Ever Wish You Could Be Bitchier

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    Jul 05, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    I am too nice. I use to be able to be the bitchiest bitch to ever bitch out a bitch, but now I guess I let go of all the fighting and became who I was before I was scarred by the racist and homophobics.


    Whenever I am disrespected I just walk away or brush it off, but sometimes when I think later about it, I kind of wished I would have went off or got mean...


    I think it bothers me because I wonder if I am a push over and I wonder why do I go so easy on people, especially when they hurt me.

    Do you ever wish you could be slighty meaner? I don't want to be mean exactly, but even when someone does me wrong, I still have this thing where I don't want to hurt them or make them feel bad..AND THEY WRONGED ME!

    I feel like I am too mature to be 22.

    Does anyone else have a hard time being mean back, or even standing up for yourself when you have been wronged.

    I know revenge really isn't sweet, but just once i would like to call someone out.
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    Jul 05, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    No! It's awful being a bitch. I've tried it and it was a very dark period of my life and I will never do that again. I just goes against everything that I actually am.
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:01 PM GMT
    Hapuna saidNo! It's awful being a bitch. I've tried it and it was a very dark period of my life and I will never do that again. I just goes against everything that I actually am.


    I agree...but you ever think that maybe people come at you a certain way because they know you will just let it go.

    Maybe... i dont know.
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:02 PM GMT
    I was a total bitch on the defensive in high school. I practiced insults for different scenarios so that anyone who attacked me would get hurt too, and they'd think twice before crossing me again.
    First year university I changed completely. It was all borne of weakness. I don't need to do all that to be able to handle people now. Would much rather be innocent than get the last laugh.

    I consider it a necessary evolution. Don't want to devolve.
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:04 PM GMT
    It's about balance. I have long been capable of reducing a grown man to hysterical tears with words. But over the years, I have learned to use it sparingly and choose my battles.
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidI was a total bitch on the defensive in high school. I practiced insults for different scenarios so that anyone who attacked me would get hurt too, and they'd think twice before crossing me again.
    First year university I changed completely. It was all borne of weakness. I don't need to do all that to be able to handle people now. Would much rather be innocent than get the last laugh.

    I consider it a necessary evolution. Don't want to devolve.


    I did that same thing, but mine was because of all the jumpings and bullyings I had happen to me when i was younger.

    i cut people deep and I didnt like it. I realize I let them affect me to the point where I became what I hated most.

    Its such a struggle. Its like, I can either be myself and be dissed and hurt for no reason, which bothers me, or I can be nasty back..which I still technically would not like.

    Lose/lose on both fronts. I am never happy to hurt someone else, reguardless of what they have done or said but still...

    i just don't know.
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:13 PM GMT
    It's not a lose if you can get yourself to not care what they say. People say things all day every day x 6,000,000,000 people. It won't make a lick of difference what they think.

    It's easier said than done. But the lure is that you get to feel better about yourself in comparison to the filth they revealed inside them.
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:33 PM GMT
    I guess your right.
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:44 PM GMT
    not sure it's possible
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:47 PM GMT
    My cup runneth over with bitchiness but that's only because people rarely decide to drink from it lol
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:48 PM GMT
    Firebrand saidnot sure it's possible


    Okay that's funny
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    I seriously have to control it and if people only knew what I was really thinking....I'd have like 1 friend.
    Thank god for the 2 I have though!
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    BlackCat90 saidMy cup runneth over with bitchiness but that's only because people rarely decide to drink from it lol


    did you just say runneth...

    you are a bitch lol icon_biggrin.gif

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    Jul 05, 2012 11:50 PM GMT
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    I've already used this gif, but it's way too funny. Bitch.
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:50 PM GMT
    It is possible to stand up for yourself in a mature, "non-bitchy" manner...
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    I'm way too nice to be bitchy
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    tucsonguy9121 saidIt is possible to stand up for yourself in a mature, "non-bitchy" manner...


    what a bitchy thing to say....
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    Jul 05, 2012 11:56 PM GMT
    JamieJfromtheA said
    BlackCat90 saidMy cup runneth over with bitchiness but that's only because people rarely decide to drink from it lol


    did you just say runneth...

    you are a bitch lol icon_biggrin.gif



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    Jul 06, 2012 12:08 AM GMT
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    Jul 06, 2012 12:41 AM GMT
    Im not going to be rude, just because you want me to be.

    That's not right.
    but seeing as how my mom is dead, I don't appreciate that comment whether in jest or not.
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    Jul 06, 2012 12:54 AM GMT
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    Jul 06, 2012 1:06 AM GMT
    Stand up for yourself, but just don't mean about it. Unless I don't understand what calling someone out means, what prevents you from doing so without resorting to being a bitch about it?

    You can still be nice to those who have wronged you while still maintaining a strong defense and without becoming a doormat.
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    Jul 06, 2012 1:29 AM GMT
    Hell yeah. If for nothing else, online forums.
  • Lincsbear

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    Jul 06, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    Not necessarily bitchier, but certainly wittier, funnier, maybe even more profound, in social situations.