My friends GF is jealous of out friendship

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    Jul 04, 2012 1:07 PM GMT
    One of my best friends girlfriend is jealous of my friendship with her boyfriend. They are in a long distance relationship and I think its not working out too well. She has told my friend countless times that she thinks I have replaced her but I thought she was joking. Now she is coming to visit him tmr and he wants me to meet her. Its gonna feel a lil awkward to me cuz I know she's said these things but doesnt know if she meant it. Am I just overthinking the situation or what??
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    Jul 04, 2012 1:29 PM GMT
    His girlfriend sounds like a controlling bitch.
  • Bunjamon

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    Jul 04, 2012 1:46 PM GMT
    If your friend wants you to meet her, then meet her, if only so that you are better equipped to stage an intervention at a future date.
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    Jul 04, 2012 1:49 PM GMT
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  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 04, 2012 1:50 PM GMT
    I'd meet her and do your best to keep the atmosphere relaxed and comfortable
    (if possible). I'd also not turn it into a she/ you discussion with your friend.
    Do your best to be a friend to him and not raise tensions (and keep your nose out of his relationship with her unless he asks you your opinion)
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:20 PM GMT
    Meeting her may bring a sense of trust to her view of your friendship with her bf.
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:21 PM GMT
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    it's a little suspicious. I can see where she's coming from.
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    Jul 04, 2012 5:55 PM GMT
    Your loyalty lies with your friend, not his succubus. Side with him and do what he wants you to do, not what she might want you to do. If he wants you to meet her, I'd say go ahead and meet her.
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    Jul 04, 2012 6:00 PM GMT
    I've been in this situation man. Be very forward with her, make it clear you're not interested in her bf and you two are only friends. I lost my best friend because of his jealous ass girlfriend only to get him back 6 months later after they broke up.
  • LJay

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    Jul 04, 2012 6:24 PM GMT
    Whether the post is legit or not, it still astounds me that women can't realize that two guys being friends is often like Freud's cigar being a cigar.
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    Jul 04, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
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    YUP.
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    Jul 04, 2012 6:39 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidHis girlfriend sounds like a controlling bitch.

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    Jul 04, 2012 6:55 PM GMT
    happens to me enough to know..just roll with it. Friendships outlast most relationships, especially long-distance ones.
  • rnch

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    Jul 04, 2012 7:35 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidI'd meet her and do your best to keep the atmosphere relaxed and comfortable
    (if possible). I'd also not turn it into a she/ you discussion with your friend.
    Do your best to be a friend to him and not raise tensions (and keep your nose out of his relationship with her unless he asks you your opinion)





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    Jul 04, 2012 7:36 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes saidHis girlfriend sounds like a controlling bitch.

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    Jul 04, 2012 8:37 PM GMT
    Felicidado saidhappens to me enough to know..just roll with it. Friendships outlast most relationships, especially long-distance ones.


    amen
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    Jul 05, 2012 3:40 AM GMT
    thanks everyone for the advice...really appreciate it all!
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    Jul 05, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    tell her to remove the sand from her vagina and get over it tbh
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    Jul 05, 2012 3:50 AM GMT
    Ckfeezy saidI've been in this situation man. Be very forward with her, make it clear you're not interested in her bf and you two are only friends. I lost my best friend because of his jealous ass girlfriend only to get him back 6 months later after they broke up.
    yea I agree with u but I almost feel like he tries to throw it in her face and make her jealous...