Itsway2fun saidI love hearing from younger guys. What freaks me out is that so many young gay guys are baristas, "models", changing their career for the 23rd time, or just unemployed. That lifestyle might suit a young guy, but to an old fart like me it scares me. I'm all for carpe diem, but lots of young guys these days are pushing the edge of my envelope.
("Kids these days," muttered the old man...)
lol, says the old man who looks hotter than most 20 year olds...
"boo you whore, muttered the jealous youngster" hehe
but I think you need to realize that as a youth we want to try and experience everything, and find our niche. hence the many jobs and experiences. I think the worst thing is to never try anything or always wonder about something, so why not do it.
I do however agree nonetheless I think to much moving around is due to unsureity and insecurity.
I work for a non profit organization with kids all day and it is satisfying, and I am a published author and I write stories in my freetime. When I am not hanging with people I love or working on my body. (gay romances of course which I write) Aside from going to school for social work. I am content with just that.
I think the gay boy of today is just all over the place. They want everything to a point where the good stuff, the simple stuff is not appreciated then as they get older they wonder..damn, I had a good thing and did not even realize it.
but that is everything these days. I remember when I wanted to speak to someone I picked up the phone and spoke, rather than texting for 30 mins something you could have said in a 60 sec phone call.
I worked for Verizon for a year until I quit and just got a cell phone. 3 weeks ago.
Everything has to be new, fast, shiny, cool
I just appreciate simple things.
God I want an older man. I could not be with a guy my age, unless he is similar to me.
is it weird that at 22, i just want to be married with a kid working a 9 to 5 coming home to my hubby, make a little love, talk and cuddle.
I feel like I should be 40 instead of 22 lol.