Daddy/boy/ old/young relationship

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    Jul 04, 2012 1:50 AM GMT
    I met a guy that found me through my facebook account. He's 25, really hot and I'm 50. We've only chatted and exchanged pics. He's anxious to meet and have a daddy/boy relationship. I've never been in that with anyone. I'm a little concerned about the age difference and that he'll get frustrated that I'm not on top of him 3 times a day.

    I doubt how long this relationship would last and prefer something long-term.

    Should I just have fun and see how it goes? Anyone else in this type of relationship? Can I get some opinions or advice?
  • Buddha

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    Jul 04, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    I say have fun and see where it goes icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:06 AM GMT
    Keep em around..until he starts asking you to pay for his student loans icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    personally i say...do it!. see where it goes, and be thankful... icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:10 AM GMT
    If you're so worried about dating someone half your age that you have to post a thread about it on a forum that you have never been active on before, then you're not ready for a relationship with someone half your age.
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    BTW, this should be in the "Dating & Relationships" forum.
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:12 AM GMT
    Buddha saidI say have fun and see where it goes icon_biggrin.gif

    I second this. Just be smart and meet in a public place first. Keep some kind of "trail" on where you're going and who you're meeting with.
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:15 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    Buddha saidI say have fun and see where it goes icon_biggrin.gif

    I second this. Just be smart and meet in a public place first. Keep some kind of "trail" on where you're going and who you're meeting with.
    Good advice. Even 12 year olds have been convicted of murder. Meeting publicly is the only way I'll meet someone online...even if he's as hot as GAMRican (whom I"ve already met in person..in a public place). icon_biggrin.gif

    ...and would meet in a private place if he offered. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 04, 2012 6:03 AM GMT
    Thanks a million guys!! I really appreciate it. I'm so out to lunch.

    I'm not so much worried about my safety. I just don't like rushing into anything - never have been.
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    Jul 04, 2012 6:36 AM GMT
    Upload the sex tape plz. I need it for science.
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    Jul 04, 2012 2:34 PM GMT
    Hey, I can't help but reply...

    I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year and a half. He's 46, and I'm 23. Despite our anxieties over the age gap, we TOTALLY click and are perfect together. I say give it a chance. I had to fight pretty hard to get my man to get over the age thing, but once we both embraced it more whole-heartedly, it was near perfect.
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    Jul 04, 2012 4:13 PM GMT
    Thanks for this thread. As a 50 year old myself, I get attention from guys in their 20s and 30s and wonder how long it would last. Sounds like I need to relax like the OP!
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    Jul 05, 2012 7:08 PM GMT
    I love watching daddy/boy porn. So horny,esp bareback!
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:28 PM GMT

    Update... we met up last night. He wanted to get to the point which was my pants - I fell for it.He was scrumptious and completely at my command. I've never felt anything like it. There won't be a sex tape, and I'm not sure there will be much else to this relationship since I got the feeling he's not much into conversation or much else.
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:34 PM GMT
    Congrats on the hot fucking. Sucks about the fuck-onlyness and moreso about the lack of exhibitionism.
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    Jul 06, 2012 12:00 AM GMT
    Bustin said
    Update... we met up last night. He wanted to get to the point which was my pants - I fell for it.He was scrumptious and completely at my command. I've never felt anything like it. There won't be a sex tape, and I'm not sure there will be much else to this relationship since I got the feeling he's not much into conversation or much else.


    A book perhaps - the 50 shades of Bustin?
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    Jul 06, 2012 1:18 AM GMT
    Honestly for me I love older guys, but I think as long as your relationship is based on more than just sex then it will go fine...

    but if that is all it is about, then yeah it would be an issue.
    I hope there is more to it than that,

    but also just because we are young doesnt mean we are sexual freaks. SOme of us don't want it all the time.
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    Jul 06, 2012 1:49 AM GMT
    JamieFromTheA said, "
    but also just because we are young doesnt mean we are sexual freaks. SOme of us don't want it all the time."

    I think it's not being a sexual freak but having a rather large appetite. This can be really fine when you're the object of such affections. Well so I've heard. *looks at floor*

    .....aaaaaaaaaaaand I think I just said too much, lol!

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    PS and it's at any age.
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    Jul 06, 2012 3:10 AM GMT
    I didn't mean to imply young guys are sexual freaks. I"m kind of a freak myself. It's just that I like someone that has something to say when we lay on the couch and have a beer or some dinner, whatever, ya know?
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    Jul 06, 2012 3:17 AM GMT
    Bustin saidI didn't mean to imply young guys are sexual freaks. I"m kind of a freak myself. It's just that I like someone that has something to say when we lay on the couch and have a beer or some dinner, whatever, ya know?


    Well of course...who doesn't, but that may be your faux pas. I mean it sounds to me like kind of an oxymoron.

    I mean you like him because he is hott, and young and sexual, but when that is all he gives you..you don't like just that. Atleast that is how it sounds.

    You are better than that, no matter how hott the guy is, you deserve a guy who would talk and chill and just want to be with you.


    It's funny listening to this, because guys my age only want sex..while I wish I could just find a guy who I could be intimate with but also talk to and just.. be around. Listening to him talk, telling me about his day and interest.

    I know for me, good conversation in like an orgasm of the mind hehe. I wish i could find a guy who has a deep thought or something more to offer than sex..which is why I tend to go for older men, because they are deeper and more mature.


    I really think younger is not for you, unless you find those rare ones like me..who want sex, but alot more than just that.

    sorry for the long reply.
    but you should want more, and you deserve more.

    To be honest with you..your a fantasy come true. Nothing more. I myself and many other gay youngins I know want that. I even wrote a book about that dynamic. An older experienced daddy to control me and to be my master. Like you stated, he was excited. Why...because your a fantasy.

    It's not something that is going to develope. Please don't get invested. Like I said you deserve more. You are a real person, not some hot daddy to satisy some sexualized delusion.
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    Jul 06, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    I love hearing from younger guys. What freaks me out is that so many young gay guys are baristas, "models", changing their career for the 23rd time, or just unemployed. That lifestyle might suit a young guy, but to an old fart like me it scares me. I'm all for carpe diem, but lots of young guys these days are pushing the edge of my envelope.

    ("Kids these days," muttered the old man...)

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    Jul 06, 2012 4:53 AM GMT
    Itsway2fun saidI love hearing from younger guys. What freaks me out is that so many young gay guys are baristas, "models", changing their career for the 23rd time, or just unemployed. That lifestyle might suit a young guy, but to an old fart like me it scares me. I'm all for carpe diem, but lots of young guys these days are pushing the edge of my envelope.

    ("Kids these days," muttered the old man...)



    lol, says the old man who looks hotter than most 20 year olds...

    "boo you whore, muttered the jealous youngster" hehe

    but I think you need to realize that as a youth we want to try and experience everything, and find our niche. hence the many jobs and experiences. I think the worst thing is to never try anything or always wonder about something, so why not do it.

    I do however agree nonetheless I think to much moving around is due to unsureity and insecurity.

    I work for a non profit organization with kids all day and it is satisfying, and I am a published author and I write stories in my freetime. When I am not hanging with people I love or working on my body. (gay romances of course which I write) Aside from going to school for social work. I am content with just that.

    I think the gay boy of today is just all over the place. They want everything to a point where the good stuff, the simple stuff is not appreciated then as they get older they wonder..damn, I had a good thing and did not even realize it.

    but that is everything these days. I remember when I wanted to speak to someone I picked up the phone and spoke, rather than texting for 30 mins something you could have said in a 60 sec phone call.

    I worked for Verizon for a year until I quit and just got a cell phone. 3 weeks ago.

    Everything has to be new, fast, shiny, cool

    I just appreciate simple things.


    God I want an older man. I could not be with a guy my age, unless he is similar to me.

    is it weird that at 22, i just want to be married with a kid working a 9 to 5 coming home to my hubby, make a little love, talk and cuddle.

    I feel like I should be 40 instead of 22 lol.
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    Jul 06, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA saidbut also just because we are young doesnt mean we are sexual freaks. SOme of us don't want it all the time.
    That's because you haven't sexually matured yet. Once you're in your 30's and 40's you'll want it every day. icon_razz.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 06, 2012 5:19 AM GMT
    You mean it will still work once im 40

    lol j/k, I always heard the myth though that sexual peak is around 18...so I don't know. One minute they say its true next its not.

    Paul you may just be a slut...icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 07, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    With all due respect, I think you are missing the point.

    By applying myself a little bit in the early years I have positioned myself for a lifetime of exploration. If you eat the entire cake before are 30, you will starve by the time you reach my age.

    I'm not rich, but I'm secure. And the sacrifices I made to get here were pretty minimal. But young guys these days seem to think even that is too much. Good luck to them.

    God, I sound like an old fart.