time because we don't have much else to offer.

    You don't say whether this is a first date or not or whether you are looking for a long term relationship or just a one-night-stand with the date as just a pretense so you don't look like a complete and total whore. No judgement here. Lord knows I've had my share of one-night-stands; I just don't kid myself by pretending it's something it is not. But i digress. For the sake of argument I am going to assume you are hoping this date will lead to a long term relationship.

    If it is a long term relationship you are looking for, what's the rush? If you have run out of things to say or do maybe it is time for the date to come to a close. Maybe you could say something like: "Wow, look at the time! I can't believe how late it is! Man, I've really had a great time but I have an early appointment I cannot be late for. I hope we can do this again very soon. How about ." As you are ending this monologue, lean in and give him a goodnight kiss him on the cheek.

    (N.B., Always let you date know you have an early appointment. That way you always have a ready excuse to call it a night early if the date is not going well. If the date is going well, you can always say that you will cancel the apopointment. Your date will be impressed that you would do that for him).

    If you have run out of things to say and do early in the date, may I suggest you work on making yourself a more interesting person who has something more to offer than a pair of lips and cock. That or find more interesting guys to date.

    In short, a kiss should be a spontaneous show of genuine affection and not a dead air filler in a strained conversation.

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    Jun 27, 2012 4:51 PM GMT
    Roofies.
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    Jun 27, 2012 4:55 PM GMT
    Lick the outside of your lips repeatedly and give him the "come hither" look and he'll take it from there.
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    Jun 27, 2012 5:03 PM GMT
    MadExistence saidLick the outside of your lips repeatedly and give him the "come hither" look and he'll take it from there.


    LMFAO

    You should go to Hollywood and write chick flick screen plays.
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    Jun 27, 2012 5:13 PM GMT
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    MadExistence saidLick the outside of your lips repeatedly and give him the "come hither" look and he'll take it from there.


    LMFAO

    You should go to Hollywood and write chick flick screen plays.


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    Jun 27, 2012 5:19 PM GMT
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    Cenarion saidHave you ever been in the position where, your on a date, and the other guy does not make the first move....Then you eventually run out of conversation topics, and the smooching has yet to commence... icon_sad.gif

    If so, I ask those of you that know how to incite a close up to post your wisdom for those of us that well, don't have such vast experience LOL. thanks in advance!


    This in a nutshell sums up why gay guys (and probably straights too) have such relationship problems. We don't know what else to say so lets jump to the seduction, usually in hopes of scoring a little mattress time because we don't have much else to offer.

    You don't say whether this is a first date or not or whether you are looking for a long term relationship or just a one-night-stand with the date as just a pretense so you don't look like a complete and total whore. No judgement here. Lord knows I've had my share of one-night-stands; I just don't kid myself by pretending it's something it is not. But i digress. For the sake of argument I am going to assume you are hoping this date will lead to a long term relationship.

    If it is a long term relationship you are looking for, what's the rush? If you have run out of things to say or do maybe it is time for the date to come to a close. Maybe you could say something like: "Wow, look at the time! I can't believe how late it is! Man, I've really had a great time but I have an early appointment I cannot be late for. I hope we can do this again very soon. How about ." As you are ending this monologue, lean in and give him a goodnight kiss him on the cheek.

    (N.B., Always let you date know you have an early appointment. That way you always have a ready excuse to call it a night early if the date is not going well. If the date is going well, you can always say that you will cancel the apopointment. Your date will be impressed that you would do that for him).

    If you have run out of things to say and do early in the date, may I suggest you work on making yourself a more interesting person who has something more to offer than a pair of lips and cock. That or find more interesting guys to date.

    In short, a kiss should be a spontaneous show of genuine affection and not a dead air filler in a strained conversation.



    "You don't say whether this is a first date or not or whether you are looking for a long term relationship or just a one-night-stand with the date as just a pretense so you don't look like a complete and total whore."

    Thanks for calling me a whore, to start off. Then I love the hypocrisy "Lord knows I've had my share of one-night-stands", and then to top it off "No judgement here" (oh wait, I just did).
    Moving on, please get into your hot-tub time machine and set the time to "present day" maybe that way you'll join the rest of us in the year 2012. where a kiss in the cheek is great, but also "smooching" or general kissing isn't a pretense to be labeled "a whore".

    Lastly, being seductive is part of an overall healthy relationship with the person you are choosing to share your time with. Oh and btw I never gave you insight as to this date being the first.... but thanks again for calling me a whore. ;) you're quite the lively fellow.
  • ja89

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    Jun 27, 2012 10:20 PM GMT
    MadExistence saidLick the outside of your lips repeatedly and give him the "come hither" look and he'll take it from there.


    OH GOD NO!!!

    My roommate's closeted friend does this to me every time when he's piss drunk and he starts to add in winking. I just laugh in his face every single time. He looks like he's trying give an air rim job but not liking what he's eating haha.
  • ja89

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    Jun 27, 2012 10:23 PM GMT
    I would say just ask. I don't know why but I was most flattered when my date asked if it was alright if he could kiss me. It can't hurt, you get a yes or no and you don't have to worry about playing the guessing game.
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    Jun 27, 2012 10:34 PM GMT
    say it like you mean it
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    Jun 27, 2012 11:33 PM GMT
    Look him in the eye. He'll smile. Reach your hand and carress his shoulder. Get close, within kissing distance and wait. Let him come to you and finish the deal. Always works.
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    Jun 28, 2012 1:45 AM GMT
    Cenarion said
    UndercoverMan said
    Cenarion saidHave you ever been in the position where, your on a date, and the other guy does not make the first move....Then you eventually run out of conversation topics, and the smooching has yet to commence... icon_sad.gif

    If so, I ask those of you that know how to incite a close up to post your wisdom for those of us that well, don't have such vast experience LOL. thanks in advance!


    This in a nutshell sums up why gay guys (and probably straights too) have such relationship problems. We don't know what else to say so lets jump to the seduction, usually in hopes of scoring a little mattress time because we don't have much else to offer.

    You don't say whether this is a first date or not or whether you are looking for a long term relationship or just a one-night-stand with the date as just a pretense so you don't look like a complete and total whore. No judgement here. Lord knows I've had my share of one-night-stands; I just don't kid myself by pretending it's something it is not. But i digress. For the sake of argument I am going to assume you are hoping this date will lead to a long term relationship.

    If it is a long term relationship you are looking for, what's the rush? If you have run out of things to say or do maybe it is time for the date to come to a close. Maybe you could say something like: "Wow, look at the time! I can't believe how late it is! Man, I've really had a great time but I have an early appointment I cannot be late for. I hope we can do this again very soon. How about ." As you are ending this monologue, lean in and give him a goodnight kiss him on the cheek.

    (N.B., Always let you date know you have an early appointment. That way you always have a ready excuse to call it a night early if the date is not going well. If the date is going well, you can always say that you will cancel the apopointment. Your date will be impressed that you would do that for him).

    If you have run out of things to say and do early in the date, may I suggest you work on making yourself a more interesting person who has something more to offer than a pair of lips and cock. That or find more interesting guys to date.

    In short, a kiss should be a spontaneous show of genuine affection and not a dead air filler in a strained conversation.



    "You don't say whether this is a first date or not or whether you are looking for a long term relationship or just a one-night-stand with the date as just a pretense so you don't look like a complete and total whore."

    Thanks for calling me a whore, to start off. Then I love the hypocrisy "Lord knows I've had my share of one-night-stands", and then to top it off "No judgement here" (oh wait, I just did).
    Moving on, please get into your hot-tub time machine and set the time to "present day" maybe that way you'll join the rest of us in the year 2012. where a kiss in the cheek is great, but also "smooching" or general kissing isn't a pretense to be labeled "a whore".

    Lastly, being seductive is part of an overall healthy relationship with the person you are choosing to share your time with. Oh and btw I never gave you insight as to this date being the first.... but thanks again for calling me a whore. ;) you're quite the lively fellow.


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    Jun 28, 2012 1:48 AM GMT
    huhwhat saidLook him in the eye. He'll smile. Reach your hand and carress his shoulder. Get close, within kissing distance and wait. Let him come to you and finish the deal. Always works.



    Yesss...or if you're sitting down you could always suggestingly pat your seat and say come here with a nice smile on your face...then maybe just lightly touch him, grab his hand...icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 28, 2012 2:00 AM GMT
    Have a post-it note with "kiss me" prepared in your wallet. When the time comes, stick it on your forehead.
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    Jun 28, 2012 2:42 AM GMT
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    ChoklitDaddy saidI'm with mikkel: go for the smooch. I've found the words, "I'd really like to kiss you" to be helpful.

    Exactually.
    I can't tell you how many smooches I scored with some variation on "I've been sitting here thinking how much I'd like to kiss you."


    Maybe I'm different, but talking about it ruins it for me.
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    Jun 28, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    TerraFirma saidHave a post-it note with "kiss me" prepared in your wallet. When the time comes, stick it on your forehead.


    I like this idea ^^ I think I'll use it..
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    Jun 28, 2012 3:14 AM GMT
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    Cenarion saidHave you ever been in the position where, your on a date, and the other guy does not make the first move....Then you eventually run out of conversation topics, and the smooching has yet to commence... icon_sad.gif

    If so, I ask those of you that know how to incite a close up to post your wisdom for those of us that well, don't have such vast experience LOL. thanks in advance!


    This in a nutshell sums up why gay guys (and probably straights too) have such relationship problems. We don't know what else to say so lets jump to the seduction, usually in hopes of scoring a little mattress time because we don't have much else to offer.

    You don't say whether this is a first date or not or whether you are looking for a long term relationship or just a one-night-stand with the date as just a pretense so you don't look like a complete and total whore. No judgement here. Lord knows I've had my share of one-night-stands; I just don't kid myself by pretending it's something it is not. But i digress. For the sake of argument I am going to assume you are hoping this date will lead to a long term relationship.

    If it is a long term relationship you are looking for, what's the rush? If you have run out of things to say or do maybe it is time for the date to come to a close. Maybe you could say something like: "Wow, look at the time! I can't believe how late it is! Man, I've really had a great time but I have an early appointment I cannot be late for. I hope we can do this again very soon. How about ." As you are ending this monologue, lean in and give him a goodnight kiss him on the cheek.

    (N.B., Always let you date know you have an early appointment. That way you always have a ready excuse to call it a night early if the date is not going well. If the date is going well, you can always say that you will cancel the apopointment. Your date will be impressed that you would do that for him).

    If you have run out of things to say and do early in the date, may I suggest you work on making yourself a more interesting person who has something more to offer than a pair of lips and cock. That or find more interesting guys to date.

    In short, a kiss should be a spontaneous show of genuine affection and not a dead air filler in a strained conversation.



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  • Mondo_Bongo

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    Jun 28, 2012 3:38 AM GMT
    its very easy..just choose the rite moment, when ur sitting next to him..and u just talk very happily..when u told a funny thing..and he laughed with u. u just get closer to him..then try to put ur arm on his shoulder..just keep talking for a little longer..make him laugh or smile..and u must smile..then when he is laughing..u just stop laughing..getting gentlely moving to his face..kiss on his lips slightly.and still face to his face with a very small distance..wait for him to kiss u again.,,then u just move to put ur tongue in his mouth..
    there a romantic kiss with no embressment....
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    Jul 01, 2012 5:34 AM GMT
    The better ur bodylanguage, the better u can flirt, the way u converse....... Ur eyes should speak..... Kiss comes automatically
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    (Taking notes)
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    May 13, 2013 4:20 PM GMT
    im like an awkward sheldon so i just straight up ask them can i have a kiss? icon_cool.gif