How many times have you kept a boyfriend that has cheated on you?

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    Jul 06, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    Another one of my seven wonders about gay relationships.
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    Jul 06, 2012 5:30 AM GMT
    Many more times than I kept a boyfriend who didn't. The one monogamous relationship I was in was a disaster. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 06, 2012 5:35 AM GMT
    Stuy? Are you trolling AGAIN????

    Fapping! Fapping! We see you fapping!!
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    Jul 06, 2012 5:39 AM GMT
    BTW, Stewie, this is not to be mean...just honest. Check with your doc about your meds. GAM is right. You body is building an immunity to them. They need to be changed.

    And I know it's a pain in the ass. I dated a guy three years who had schizophrenia.
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    Jul 06, 2012 7:38 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidBTW, Stewie, this is not to be mean...just honest. Check with your doc about your meds. GAM is right. You body is building an immunity to them. They need to be changed.

    And I know it's a pain in the ass. I dated a guy three years who had schizophrenia.


    On the contrary that won't be necessary. I see my Psychiatrist once a month and we finally have me on the right one. I think you might be getting my being opinionated confused with my being schizo-affective. No offense taken.
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    Jul 06, 2012 7:43 PM GMT
    Nil.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:32 PM GMT
    Sustenance said
    paulflexes saidBTW, Stewie, this is not to be mean...just honest. Check with your doc about your meds. GAM is right. You body is building an immunity to them. They need to be changed.

    And I know it's a pain in the ass. I dated a guy three years who had schizophrenia.


    On the contrary that won't be necessary. I see my Psychiatrist once a month and we finally have me on the right one. I think you might be getting my being opinionated confused with my being schizo-affective. No offense taken.
    That's possible. Just know that I'm aware of the signs of digression. I'll do my best to call you out (politely) before it gets too bad, because once you pass the tipping point the admins ban you yet again (not to mention what other people in your physical life have to endure).

    Just looking out for your best interest, as a fellow human should. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:33 PM GMT
    17 times.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:34 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Sustenance said
    paulflexes saidBTW, Stewie, this is not to be mean...just honest. Check with your doc about your meds. GAM is right. You body is building an immunity to them. They need to be changed.

    And I know it's a pain in the ass. I dated a guy three years who had schizophrenia.


    On the contrary that won't be necessary. I see my Psychiatrist once a month and we finally have me on the right one. I think you might be getting my being opinionated confused with my being schizo-affective. No offense taken.
    That's possible. Just know that I'm aware of the signs of digression. I'll do my best to call you out (politely) before it gets too bad, because once you pass the tipping point the admins ban you yet again (not to mention what other people in your physical life have to endure).

    Just looking out for your best interest, as a fellow human should. icon_biggrin.gif


    Thanks.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:36 PM GMT
    endo said17 times.


    Can I ask you if this number matters to you?
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:37 PM GMT
    Never have never will.

    I make it clear at the beginning that cheating is my point of no return.

    If somebody cheats on me they clearly don't care so why bother staying with them.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:40 PM GMT
    Sustenance said
    endo said17 times.


    Can I ask you if this number matters to you?


    Yes.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:40 PM GMT
    I'm with running on this. I even say on my profile straight up: I do not share.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:42 PM GMT
    so I can look forward to more of the OP's freakazoid vids in My in-box???


    Oh joy.

    The "med" you need is cyanide.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:44 PM GMT
    Cash saidso I can look forward to more of the OP's freakazoid vids in My in-box???


    Oh joy.

    The "med" you need is cyanide.


    I have no idea what you are referring to. I have not sent video's to your inbox. Perhaps you are stuck on yourself wishing somebody would. Good luck with that.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:45 PM GMT
    Never that I've been aware of and if I found out they did even after the fact there would probably be a physical altercation entailed. I have been the other guy before though without my knowledge.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:49 PM GMT
    stevendust saidNever that I've been aware of and if I found out they did even after the fact there would probably be a physical altercation entailed. I have been the other guy before though without my knowledge.


    I relate to being the other guy and though they were never upfront with me, I could tell they were hiding something.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    running11 saidNever have never will.

    I make it clear at the beginning that cheating is my point of no return.

    If somebody cheats on me they clearly don't care so why bother staying with them.


    Cheating - SERIOUS seriel cheating is rarely an indication of how much someone cares.

    Sometimes -- SOMETIMES...shit happens. Guys go on tour. Careers keep you apart. There are one too many Jaeger shots. Yer dick goes up. Yer brain waves go down.

    I have never cheated.

    It's not My thing.

    My second husband - who truly loved Me and lavished Me with gifts, cheated.

    Relentlessly.

    He admitted it all. Wiped the slate clean. I was perfectly willing to let the past go.

    The following week - he did it again.

    With someone who worked for us.

    In My house.

    In our bed.

    I didn't hate him for it.

    But he hated himself.

    I had the bed thrown out.

    And never looked back.

    At THAT point I realized it wasn't about Me.



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    Jul 06, 2012 8:52 PM GMT
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    running11 saidNever have never will.

    I make it clear at the beginning that cheating is my point of no return.

    If somebody cheats on me they clearly don't care so why bother staying with them.


    Cheating - SERIOUS seriel cheating is rarely and indication of how much someone cares.

    Sometimes -- SOMETIMES...shit happens. Guys go on tour. Careers keep you apart. There are one too many Jaeger shots. Yer dick goes up. Yer brain waves go down.

    I have never cheated.

    It's not My thing.

    My second husband - who truly loved Me and lavished Me with gifts, cheated.

    Relentlessly.

    He admitted it all. Wiped the slate clean. I was perfectly willing to let the past go.

    The following week - he did it again.

    With someone who worked for us.

    In My house.

    In our bed.

    I didn't hate him for it.

    But he hated himself.

    I had the bed thrown out.

    And never looked back.

    At THAT point I realized it wasn't about Me.





    so I take it you're no longer with him?
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:52 PM GMT
    Cash saidso I can look forward to more of the OP's freakazoid vids in My in-box???


    Oh joy.

    The "med" you need is cyanide.


    OMFG loling so hard right now
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:56 PM GMT
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    running11 saidNever have never will.

    I make it clear at the beginning that cheating is my point of no return.

    If somebody cheats on me they clearly don't care so why bother staying with them.


    Cheating - SERIOUS seriel cheating is rarely and indication of how much someone cares.

    Sometimes -- SOMETIMES...shit happens. Guys go on tour. Careers keep you apart. There are one too many Jaeger shots. Yer dick goes up. Yer brain waves go down.

    I have never cheated.

    It's not My thing.

    My second husband - who truly loved Me and lavished Me with gifts, cheated.

    Relentlessly.

    He admitted it all. Wiped the slate clean. I was perfectly willing to let the past go.

    The following week - he did it again.

    With someone who worked for us.

    In My house.

    In our bed.

    I didn't hate him for it.

    But he hated himself.

    I had the bed thrown out.

    And never looked back.

    At THAT point I realized it wasn't about Me.





    so I take it you're no longer with him?


    LOL

    I walked out of that house 17 years ago.

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    Jul 06, 2012 8:57 PM GMT
    My bf cheated on me in the first few months we dated and had I known at the time, I'd have definitly broke up with him. He only told me years later. But had I broken up with him I'd have lost the best boyfriend Ive ever had and the most supportive person I've ever had in my life.

    I got deeply depressed many years ago, lost my job, totally retracted from life, stopped working out and gained over 100 lbs. He not only stood by me and supported me, but helped me get back on my feet and recover my life. Now while I study full time and work part time, he pays the the vast majority of our life's expenses so yet again is "pulling" my weight.

    People make mistakes - it doesn't define them. My life is far better for having him than if I didn't.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:57 PM GMT
    It's Not Right... But It's OK.
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    Jul 06, 2012 9:01 PM GMT
    uoft23 saidMy bf cheated on me in the first few months we dated and had I known at the time, I'd have definitly broke up with him. He only told me years later. But had I broken up with him I'd have lost the best boyfriend Ive ever had and the most supportive person I've ever had in my life.

    I got deeply depressed many years ago, lost my job, totally retracted from life, stopped working out and gained over 100 lbs. He not only stood by me and supported me, but helped me get back on my feet and recover my life. Now while I study full time and work part time, he pays the the vast majority of our life's expenses so yet again is "pulling" my weight.

    People make mistakes - it doesn't define them. My life is far better for having him than if I didn't.


    Seems he got pretty damn lucky. I'm not sure what I would do especially after reading this. If I were ever to dabble into becoming active with another person again, I would want to ensure that I am not being pulled back into the endless cycle of sex for love. I left that behind many years ago.
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    Jul 06, 2012 9:02 PM GMT
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    Cash saidso I can look forward to more of the OP's freakazoid vids in My in-box???


    Oh joy.

    The "med" you need is cyanide.


    I have no idea what you are referring to. I have not sent video's to your inbox. Perhaps you are stuck on yourself wishing somebody would. Good luck with that.


    Oddly enough - yes. I am INCREDIBLY stuck on Myself.

    Oh how I wish I could get over it. Oh well...what can ya do?????

    The animals -- the close up of eye surgeries -- the nuclear bombs...

    We have all recieved them ya dip-shit- freak show geek.

    I don't feel special because of them.

    You are too damaged to have any sense of discrimination.

    Let's see how long it takes for you to get banned THIS time....

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