Question for Tops.

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    Aug 03, 2008 2:20 PM GMT
    In any top's opinion, do you feel a significant difference between anal sex with a condom and without?
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    Aug 04, 2008 1:52 AM GMT
    Frankly, yes. There is an enormous difference. Unfortunately, the risks are simply too great to indulge in that, except with the most trusted partners. When bottoming, I don't remember much difference. It has been quite a long time, anyway.
  • DanBasil

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    Aug 04, 2008 2:36 AM GMT
    I think there is a lot of difference, but the risks if you are not monogomous are great, so in those cases it's not worth it. But I love the skin on skin feel, but safety is more important.
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Aug 04, 2008 6:20 AM GMT
    YES, so I am really happy when I am with a regular trusted, trusting partner.
    Sadly I just broke up with BF so it's back to using condoms; sigh.
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    Aug 04, 2008 1:21 PM GMT
    I wouldnt know. I have never had unsafe sex.
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    Aug 07, 2008 7:26 PM GMT
    Yes, definitely yes. After we were together for five years, we threw out the condoms. For a while though I had a problem with cumming to quickly due to sex being a lot more sensitive.
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    Aug 07, 2008 7:38 PM GMT
    yes defiantely a difference. less sensitive with a condom on....
  • gr8hands4you

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    Aug 07, 2008 7:48 PM GMT
    Yes, Ashame but true.
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    Aug 07, 2008 8:35 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidJust buy yourselves one of those fleshlights.

    Of course for us homos we would purchase the anal version, not the vaginal version. icon_smile.gif
    They make a vaginal version? That's SICK!
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    Aug 07, 2008 8:44 PM GMT
    Of course it feels better without a condom. Much better.

    And FYI, it's only "unsafe sex" if one or the other participant has a STD. Otherwise, it's just plain sex. I've been having it with my partner for 32 years.
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    Aug 08, 2008 10:32 PM GMT
    JohnnieRayRousseau saidOf course it feels better without a condom. Much better.

    And FYI, it's only "unsafe sex" if one or the other participant has a STD. Otherwise, it's just plain sex. I've been having it with my partner for 32 years.

    It actually should be known as "safer" sex, since there is a tiny risk, even if you use a condom. This isn't meant to stigmatize us poz guys, just to remind folks not to be fooled by terms like "safe" sex.