sanjose470 saidSometimes you get to a point where you start asking yourself "what am I doing?"
A question that men your age often ask themselves, as they see their 20s running out, and wonder what their life beyond 30 is going to be like.
We tend to view our 20s as our exploratory & planning years, our 30s and beyond as our settled & established years. But as 30 approaches, some of us think: "I'm not ready yet! Is this gonna be the pattern for the rest of my life? I want a second opinion, another chance, more options!"
Do you feel any of that? It's kinda normal. The trick is in realizing that you can keep reinventing yourself your whole life if you want. Which incurs its own risks in terms of instability and more opportunities for new mistakes & failures. But at least you do have a choice, especially for the man who hates ruts, repetition, second-best situations, and boredom, and maybe wants a little adventure and new challenges.