Met a guy. Says he "Loves me" on second date...

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    Jul 05, 2012 4:57 AM GMT
    Dear Real Jock,

    So, I'm being 100% serious here. I met a guy on M-Harmony (Manhunt) Fucked like bunnies one night. Went to the movies the second day. Then while in bed the second night, he says he loves me while cuddling. I kinda just lay there and ignored him. I didn't say anything to him. A few weeks later we met again. Did the dirty, he says he loves me AGAIN. I ignored him again. This is kinda creepy. I certainly don't love him or have even led him on to believe that we are in love. I thought it was just a quickie. But he certainly seems to think otherwise. Should I confront him about it? Ignore him altogether? I talked to a few people about this who have different views. All I know is 100% he said "I Love You" and there was no mistaking what he meant.


    -Weirded out in Washington.

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    Jul 05, 2012 4:59 AM GMT
    LOL! Something like this would highly alarm me, so I wouldn't hesitate to say something to him. I don't think you can afford to ignore him and hope he gets the hint. Dude needs to know for sure where you stand.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
    pocketnico saidLOL! Something like this would highly alarm me, so I wouldn't hesitate to say something to him. I don't think you can afford to ignore him and hope he gets the hint. Dude needs to know for sure where you stand.


    As much as I like flame wars here, I don't really like getting involved in conflict in RL. But yeah, he texted me last night and I ignored him till late this afternoon. I said I was "busy". I don't understand what kinda person would say I love you to a relative stranger.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    You must be good in bed....!!!

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    Jul 05, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    drop that shit like a bad habit unless you want your skin to end up being used as a lamp shade!
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:02 AM GMT
    Hapuna saidYou must be good in bed....!!!



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    Jul 05, 2012 5:02 AM GMT
    Some things you have to confront directly, and this is definitely one of those things. I have no idea if this guy can seriously fall in love so quickly or perhaps he's just getting confused with an intense infatuation. Nevertheless, it's a bit crazy. I know I wouldn't be able to handle that and would put the matter to rest right away.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:03 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    Hapuna saidYou must be good in bed....!!!



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    Jul 05, 2012 5:03 AM GMT
    Oh god. Twice is too much. If he's just a fwb (if that's what you're looking for in the first place) then he needs to know.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:03 AM GMT
    I love everyone until they cross me.

    Then again, I have completely different feelings between love and lust.

    If we were banging each other, I'd be more inclined to say "I lust you." icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:05 AM GMT
    I had the exact same thing but didn't want to make a forum, so I'm glad you did haha.

    I met this guy on grindr while I was in Denver, great looking air force guy with a body to die for. Fucked like bunnies too lol..
    He went to Germany 2 days later for 6 months which sucks. I kept jokingly messaging him for a few days. Then one night at 4 am his time (10am my time) he messaged me telling me he loved me and really wants a boyfriend. I was shocked, he was such a great guy but we ever since that night we had only talked about how great the sex was lmao.
    That's still pretty much all we talk about, so I took his "I love you" with a pinch of salt and i'm keeping my options open still.

    I think we're in lust with each other, that's it
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    Be gentle, sincere, kind, and honest, and tell him zip it bitch, you're the man I'm fucking not the man I'm gonna marry.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    In my experience, if a guy says "I love you" that soon:

    RUN from that crazy bitch.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    Seriously, you must have a hell of butt hole to have a guy fall for you instantly icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    and I told him "how can you love me if you don't know me that well" he said something like "what's wrong with me wanting you". Further defending my previous assumption that he lusts me.

    I topped him lol, I thought he was a top until we got naked and he basically planted me on his back..
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    Tell him that you have herpes and then ask him if he still loves you... if he says no, then tell him that was a test and he failed. If he says yes, then say that you're moving away and your numbers got changed due to a meteorite destroying your phones.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:09 AM GMT
    If after a movie and two nights of fucking like bunnies he's fallen in love with you, it probably won't take much for him to fall in love with the next guy.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:12 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidIf after a movie and two nights of fucking like bunnies he's fallen in love with you, it probably won't take much for him to fall in love with the next guy.


    Preach brother.
  • TheBizMan

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    Jul 05, 2012 5:14 AM GMT
    Tell that mofo to hush.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:14 AM GMT
    I just thought he REALLY liked the Hunger Games.....icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:15 AM GMT
    MarkRoger saidTell him that you have herpes and then ask him if he still loves you... if he says no, then tell him that was a test and he failed. If he says yes, then say that you're moving away and your numbers got changed due to a meteorite destroying your phones.


    Haha until he says, No way! Me Too! It's meant to be.
  • Havasu

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    Jul 05, 2012 5:15 AM GMT
    I've had a couple guys say "I love you" on like the first or second date over the years. They pretty much all fell out of love just as fast. You know the saying, easy come, easy go. So there's a decent chance he'll just get over it and quickly fall in love with the next guy.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidI just thought he REALLY liked the Hunger Games.....icon_neutral.gif


    There needs to be a porn flick called The Hung-In-Her Games.
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    MarkRoger saidTell him that you have herpes and then ask him if he still loves you... if he says no, then tell him that was a test and he failed. If he says yes, then say that you're moving away and your numbers got changed due to a meteorite destroying your phones.


    Do you NEVER want me to have sex in this town again???
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    Jul 05, 2012 5:17 AM GMT
    getnassty saiddrop that shit like a bad habit unless you want your skin to end up being used as a lamp shade!


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    Get the HELL out of dodge!