Guys and oral sex

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    Aug 02, 2008 12:43 PM GMT
    Ok so there's this guy I'm kinda seeing and well we havent really done alot sexually but well, we're getting there

    Im kinda new into actaually practising my sexuality but i need some advice

    Ive never actually gone down on him, but I really do want to, the problem is ive never given a guy oral before, and being a guy I guess I know what he would like but I just wanna know, should I let him cum in my mouth or not,

    I mean would most guys get turned on when they see their partner swallowing their load or would they prefer that they pull back just before cumming, I mean I know I should do watever feels comfortable for me but I just wanna know what would turn him on more


    any suggestions are welcome
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    Aug 03, 2008 6:41 PM GMT
    I wouldn't let him cum in your mouth, especially if it's just someone you're seeing, e.g. not serious.

    While there's a lessened HIV risk with oral vs. anal, it's not 100% and there are plenty of other nasty bugs you can get. Once you know he's close, take your mouth off and stroke him until he shoots. If he objects, you can say that you want to watch him cum.

    In terms of technique, think about what you like and do that. Also ask him what he likes. Despite 100 years of porn videos, we don't intuitively know what each other wants sexually and communication makes it a lot hotter.

    Enjoy!
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    Aug 03, 2008 7:13 PM GMT
    if you are sucking him, cumming in your mouth shouldnt be a problem. The risk with oral is quite low. If you want no risk, you will have to join a monastery.

    Most guys woud prefer to have you take them all the way off.
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    Aug 03, 2008 9:40 PM GMT
    Hello. I am new to this particular site, but right there with you guys! I am looking to meet for possible friendship and later sex if we hit it off. I am clean-CLEAN, drug free, disease free, 58 years old, caucasion, decent looking. I am not shy. I don't mind you writing to me either. I don't get to the web much, but welcome your letters whole-heartedly. My wife is BI and loves to watch! OR it can be just you and me! We are OPEN to your info.!! icon_biggrin.gif PLEASE, by all means, write to me/us: Carl Adams, 128 Kodiak Lane, Jacksonville, AR 72076 We are discreet, so no worries there!
    Hope to hear from you soon! Please, ONLY those SINCERE write to us.
    Thanks!!
    Carl
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    Aug 03, 2008 10:02 PM GMT
    Please be responsible. If you are seeing this person and have waited all this time why not both go get tested and then once you find out he's all clear do what both makes ya happy icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 04, 2008 6:13 PM GMT
    Use your best judgement. When I was dating I would tell the guys well in advance not to cum in my mouth. I only started doing it after I was in a relationship for a while and knew his history.
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    Aug 04, 2008 10:55 PM GMT
    Sex is supposed to be fun and spontaneous

    ... if you're needing to debate with yourself whether you should be doing something or not because ya...Think...It...Might...Not ..be ..safe? icon_confused.gif

    I think ya might wanna just pass on it
    Give him the best BJ of your life and leave a stain on the couch icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 04, 2008 11:29 PM GMT
    No do not let him come in your mouth. I never did such a thing and I contracted HIV from oral sex. If you both want to take this step, and you are thinking of a relationship with the guy then take an HIV test together and get the tests back together.

    If you don't want to take the test, then there are some simple precautions to lessen the risk. Don't brush your teeth before giving a blow job. Rinse your mout out with warm salted water to test for cuts, or put a rubber on the guy and give him a blowjob.

    Oral sex is great fun, but I found it a lot easier to live without it then living with HIV (and certainly a lot less expensive).
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    Aug 06, 2008 7:16 AM GMT
    CarlAdams58 saidHello. I am new to this particular site, but right there with you guys! I am looking to meet for possible friendship and later sex if we hit it off. I am clean-CLEAN, drug free, disease free, 58 years old, caucasion, decent looking. I am not shy. I don't mind you writing to me either. I don't get to the web much, but welcome your letters whole-heartedly. My wife is BI and loves to watch! OR it can be just you and me! We are OPEN to your info.!! icon_biggrin.gif PLEASE, by all means, write to me/us: Carl Adams, 128 Kodiak Lane, Jacksonville, AR 72076 We are discreet, so no worries there!
    Hope to hear from you soon! Please, ONLY those SINCERE write to us.
    Thanks!!
    Carl
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    Aug 06, 2008 7:21 AM GMT
    Ooops! I posted the same one twice. It's 3-days later and well, I am back online. Good for me! I am not much with computers.
    We rec'd our first letter from a guy right here in Jacksonville, Arkansas!
    Hey! Write to us! We are for real and discreet if need be. Like I said, we have money, and can entertain! Feel like life is passing us by...I'll be 60 in a little less than 2-years.
    I'm all for oral sex and agree with the posts. Sores in the mouth leave a guy open to STD's/HIV.
    I'll stop here......going to check this site out more as my friend is here and surfs the web much faster than myself!
    Later guys!
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    Aug 11, 2008 5:45 AM GMT
    I agree that most guys (probably) would want you to finish them off, but don't feel pressured to do it if you would rather not.

    I haven't eaten a load in YEARS, nor have I joined a monastery. Admittedly, a hot time for me would probably put most of y'all to sleep, but that's OK.
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    Jun 03, 2014 12:28 PM GMT
    Hey, man, I'll volunteer for that. I hope you'd want to blow me too. ;-)
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    Jun 03, 2014 5:24 PM GMT
    Premedmuscjock saidHey, man, I'll volunteer for that. I hope you'd want to blow me too. ;-)

    I know your going to go to med school, and you'll be dealing with cadavers, but would you really - really - give a blow job to a corpse? Your guy committed suicide 3 years ago - probably was a bloody mess. Does a ghost give blow jobs? Maybe his being dead had something to do with his reviving dead threads.
    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/03/31/empire-state-building-suicide-jump_n_519490.html
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    Jun 03, 2014 5:45 PM GMT
    DAMN!! Why do guys do shit like that and steal other people's identities, or pics, or whatever? Is it really worth it in the long run?
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    Jun 05, 2014 9:14 AM GMT
    Every one has there own choice to make when it comes to oral sex,,yes we wuold all probaly like to be sucked off and watch as the other guy takes a load in his mouth,,but the taker is the one who has to choose to except the load or jack till it shoots....me I like to suck a guy till there about to shoot,, fterthe first squirt I go in for the kill and suck it all up.