Would you take your ex back?

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    Jun 28, 2012 4:59 PM GMT
    Why and why not



  • GS27_USC

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    Jun 28, 2012 5:31 PM GMT
    Instinctively, I would say NO.

    Seems like the typical game player. Would depend on the details of course. Is he trying to 'get you back' or just 'hitting you up' for friendship's sake?

    Too vague of a scenario to really give you advice.
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    Jun 28, 2012 7:46 PM GMT
    I would take my ex back, on the mail, in small packages, in pieces.
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    Jun 28, 2012 7:53 PM GMT
    no.

    never.

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    Jun 28, 2012 7:54 PM GMT
    It completely depends on the situation, and the guys personality. If he is flirty and using you, then no. If you are still into him, and he tells you he made a mistake, and you belive he is being genuine and honest, then possibly. My last relationship was really hard to get over. However, now I am.

    My ex showed up uninvited at my sisters grad party a week and a half ago, asking if I still had feelings for him. I told him no and we have to move on. If this was three months ago, I probably would have said yes. However in the last three months I met a great guy and I'm in a relationship sooo, I have moved on. My ex is a really great guy, I don't harbor any anger towards him, he has his faults and so do I, but, break-ups tend to happen for a reason.
  • Buddha

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    Jun 28, 2012 10:13 PM GMT
    It does depend, I know people who married, divorced, but then got together again. And happily, so far. Sometimes people can be "right" for each other, just not at that particular moment.

    But personally, no. I could be friends, but other than that they fulfilled what I wanted out of a relationship then but not now. Sometimes I've thought about if I miss it, but then I realize that I'm just thinking back to those moments; which essentially needs to be taken in context of what kind of person I was then.
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    Jun 28, 2012 11:10 PM GMT
    Some yes, some no.
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    Jun 28, 2012 11:46 PM GMT
    Something I've found: men in general, never forget and seldom forgive. Maybe you're the exception.
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    Jun 29, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    No. We broke up for a reason and don't see myself rehashing the same old things I've already been through.

    I won't lie and say I never hooked up with one of my exes, though icon_redface.gif
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    Jun 29, 2012 6:04 AM GMT
    Depends on the couple. One of my best friends finally got back together with the girl he's meant to be with. Some maturation and personal growth needed to happen. We're all happy they're back together, but there was no guarantee. They probably needed the time.

    So it does happen. Rare though.
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    Jun 29, 2012 8:18 PM GMT
    no

    if the reasons for his breaking it all off are unchanged why would you even consider it?
  • Sportsfan1

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    Jun 29, 2012 8:34 PM GMT
    I can be friendly towards my ex. Not sure I would want to be friends. To answer your question, no I would not take him back. If he ended it once, he will end it again. If you ended it, what is to stop you from ending it again? Every situation is different, every guy is different but in general a relationship ends for not just one reason. What changed? Take it as a learning experience and move on.
  • jboy84

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    Jun 29, 2012 8:35 PM GMT
    Would I take him back? Yes..

    ..back in time. So I never met him. Ha.
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    Jun 29, 2012 8:37 PM GMT
    Hell no!!!! He was abusive toward me and my dog.
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    Jun 29, 2012 8:49 PM GMT
    Yes. But I can't. Because, he doesn't exist =o!
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    Jun 29, 2012 9:09 PM GMT
    No my dog hated him.
  • mizu5

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    Jun 29, 2012 9:10 PM GMT
    funny I ran into 3 last night

    it's pride so everyone out

    And... not even a tinge of my heart strings.

    So no.
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    Jun 29, 2012 9:33 PM GMT
    99% sure I wouldn't, but it would depend why we broke up in the first place really. If nothing has changed and the core reason why he broke up with me hadn't actually been addressed then we would only be getting on this dysfunctional merry go round again. If he just wanted new dick and it didn't work out then any guy worth an ounce of perception would figure it out and kick him back to the curb.
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    Jun 29, 2012 9:54 PM GMT
    Yes Today. No, for another time.
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    Jun 29, 2012 9:55 PM GMT
    NO. We had a good 4 years together but i wasnt in love with him for a while. We are much better off as friends right now.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jun 29, 2012 9:57 PM GMT
    No...and as a matter of fact my very first ex from 26 years ago found me on Facebook and wants to "talk about old times"....icon_confused.gif
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    Jun 29, 2012 10:00 PM GMT
    I could never allow him too deeply into my emotions because I can't believe what he says. He has proven himself to be a master manipulator and deceptive.

    Absolutely not.
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    Jun 29, 2012 10:00 PM GMT
    My shortest reply ever: HELL NO!
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    Jun 30, 2012 1:30 AM GMT
    No. We are still good friends, but we didn't work as boyfriends.
  • ivanuri97

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    Jun 30, 2012 1:32 AM GMT
    NO, to all of them. While they will always have that small place in my heart, they also hurt me, and I've moved on to someone who is beyond what they could ever be!