Ever been afraid to fall in love with someone? How did it turn out?

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    Jul 05, 2012 7:41 AM GMT
    I've been afraid numerous times and abandoned the guys entirely in every situation. Is this unusual?
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    Jul 05, 2012 8:07 AM GMT
    Sustenance saidI've been afraid numerous times and abandoned the guys entirely in every situation. Is this unusual?


    Afraid of commitment isn't rare at all but for everyone (with commitment issues) it has a differend cause, could be they were abondened themselves or saw/experienced a terrible relationship etc... Some people naturally like hookups others find themselves doing hookups because they fear "love"

    I believe you first need to find out why you fear 'love'...
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    Jul 05, 2012 8:15 AM GMT
    I certainly was, but I couldnt really avoid it, as much as I tried.. it caused me a lot of heart ache, but I rather just be in touch with my feelings than try to bottle everything u and have it have bad effects on my life over all.... things got better with the person in question once I stopped bottling it up.. as much as it distressed me, it actually improved my relationships there, since "running away" was not an option..and "running away" is really no way to treat somebody, in my opinion
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    Jul 05, 2012 8:23 AM GMT


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  • efier698

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    Jul 05, 2012 9:08 AM GMT
    but I rather just be in touch with my feelings than try to bottle everything u and have it have bad effects on my life over all.
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    Jul 05, 2012 1:14 PM GMT
    Fear causes pain, our greatest teacher in life. So many of us anesthetize to no longer feel pain. If you wait long enough through pain you recognize fear, and the recognition is one step closer to comprehension. When we comprehend what fear controls us, we finally heal.
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    Jul 06, 2012 4:11 AM GMT
    I am afraid to fall in love, but not even because I fear love, but because I fear the pain it can cause and the heartbreak.

    In a world of dometic abuse being so high and divorce being even higher. I couldnt bear to be broken like that. It's weird, it is like I want it so badly but am afraid of it.

    I know it isn;t love I fear, but once I feel it, I think I would pull back.
    I hope I can overcome it.

    btw listen to HawkEyez this guy is amazing.
  • viceman

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    Jul 06, 2012 8:52 AM GMT

    Really great like!


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