Coming inside your partner, bareback

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    Jul 05, 2012 7:17 PM GMT
    A friend of mine barebacked me for the first time a week ago. I loved the feeling of his cum inside me.

    The next day I felt incredibly horny and put this down to having absorbed his qi.

    Anyone else know what I am talking about?

    Without wishing to sound too sordid I think there is a lot to be said for partners coming inside each other, rather than one being top and the other bottom.

    (edited, I stand by my comments. The question I ask is whether other guys relate to feeling ENERGISED when their partner has come inside them? The point about both partners coming inside each other is important because if only one comes inside the other then there is an imbalance of qi. One gains and the other loses. Relationships thrive when there is a sense of harmony and equality and personally I think this must occur in sex too.)
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    Jul 05, 2012 7:26 PM GMT
    you lost me at qi.
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    Quoting the song lyrice of "The Temptations" from almost 45 years ago: "It's just my 'magination, runnin' 'way with me....."



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    Jul 05, 2012 8:37 PM GMT
    jonplondon saidA friend of mine barebacked me for the first time a week ago. I loved the feeling of his cum inside me.

    The next day I felt incredibly horny and put this down to having absorbed his qi.

    Anyone else know what I am talking about?

    Without wishing to sound too sordid I think there is a lot to be said for partners coming inside each other, rather than one being top and the other bottom.


    Oh look the loony bin has arrived on RJ once more

    Barebottoming = HIV
    Baretopping = quite possible HIV
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    Jul 05, 2012 8:39 PM GMT
    jonplondon said
    The next day I felt incredibly horny and put this down to having absorbed his qi.


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    I'm gonna have a lot of use for this gif.

    I don't know, coming inside for me personally is a lot about just the primal aspect of it. I wouldn't do it with just anyone though.
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    jon, you are taking a ridiculous risk. Stop.
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    Jul 05, 2012 9:50 PM GMT
    OK guys you have had your fun and yes I admit my post was clumsily written.

    Being new to this forum I didn't realize the poisened tongues that were around, though perhaps I should have known better.

    'Qi' is a completely valid concept. It means 'universal life energy' and it is simply the energy that runs through everything, including humans.

    The Taoists relate the concept of 'qi' to sex and put simply they realize that when you ejaculate you lose qi. This over time becomes debilitating, leads to premature ageing and weakens the immune system.

    I accept this is a very hard thing for most gay men to comprehend because they are fed a diet of porn where everyone comes and nobody has to deal with the consequences. Pure fantasy.

    I can tell you with 100% certainty that I am better off, more physically and psychologically fit than I have ever been- for not coming!

    But yet I crave intimacy.

    It is also perfectly valid to want to experience the ultimate intimacy with another man. The fact that HIV exists of course makes the practise much harder but I for one am a bit sick of playing it safe and not truly connecting to my partner. I would never had said that in my 20s because I was utterly scared of becoming infected. But I recognize that at 36 all these years of fear have taken me to a brick wall. It is time to re-assess the beliefs that have led me here.

    I seek a man who wants the same, who wants horny, passionate sex but who is trustworthy and mature to communicate honestly with me and committed to the same thing as I am. I shall persevere.

    Barebottoming = HIV
    Baretopping = quite possible HIV

    don't get it sorry???

    Besides I simply want to experience sober and responsibly something that probably 1000s of guys around the world experience in a state of being drug-fucked and in denial on Sunday morning after a night out clubbing. Now that is loony-bin behaviour.

    Enough. I have learnt my lesson and likewise you lot will do well to consider what I have to say.



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    Jul 05, 2012 10:00 PM GMT
    jonplondon saidOK guys you have had your fun and yes I admit my post was clumsily written.

    Being new to this forum I didn't realize the poisened tongues that were around, though perhaps I should have known better.

    'Qi' is a completely valid concept. It means 'universal life energy' and it is simply the energy that runs through everything, including humans.

    The Taoists relate the concept of 'qi' to sex and put simply they realize that when you ejaculate you lose qi. This over time becomes debilitating, leads to premature ageing and weakens the immune system.

    I accept this is a very hard thing for most gay men to comprehend because they are fed a diet of porn where everyone comes and nobody has to deal with the consequences. Pure fantasy.

    I can tell you with 100% certainty that I am better off, more physically and psychologically fit than I have ever been- for not coming!

    But yet I crave intimacy.

    It is also perfectly valid to want to experience the ultimate intimacy with another man. The fact that HIV exists of course makes the practise much harder but I for one am a bit sick of playing it safe and not truly connecting to my partner. I would never had said that in my 20s because I was utterly scared of becoming infected. But I recognize that at 36 all these years of fear have taken me to a brick wall. It is time to re-assess the beliefs that have led me here.

    I seek a man who wants the same, who wants horny, passionate sex but who is trustworthy and mature to communicate honestly with me and committed to the same thing as I am. I shall persevere.

    Barebottoming = HIV
    Baretopping = quite possible HIV

    don't get it sorry???

    Besides I simply want to experience sober and responsibly something that probably 1000s of guys around the world experience in a state of being drug-fucked and in denial on Sunday morning after a night out clubbing. Now that is loony-bin behaviour.

    Enough. I have learnt my lesson and likewise you lot will do well to consider what I have to say.





    Jon I would like to apologize for these people. You ask a simple question and they go all around with negative answers and needless bitchyness.

    Ironically when I posted a topic on being postive or negative..most people here said they are Positive in Personality...icon_rolleyes.gif,anyway,

    I think that bareback is beautiful and if you care enough about your partner to expose yourself to them in that way than more power to you. I do however as well as men in love said is concerned with you.

    Please before you do that, get tested or something. Being one with a person is not worth your health.

    i want someone who will live for me, not die for me. I think that would be amazing.. I havent done it yet, which is one of the reason I take sex so highly and seriously. I want that cherished moment of freedom, combined with trust, love and passion. I am waiting for that one person because I don't plan on using protection.

    I think condoms are something we really should not need, but since more often than not, people dont want to wait, and are not "wise" about what they do and who they do it with. Condoms are necessary.

    Even you said a "friend", so with that being casual I assume can be dangerous.

    Just be wise, get tested and have him do the same. If you trust each other to be exclusive to each other there should be no problem. You can bareback all you want, as long as you are sure it is safe.

    It seems scary how we can sleep with people but deep down are afraid they may have something..so we use condoms. I am sorry but if i have sex with someone there is not going to be one, because i will know in my heart they are clean.
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    Jul 05, 2012 10:04 PM GMT

    "The Taoists relate the concept of 'qi' to sex and put simply they realize that when you ejaculate you lose qi. This over time becomes debilitating, leads to premature ageing and weakens the immune system."

    That's a depressing thought, and I'd like to see hard stats to back that up.

    "I seek a man who wants the same, who wants horny, passionate sex but who is trustworthy and mature to communicate honestly with me and committed to the same thing as I am. I shall persevere."

    This I can agree with, because we achieved it. In the meantime, STOP
    barebacking with friends!

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    Jul 05, 2012 10:05 PM GMT
    jonplondon said'Qi' is a completely valid concept. It means 'universal life energy' and it is simply the energy that runs through everything, including humans.

    The Taoists relate the concept of 'qi' to sex and put simply they realize that when you ejaculate you lose qi. This over time becomes debilitating, leads to premature ageing and weakens the immune system.

    Can you tell me the chemical formula for qi?
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    Jul 05, 2012 10:05 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidyou lost me at qi.


    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taoist_sexual_practices

    (see control of ejaculation)
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    SkinnyBitch said
    jonplondon said'Qi' is a completely valid concept. It means 'universal life energy' and it is simply the energy that runs through everything, including humans.

    The Taoists relate the concept of 'qi' to sex and put simply they realize that when you ejaculate you lose qi. This over time becomes debilitating, leads to premature ageing and weakens the immune system.

    Can you tell me the chemical formula for qi?


    Up until now scientists were unable to prove that Higgs boson existed. It now seems it did.

    Just because scientists can't prove something (or don't want to) doesn't mean a concept or universal truth is not valid.

    Besides, it really doesn't need proving scientifically. Men generally feel exhausted after coming right? That's why women get frustrated with them - because they tend to fall asleep soon after the act. It's because they have lost 'qi'.







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    Jul 05, 2012 10:20 PM GMT

    " Men generally feel exhausted after coming right?"

    Prolactin.
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    Jul 05, 2012 10:21 PM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA said
    jonplondon saidOK guys you have had your fun and yes I admit my post was clumsily written.

    Being new to this forum I didn't realize the poisened tongues that were around, though perhaps I should have known better.

    'Qi' is a completely valid concept. It means 'universal life energy' and it is simply the energy that runs through everything, including humans.

    The Taoists relate the concept of 'qi' to sex and put simply they realize that when you ejaculate you lose qi. This over time becomes debilitating, leads to premature ageing and weakens the immune system.

    I accept this is a very hard thing for most gay men to comprehend because they are fed a diet of porn where everyone comes and nobody has to deal with the consequences. Pure fantasy.

    I can tell you with 100% certainty that I am better off, more physically and psychologically fit than I have ever been- for not coming!

    But yet I crave intimacy.

    It is also perfectly valid to want to experience the ultimate intimacy with another man. The fact that HIV exists of course makes the practise much harder but I for one am a bit sick of playing it safe and not truly connecting to my partner. I would never had said that in my 20s because I was utterly scared of becoming infected. But I recognize that at 36 all these years of fear have taken me to a brick wall. It is time to re-assess the beliefs that have led me here.

    I seek a man who wants the same, who wants horny, passionate sex but who is trustworthy and mature to communicate honestly with me and committed to the same thing as I am. I shall persevere.

    Barebottoming = HIV
    Baretopping = quite possible HIV

    don't get it sorry???

    Besides I simply want to experience sober and responsibly something that probably 1000s of guys around the world experience in a state of being drug-fucked and in denial on Sunday morning after a night out clubbing. Now that is loony-bin behaviour.

    Enough. I have learnt my lesson and likewise you lot will do well to consider what I have to say.





    Jon I would like to apologize for these people. You ask a simple question and they go all around with negative answers and needless bitchyness.

    Ironically when I posted a topic on being postive or negative..most people here said they are Positive in Personality...icon_rolleyes.gif,anyway,

    I think that bareback is beautiful and if you care enough about your partner to expose yourself to them in that way than more power to you. I do however as well as men in love said is concerned with you.

    Please before you do that, get tested or something. Being one with a person is not worth your health.

    i want someone who will live for me, not die for me. I think that would be amazing.. I havent done it yet, which is one of the reason I take sex so highly and seriously. I want that cherished moment of freedom, combined with trust, love and passion. I am waiting for that one person because I don't plan on using protection.

    I think condoms are something we really should not need, but since more often than not, people dont want to wait, and are not "wise" about what they do and who they do it with. Condoms are necessary.

    Even you said a "friend", so with that being casual I assume can be dangerous.

    Just be wise, get tested and have him do the same. If you trust each other to be exclusive to each other there should be no problem. You can bareback all you want, as long as you are sure it is safe.

    It seems scary how we can sleep with people but deep down are afraid they may have something..so we use condoms. I am sorry but if i have sex with someone there is not going to be one, because i will know in my heart they are clean.


    I greatly appreciate your response!

    He is a friend and when he says he is negative I believe him. I intuitively trust his integrity. Trust me this is not something I do randomly with anyone.

    I tested -ve only last week and intend to test again in 6 weeks time.

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    Jul 05, 2012 10:22 PM GMT
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    SkinnyBitch saidCan you tell me the chemical formula for qi?
    Up until now scientists were unable to prove that Higgs boson existed. It now seems it did.

    Just because scientists can't prove something (or don't want to) doesn't mean a concept or universal truth is not valid.

    Besides, it really doesn't need proving scientifically. Men generally feel exhausted after coming right? That's why women get frustrated with them - because they tend to fall asleep soon after the act. It's because they have lost 'qi'.

    They had proof that there was something there, they just couldn't detect it because it flickers at a speed we were unable to build technology to notice.

    There is no scientist looking for qi to be the missing link that makes all of physics work. The way you reasoned that was faulty, which makes me understand how you can reason that qi is real because the body feels tired. It could be one of many reasons why the body tires, but you're choosing the reason that sounds appealing to you.

    But putting aside all of the nonsense about magical energies making life more interesting than it is. To take your thread seriously... just swallow his cum. All the qi and no disease. Sorted.
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    Jul 05, 2012 10:24 PM GMT
    People can deny and doubt trust all they want..but I think that is beautiful that you have someone that you can truly trust.

    I think most of us yearn for it and lash out, out of bitterness.

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    Jul 05, 2012 10:25 PM GMT

    SkinnyB said, "All the qi and no disease. Sorted."

    If I may...."All the qi and no HIV. Sorted. All other STDs still very possible."

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    Jul 05, 2012 10:26 PM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA saidPeople can deny and doubt trust all they want..but I think that is beautiful that you have someone that you can truly trust.

    I think most of us yearn for it and lash out, out of bitterness.



    I'm certainly not lashing out, and I'm not bitter, lol!

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    Jul 05, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    SkinnyB said, "All the qi and no disease. Sorted."

    If I may...."All the qi and no HIV. Sorted. All other STDs still very possible."

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    Thanks, I forgotted.icon_smile.gif

    Also, I'm not lashing out, but I am bitter!
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    Jul 05, 2012 10:36 PM GMT
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    JamieJfromtheA saidPeople can deny and doubt trust all they want..but I think that is beautiful that you have someone that you can truly trust.

    I think most of us yearn for it and lash out, out of bitterness.



    I'm certainly not lashing out, and I'm not bitter, lol!



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    Jul 05, 2012 10:38 PM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA said
    meninlove said I'm certainly not lashing out, and I'm not bitter, lol!
    I love you MIL, so if I ever say something that seems to call others out, rest assured it is never toward you. icon_biggrin.gif
    So it's about me? icon_cry.gif And after I was supportive in your thread. All because of fucking qi.
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    Jul 05, 2012 10:43 PM GMT
    LMAO, im not talking about you either hehe.

    I am speaking in a general aspect of people who are quick to condemn him and talk smack and be rude. LOL

    Skinny I dont just speak on concrete terms, I speak in terms on everyone in the world.
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:50 PM GMT
    no, haven't had that experience and have no desire to
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