My dad is so mean

  • Musicman91

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    Jun 29, 2012 2:47 AM GMT
    My dad has been in terrible mood all day so I stayed away from him. I just went down stairs to get a drink and he went off on me for no reason. He told me I am stupid, worthless and should just kill myself because I'll never amount to anything icon_sad.gif I really did not know what to say to him. Now I'm just up in my room wrapped up in my blankets. This is why I hate the summer because I never have anything to do at home. Nobody from my high school talks to me and all my friends from college live 2+ hours away. All I do is work and hang out at home so I'm just stuck here with nobody to go hang with or nowhere to go. Sorry for the pointless rant but I needed somewhere to vent /=
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    Jun 29, 2012 2:49 AM GMT


    *HUGE HUG*
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    Jun 29, 2012 2:51 AM GMT
    Rant as much as you need to. Don't hold that kind of wacked out stuff inside. It isn't true and you should be mad.
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    Jun 29, 2012 2:51 AM GMT
    Kill him; and in the process, tell him you're killing him because - instead of killing yourself - you'd rather kill the origin of yourself...aka, him. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 29, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    That sucks, but there's good people here for you. Lay your rant on us.
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    Jun 29, 2012 2:56 AM GMT
    I know the feeling. My dad used to call me all sorts of names and tell me I couldn't do anything right. Not to mention the pointless beatings for no apparent reason. My only advice is to get out as soon as you possibly can and to remember he's a sick man. His behavior has nothing to do with you.
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    Jun 29, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    MusicMan91 saidMy dad has been in terrible mood all day so I stayed away from him. I just went down stairs to get a drink and he went off on me for no reason. He told me I am stupid, worthless and should just kill myself because I'll never amount to anything icon_sad.gif I really did not know what to say to him. Now I'm just up in my room wrapped up in my blankets. This is why I hate the summer because I never have anything to do at home. Nobody from my high school talks to me and all my friends from college live 2+ hours away. All I do is work and hang out at home so I'm just stuck here with nobody to go hang with or nowhere to go. Sorry for the pointless rant but I needed somewhere to vent /=



    Duuude, that is messed up. You are worthwhile and shouldn't be talked to like that.
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    Jun 29, 2012 3:14 AM GMT
    Feel better. Everyone has awful days and bright days. Just ignore what your dad said. He probably didn't meant it. And if he unfortunately did, disregard those mean words. As for friends, I don't have to many either, especially gay friends. You just have to learn to be by yourself or find something interesting to do.
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    Jun 29, 2012 3:15 AM GMT
    You father is an ASSHOLE. Please don't listen to him. He's just projecting on you the way he feels about himself. You definitely need to work on getting out of there, though.
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    Jun 29, 2012 3:30 AM GMT
    Helios69 saidYou father is an ASSHOLE. Please don't listen to him. He's just projecting on you the way he feels about himself. You definitely need to work on getting out of there, though.



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    Jun 29, 2012 3:44 AM GMT
    I read the OP and thought "wait. Is his dad an RJ member?" Naah couldn't be.

    Living with my dad sucked and he wasn't even a dick like yours is. I know he is your dad and all, but any parent who says stuff like that to their kid instantly makes EVERYONE ELSE IN THE WORLD think his opinion is null and void. It would be good if you could also get yourself to consider everything he says totally baseless.

    Know that if there was a vote, everyone in the world would side with you. He's just a messed up person taking his own issues out on you.

    Until you can get out on your own, you might try what I used to get through that summer: video games.
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    Jun 29, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    Just know that some people are fucked up and don't take anything they say seriously whether they be your parents or not. Growing up we're taught to accept that our parents know best, but once you grow up you realize that they make mistakes just as much as we do. The most important thing is not to take in any negativity and be proud of who you are as a person in this world. icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 29, 2012 3:56 AM GMT
    Tell him this...

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    Jun 29, 2012 3:57 AM GMT
    HUGS* I know how you feel. I've got a fucked up family too... somehow I care for them; though they throw every stone they can at me. May be something wrong with me; cause I've tolerated it this long to no avail... anyhow... get away from your father. He's a negative influence on your life, that can make you depressed, lead to risky behavior and even suicide with they way he's talking to you.
    You're none of the those horrible things he says, he's a stupid asshole, and I'm sure you love him very much, but LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!!! He'll be fine. Don't let him or anyone else bring you down!
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    Jun 29, 2012 3:58 AM GMT
    Jay1922 saidJust know that some people are fucked up and don't take anything they say seriously whether they be your parents or not. Growing up we're taught to accept that our parents know best, but once you grow up you realize that they make mistakes just as much as we do. The most important thing is not to take in any negativity and be proud of who you are as a person in this world. icon_smile.gif


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    Jun 29, 2012 4:27 AM GMT
    JR_RJ said, "He'll be fine. Don't let him or anyone else bring you down!"

    *looks for like button*
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    Jun 29, 2012 4:36 AM GMT
    first: Big freaking hug...know your Dad well: beleive, he'll get all "Cat's in the Cradled" on you in 20 years, if his toxins don't take him out first.

    Second: Type Volunteer into your web browser and get the f out of the house.

    My local fire department is looking for Volunteers this weekend to help with their physical fitness training...
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    Jun 29, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidTell him this...

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    How can you kill people if you don't go to school? icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 29, 2012 4:41 AM GMT
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    jmusmc85 saidTell him this...

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    How can you kill people if you don't go to school? icon_twisted.gif


    Are you stalking me Paul? You sure have been following me around alot.

















































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    Jun 29, 2012 5:44 AM GMT
    MusicMan91 saidMy dad has been in terrible mood all day so I stayed away from him. I just went down stairs to get a drink and he went off on me for no reason. He told me I am stupid, worthless and should just kill myself because I'll never amount to anything icon_sad.gif I really did not know what to say to him. Now I'm just up in my room wrapped up in my blankets. This is why I hate the summer because I never have anything to do at home. Nobody from my high school talks to me and all my friends from college live 2+ hours away. All I do is work and hang out at home so I'm just stuck here with nobody to go hang with or nowhere to go. Sorry for the pointless rant but I needed somewhere to vent /=


    If it is that bad I'd try to find something to do to get you out of the house. Get a summer job, spend more time working out. Find some new friends. Just do what you can to limit your exposure to him if you feel you need to.
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    Jun 29, 2012 9:25 AM GMT
    MusicMan91 saidMy dad has been in terrible mood all day so I stayed away from him. I just went down stairs to get a drink and he went off on me for no reason. He told me I am stupid, worthless and should just kill myself because I'll never amount to anything icon_sad.gif I really did not know what to say to him. Now I'm just up in my room wrapped up in my blankets. This is why I hate the summer because I never have anything to do at home. Nobody from my high school talks to me and all my friends from college live 2+ hours away. All I do is work and hang out at home so I'm just stuck here with nobody to go hang with or nowhere to go. Sorry for the pointless rant but I needed somewhere to vent /=



    I'm sorry to hear that man and i can relate to what you are going through with your dad. My father is a total DICK that has ridiculed me all my life which probably is the reason why our relationship is so estranged.

    You have my support bro. I got ya back icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 29, 2012 10:13 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidTell him this...

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    ahahaha jmusmc you slut......slutty hoe


    seriously though if my dad told me that i would prob never talk to him again
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    Jun 29, 2012 11:14 AM GMT
    Instead staying at home and in your room, could you get a job? I think hospitals hire orderlies even for a summer. Or volunteer at the hospital. Or volunteer somewhere else. You like to talk. Become a tour guide or work on a customer service hotline.

    Doing something would:

    Get you away form your father
    Prove him wrong
    Help your self-esteem
    Allow you to meet new people
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    Jun 29, 2012 11:39 AM GMT
    Helios69 saidYou father is an ASSHOLE. Please don't listen to him. He's just projecting on you the way he feels about himself. You definitely need to work on getting out of there, though.

    Projection may well be what's gonna on here. That, and does he drink? Or even doing drugs, perhaps the prescription pain killer kind?

    That's hateful & irrational behavior, totally unacceptable, and I also agree you need to be out of that toxic environment as much as possible, if not permanently. I realize you may be tethered by money needs, especially for college, but do what you can to minimize your time with him.

    And immunize yourself by knowing that the problem is his, not yours. It's like running across a crazy person in the street. You try not to interact with them, and put distance between you. Nothing you can say or do is gonna change them, so you let them have their street and move away. Sorry, but you may need to do the same thing with your dad.
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    Jun 29, 2012 2:56 PM GMT
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotionally_abusive