Closeted guy

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    Jun 27, 2012 9:59 PM GMT
    Hey looking for some advice.

    Making this a short summary, meet a guy over a year ago through buying hockey tickets and became really good friends. Came out that I was gay and he is bi. His relationship at the time ended and a few weeks after we started having sex. Just seemed like a natural progression. So we did this hookup buddy stuff for 5 months before I started getting feelings for him. I sat him down and talked about it and he felt the same way.
    Issue is he is not sure about a relationship because that means he would have come out and that scares him (job is in law enforcement and not the most open community). So we ended things which fucking sucked. Then about a week later we got again together and did some more talking. I really like this guy so I suggested that since I'm headig back home for 4 months, for the last month we just keep seeing eachother like we have been and after the 4 months we will look at this again. We both go do our own thing and keep in touch.
    So we have been and I'm heading back in September. He's been texting me alot, good conversation and even said he missed me. But I dont know what to do when I get back. Should I stick It out for a bit before I ask him where's he at? Or should I ask before things get to involved again. Thanks guys

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    Jun 28, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    I find that keeping the communication constant is the way to go. Talk to him. Maybe if he really has feelings for you, he can look past on what others think about about sexuality and concentrate on being with you icon_smile.gif