Jul 06, 2012 6:09 AM GMT
Ok long story short i ended up in a complex by a college. Was not in college at the time but working. Looked out the window and saw this incredibly hot guy wearing tank top and black gym shorts just coming back from practice with a football build, broad shoulders, huge calves, thick thighs, big arms. I literally ran to the window every time i saw him come out his car. After a 6 months it became a routine until he ended up literally in front of me when he ended up being hired by the complex. We met twice but did not know each other. I go to pay my bill and there he was. then i needed to hand in a letter and he was there to take the letter. Unfortunately I never got his name and ended up moving out the complex. A year later i found his name via online while i was looking at pictures from my old complex. I messaged him and 4 months later got a response and he gave me his number. We started texting and he was searching for a job cuz he lost his job. I was giving him support by wishing him luck on his finals he had to take. He asked me if I wanted to grab some food sometime. I kinda hesitated because I am not sure if he is straight so did not know how to react. So he said he would hit me up when he gets to my area for work. I started my job and he said when i get out to hit him up and we could meet up. All i said was good luck on his final.. he said thanks.. then all I said was " That is just the type of friend I am". literally 3 weeks later i get a message about him not being in a psychological state to make new friends and to not contact him any further". Of course I was pissed and felt bad like i did something wrong. But he said he " just did not want to deal with people" and it was not me. Kinda took it as a cope out then I saw he deleted his fb profile completely. i am not even sure what he wanted from me. I believe though that some how some way we will end up having contact with someone who you have fantasized about out of everyone in a entire complex is fate. What do you guys think? And I left him a message today just saying that I hope he had a great 4th and that i know he needs his space but I am here. Hopefully he does not change his number. So I need opinions on what would you do and how would you react?