Sneaking a condom on before fucking a guy who only wants to bareback.

  • MadeinMich

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    Jul 01, 2012 5:30 PM GMT
    So there's a hot guy who is interested in sleeping with me but he only bottoms BB. I am dead set against this (for my own reasons, please don't divert your attention away from the main question). I really want him. Is there anyway I could sneak a condom on after we foreplay and then penetrate him? Has anybody ever successfully done this before? If so how? How did you divert his attention from you putting on the rubber? Please I need help!!!!
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    Jul 01, 2012 5:31 PM GMT
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  • Buddha

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    Jul 01, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    He'll probably notice. If he's horny enough he might ignore it.
  • rnch

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    Jul 01, 2012 6:05 PM GMT
    Buddha saidHe'll probably notice. If he's horny enough he might ignore it.




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    IDK why a bttm would object to a condom. The few times that I have bttmed with someone other than my long term guy; I have insisted on the top wearing a condom. I made sure to visually check to see it in place, made NO difference in feelings to me.
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    Jul 01, 2012 6:06 PM GMT
    Sounds like a recipe for strong feelings to vent even through you are making a "deal breaker" unilateral decision to protect the both of you.

    Logically, taking him from behind and/or blindfolding him is the way to do this.

    Be prepared for an angry and emotional scene when he realizes that you're fucking/going to fuck him with the rubber.

    Also, be prepared for an emotionally heartwrenching scene as well. He might see that you really care for him. And, he might also break down and cry because he might have some "baggage" that he's dealing with (especially if he's BB fucking around a lot).

    It might also be a non-issue and you'll both enjoy a good healthy screw.

    "BB vs. condom" is a very emotionally charged issue with strong arguments on both sides.

    Be prepared to have an intimate and powerful conversation instead of (or in addition to) the sex.
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    Jul 01, 2012 6:08 PM GMT
    It's never good when you have to ask how to sneak by something your sexual partner isn't consenting to (even if it's for the quote unquote best and responsible interest of all, he's still not consenting to it).
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    Jul 01, 2012 6:15 PM GMT
    I maintain as long as its connected to my body, it's
    my decision.

    Bottoms who sit on your stomach and block the view of important body parts are in control. They can remove the condom and not notify you because they want to feel the ejaculation.

    It's a dealbreaker for me. Another reason why I don't drink.
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    Jul 01, 2012 6:38 PM GMT
    Why are you letting your dick get in the way of your reason ? With all due respect - you're being a moron.

    If he wants to only bareback - he's probably got HIV ( the chances are 1 in 33- from
    Statistics ) and if a condom breaks or slips - you Are at less risk as a top but you could be open to infection and need PEP.

    If you have to deceive him to fuck him, the cold truth is he doesn't respect you, and is a self absorbed and selfish idiot .

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    Sure you could do far better than such a loser.
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    Jul 01, 2012 9:16 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidIt's never good when you have to ask how to sneak by something your sexual partner isn't consenting to (even if it's for the quote unquote best and responsible interest of all, he's still not consenting to it).


    This.
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  • Timbales

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    Jul 01, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    To me, he'd lose just about all his hotness points after telling me only bottoms bareback. Who knows what's growing in that ass he calls a petri dish.
  • MadeinMich

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    Jul 02, 2012 12:02 AM GMT
    blactor saidWhy are you letting your dick get in the way of your reason ? With all due respect - you're being a moron.

    If he wants to only bareback - he's probably got HIV ( the chances are 1 in 33- from
    Statistics ) and if a condom breaks or slips - you Are at less risk as a top but you could be open to infection and need PEP.

    If you have to deceive him to fuck him, the cold truth is he doesn't respect you, and is a self absorbed and selfish idiot .

    I'm
    Sure you could do far better than such a loser.


    Truth is I have a hard time getting laid in Michigan. Its very narrow and closed minded here. I haven't had a good sexual exprience in a long time and I am horney as fuck. Not to mention this guy really turns me on. I know its a stupid request, just thought that maybe someone could help me. I guess I am just desperate for good sex icon_sad.gif
  • MadeinMich

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    Jul 02, 2012 12:04 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidSounds like a recipe for strong feelings to vent even through you are making a "deal breaker" unilateral decision to protect the both of you.

    Logically, taking him from behind and/or blindfolding him is the way to do this.

    Be prepared for an angry and emotional scene when he realizes that you're fucking/going to fuck him with the rubber.

    Also, be prepared for an emotionally heartwrenching scene as well. He might see that you really care for him. And, he might also break down and cry because he might have some "baggage" that he's dealing with (especially if he's BB fucking around a lot).

    It might also be a non-issue and you'll both enjoy a good healthy screw.

    "BB vs. condom" is a very emotionally charged issue with strong arguments on both sides.

    Be prepared to have an intimate and powerful conversation instead of (or in addition to) the sex.


    Hmmm..Thanks man, but I'm not counting on a deep emotional exchange. Just dick and ass. He's in an open relationship which the sex has died down. So I don't think he would turn to me for emotional support.
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    Jul 02, 2012 8:42 AM GMT
    Poke a hole in one in front of him before taking it out of the wrapper and say that will make it break while you're pounding him for sure, then with slight of hand drop it and replace with a fresh one.
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    Jul 02, 2012 8:52 AM GMT
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    Jul 02, 2012 1:05 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidIt's never good when you have to ask how to sneak by something your sexual partner isn't consenting to (even if it's for the quote unquote best and responsible interest of all, he's still not consenting to it).


    This!

    Be very careful - if you perform a sex act that he didn't consent to - ie protected intercourse - he may have grounds to bring you on charges..

    People feeling "Tricked" can get all bent out of shape - you don't want that kind of shit.
  • Hothouse

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    Jul 02, 2012 1:13 PM GMT
    Spend your time and energy on finding a guy who WANTS you to fuck WITH a condom on.
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    Jul 03, 2012 9:23 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidIt's never good when you have to ask how to sneak by something your sexual partner isn't consenting to (even if it's for the quote unquote best and responsible interest of all, he's still not consenting to it).
    This^^

    Dont attempt to do something when something else was agreed to whatever it maybe. Very unlikely it will end well. Better to walk away if you don't want to do something than trick someone into something.
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    Jul 03, 2012 9:49 PM GMT
    MadeinMich saidSo there's a hot guy who is interested in sleeping with me but he only bottoms BB. I am dead set against this (for my own reasons, please don't divert your attention away from the main question). I really want him. Is there anyway I could sneak a condom on after we foreplay and then penetrate him? Has anybody ever successfully done this before? If so how? How did you divert his attention from you putting on the rubber? Please I need help!!!!

    Have you asked him why he wants BB? I wonder if he's hyper-allergic to latex? If so, suggest he let you try a polyurethane condom, like the durex Avanti, that causes no known allergies, except possibly to any spermicide that's been applied during manufacturing, and that can be wiped off with a damp cloth.

    I've seen videos on how to quickly use a condom one-handed (though have no links). It helps me to have my hand already lubed a bit, since I'll have lubed his ass first. My purpose is simple speed, because I don't wanna spoil the mood, and I'm not trying to conceal it. On the contrary, every bottom from my single days insisted I wear a condom, and some would reach back to feel it as I entered him.
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    Jul 04, 2012 12:48 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    I've seen videos on how to quickly use a condom one-handed (though have no links). It helps me to have my hand already lubed a bit, since I'll have lubed his ass first. My purpose is simple speed, because I don't wanna spoil the mood, and I'm not trying to conceal it. On the contrary, every bottom from my single days insisted I wear a condom, and some would reach back to feel it as I entered him.


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  • MadeinMich

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    Jul 04, 2012 5:26 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    MadeinMich saidSo there's a hot guy who is interested in sleeping with me but he only bottoms BB. I am dead set against this (for my own reasons, please don't divert your attention away from the main question). I really want him. Is there anyway I could sneak a condom on after we foreplay and then penetrate him? Has anybody ever successfully done this before? If so how? How did you divert his attention from you putting on the rubber? Please I need help!!!!

    Have you asked him why he wants BB? I wonder if he's hyper-allergic to latex? If so, suggest he let you try a polyurethane condom, like the durex Avanti, that causes no known allergies, except possibly to any spermicide that's been applied during manufacturing, and that can be wiped off with a damp cloth.

    I've seen videos on how to quickly use a condom one-handed (though have no links). It helps me to have my hand already lubed a bit, since I'll have lubed his ass first. My purpose is simple speed, because I don't wanna spoil the mood, and I'm not trying to conceal it. On the contrary, every bottom from my single days insisted I wear a condom, and some would reach back to feel it as I entered him.


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  • MadeinMich

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    Jul 04, 2012 5:28 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    MadeinMich saidSo there's a hot guy who is interested in sleeping with me but he only bottoms BB. I am dead set against this (for my own reasons, please don't divert your attention away from the main question). I really want him. Is there anyway I could sneak a condom on after we foreplay and then penetrate him? Has anybody ever successfully done this before? If so how? How did you divert his attention from you putting on the rubber? Please I need help!!!!

    Have you asked him why he wants BB? I wonder if he's hyper-allergic to latex? If so, suggest he let you try a polyurethane condom, like the durex Avanti, that causes no known allergies, except possibly to any spermicide that's been applied during manufacturing, and that can be wiped off with a damp cloth.

    I've seen videos on how to quickly use a condom one-handed (though have no links). It helps me to have my hand already lubed a bit, since I'll have lubed his ass first. My purpose is simple speed, because I don't wanna spoil the mood, and I'm not trying to conceal it. On the contrary, every bottom from my single days insisted I wear a condom, and some would reach back to feel it as I entered him.


    Thanks man. Out of all the posts about this topic. This is the most helpful. Could you describe to me how you could recommend I sneak it on though quickly.