Jul 05, 2012 11:31 PM GMT
So maybe I have the wrong outlook on how men behave. Over the last few months I've talked to several guys of varying age and maturity levels. All goes well for a few weeks maybe months, but inevitably it seems as if they all of a sudden start ignoring my texts or e-mails. No explanations offered, or if one is. he says "just busy, but i still really like you and want to hang out". Im inclined to take people at their word, but the increased frequency of its occurance makes it hard to stay thinking positive. An ex who has talked to some of the same guys has told me that I am pretty direct and move too fast which is either intimidating or just a turn off. So Im wondering, do I change my habits to appease men, or stay true to myself until I find a guy who is on track with me?