Is he into me or what?

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    Jun 30, 2012 8:04 PM GMT
    Hi all, well this one is kinda long thing but need help:

    I met a guy (Middle-eastern), I didn't tell him I'm gay and I don't know that about him either. Since i am from there too, he took my number and we met at cafe. The fist time we met (when he took my number) I was wearing shorts and and a shirt that was revealing my hairy chest. The second time we met he was wearing really short shorts and a T-shirt with nothing under it so you can see his hairy torso under that (yummy icon_razz.gif ). Here where it became awkward when he kept telling me how "handsome" and dark I look with a light skin and how "manly" I look with my body hairy (i'm very hairy my genes are responsible icon_biggrin.gif ) I tried to change the subject but he kept bringing up the same things and even wanted to know everything about my sex life icon_question.gif

    He told me he is conservative and i felt very uncomfortable because I am very liberal. so when he knew he suddenly started acting so "accepting" then after a while we left and I sent him a text for the lovely time we had together.

    Yesterday I was talking to my friend and apparently he was trying to call me but he couldn't so this morning he called and he was kinda mad that I didn't answer him so i told him why and he asked with an upset attitude: WHO WAS HE?
    I told it was SHE not even HE!
    so we are going to meet again to show me around icon_biggrin.gif

    He is dark blond with light blue eyes but he is extremely hairy and kinda stocky (i love it).


    So is he into me or what?

  • franklinstein

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    Jun 30, 2012 11:59 PM GMT
    Yes, he is, but he sounds clingy so just be careful.
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    Jul 01, 2012 2:04 AM GMT
    IndyCub said... Here where it became awkward when he kept telling me how "handsome" and dark I look with a light skin and how "manly" I look with my body hairy ...


    This says everything. I had never had anyone telling me that.
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    Jul 01, 2012 2:26 AM GMT
    Ya like Frank said, be careful. He sounds kinda stalkerish...
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    Jul 01, 2012 2:42 AM GMT
    Hahahahaha
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 01, 2012 2:48 AM GMT
    Sounds interesting, give us a report after the next time or two you get together.

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  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jul 01, 2012 3:36 AM GMT
    Alert!!! This guy sounds controlling, you've just started talking to him and he's already having issues with people that you're talking to on the phone? If you get with him be prepared to possibly give up your social life!
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    Jul 01, 2012 3:44 AM GMT
    Creeper alert.
  • John6311

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    Jul 01, 2012 4:48 AM GMT
    He's middle eastern with blonde hair and blue eyes? The story doesn't add up.....
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    Jul 01, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    He doesn't even know you and already drama? Pass!
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    Jul 01, 2012 5:36 AM GMT
    John6311 saidHe's middle eastern with blonde hair and blue eyes? The story doesn't add up.....


    I was wondering the same thing, maybe he wears a blond wig and blue contact lenses? Hahaha ! icon_lol.gif

    OP, the dude sounds a bit stalkerish/controlling but I have a feeling he totally wants your dick and ass! icon_lol.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 01, 2012 10:43 AM GMT
    John6311 saidHe's middle eastern with blonde hair and blue eyes? The story doesn't add up.....


    Of course it does. The Vikings made it down there centuries ago and left their blue-eyed, blonde-haired genes lying around. Get some hybrid couples making babies and the recessive genes can pop a blue-eyed blonde.
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    Jul 01, 2012 3:47 PM GMT
    hey guys thanks for your answers!
    Well we are going to meet this week but I don't know when, maybe tomorrow after work, i hope icon_cool.gif

    and for the people who were wondering about this odd combination of dark blond hair and blue eye, well the thing is middle-easternism is not a race. in the area you can find all the looks and color shades from the very pale to the very black! there's nothing called middle-eastern race!

    But to be more specific,he originates from northern Turkey on the black sea(and he still considers himself middle-eastern), where there used to be lots of Greek colonies thousands of years ago.

    I promise i will keep you updated icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 01, 2012 5:12 PM GMT
    I see.. I see... A future with no male friends...
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Jul 01, 2012 5:19 PM GMT
    Lash saidYa like Frank said, be careful. He sounds kinda stalkerish...



    ^^ THIS ^^ A great BIG red flag before you even have a 2nd date? Proceed with caution.
  • John6311

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    Jul 02, 2012 3:56 AM GMT
    IndyCub saidhey guys thanks for your answers!
    Well we are going to meet this week but I don't know when, maybe tomorrow after work, i hope icon_cool.gif

    and for the people who were wondering about this odd combination of dark blond hair and blue eye, well the thing is middle-easternism is not a race. in the area you can find all the looks and color shades from the very pale to the very black! there's nothing called middle-eastern race!

    But to be more specific,he originates from northern Turkey on the black sea(and he still considers himself middle-eastern), where there used to be lots of Greek colonies thousands of years ago.

    I promise i will keep you updated icon_biggrin.gif


    Oh of course- all the Turks and Greeks I know have blonde hair and blue eyes. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 02, 2012 4:13 AM GMT
    IndyCub said...
    So is he into me or what?

    No.
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    Jul 02, 2012 4:14 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidYes, he's "into you".

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    That kid looks almost identical to one of the guys I knew in high school.

    Ironically, out of 89 people in my graduating class, he's the ONLY one who didn't make it to our 20 year high school reunion...because he was in jail for money laundering. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 02, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
    It's about time to say goodbye to this friend. He seems a bit off.
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    Jul 03, 2012 12:26 AM GMT
    i met him at a restaurant and WTF!!!

    he, again, kept telling me how handsome and "manly" i look, he even touched my chest hair to feel it. Then we saw a handsome cop and he was checking him out like crazy and admiring his "beauty"!!!
    But when we left he started talking about family life and how he wants to get a "girl" friend and asked me a few times how on earth i am alone and i am handsome and manly(well this point needs discussion because i don't think i am handsome, i'm just an avg cub type of guy)!!!!


    WTF?



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    Jul 03, 2012 12:31 AM GMT
    IndyCub saidi met him at a restaurant and WTF!!!

    he, again, kept telling me how handsome and "manly" i look, he even touched my chest hair to feel it. Then we saw a handsome cop and he was checking him out like crazy and admiring his "beauty"!!!
    But when we left he started talking about family life and how he wants to get a "girl" friend and asked me a few times how on earth i am alone and i am handsome and manly(well this point needs discussion because i don't think i am handsome, i'm just an avg cub type of guy)!!!!


    WTF?






    Closet case?
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    Jul 03, 2012 12:42 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidYes, he's "into you".

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    LOLOLOLOLOL
  • Kipstrdl

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    Aug 11, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    Hapuna said

    Closet case?


    Yeah. sounds like he wants you to tell him that you are gay and that you find him attractive. Unless this happens, I doubt anything further will come of this strange situation.
  • MixedJock91

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    Aug 11, 2012 9:50 PM GMT
    dumb question...reread your post and think really hard on what you just asked.
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    Aug 11, 2012 10:08 PM GMT
    he wanna bum love u sooooo hard....

    just ask....