This the Meet & Greet Area >_>?

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    Aug 02, 2008 12:46 AM GMT
    So it has occured to me that viewing gay porn for seven or so years is not really a past-time for straight men. Women are attractive and could be nice to date...but the company of a man is exciting and much more of a turn on. The 'questioning' stage was not a matter of questioning one's sexual preference, moreso it was a matter of questioning the people close to you and the society around you...

    After about a month of thinking it over, I've come to the realization that I may just have to start decorating my closet, because it is unlikely that I'll be coming out anytime soon. Nevertheless, I am content with finally being able admit to myself with a clear mind that "Yes, sir...you are most definately gay."

    Hello all!

    As much as I LOOOOVE sitting down at a computer for hours on end, I have recently (beginning of the previous month), decided to change and pick up some new and potentially healthier habits/activites. I am a rather slim guy, so I'm not trying to 'get big' as I like my frame. I am, however, trying to get rid of a little uneccessary fat in my thighs and stomach. I've been peeking my head around this site and figured it would be a good place to get advice and socialize with more experience individuals.

    Having been a hermit from middle school through high school, I am completely new-ish when it comes to fitness and health. So please bare with me.

    Hope to see you all around the forums! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 02, 2008 1:28 AM GMT
    Coming out to yourself is a big step in the process. Congrats.
  • DCEric

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    Aug 02, 2008 1:33 AM GMT
    You beat me in coming out to myself... and to getting to the gym.. congrats on both!

    /is still new to gym
    //learning here too.
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    Aug 02, 2008 4:20 AM GMT
    Take a deep breath...exhale..... and accept yourself and get on with life. You are not the first nor the last. Get busy living or get busy living a lie.
  • ShawnTX

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    Aug 02, 2008 4:28 AM GMT
    Good for you on your self-realization. Trust me, the hard part is over.

    BTW...I hate the no photo uploaded icon. I know you're in the closet, but upload a piccie...even if it's just your hand/pet/landscape....something.
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    Aug 02, 2008 4:29 AM GMT
    Well, howdy there, iLore!

    I was in the same situation, except I was very overweight, but I know how you feel. Your starting earlier than I did and admitting your sexuality to yourself if a great step toward creating a healthy lifestyle. You're on your way, mister!