Chaser, PLEASE listen to the advice here!!!! Please don't ever fool yourself into thinking a BF will complete you. Take your time and work on you, You have to be comfortable with yourself before you find happiness with a guy. Trust me, I have had several BF's and all of them have helped me realize the type of men that I like. Take your time, date, go out, have some meaningless hookup sex, see what types of guys are out there before you drag him out to pick out china.