How to tell if a guy is flirting with you

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    Jul 06, 2012 2:42 PM GMT
    Just wondering what are the tell-tale signs a guy is flirting with you?
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    Jul 06, 2012 2:44 PM GMT
    If he says "I want you inside me."
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    Jul 06, 2012 2:46 PM GMT
    SSJTrunks saidIf he says "I want you inside me."
    Or...
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    Jul 06, 2012 2:48 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    SSJTrunks saidIf he says "I want you inside me."
    Or...
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  • HottJoe

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    Jul 06, 2012 3:24 PM GMT
    He seems nervous around you, maybe teases you with sexual overtones and/or tries to get you to tease him, he's eager to chat even when he has nothing to say, he compliments you any chance he gets and tries to point out everything you have in common, he finds reasons to casually brush against you, he can't take his eyes off your ass (or other body part, for me it's usually my booty which is why bowling can be a good first date lol), he wants to know more about you than you ever would've thought to put in your profile, and most of all if/when he builds the courage he tells you to lose the pants icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 06, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidHe seems nervous around you, maybe teases you with sexual overtones and/or tries to get you to tease him, he's eager to chat even when he has nothing to say, he compliments you any chance he gets and tries to point out everything you have in common, he finds reasons to casually brush against you, he can't take his eyes off your ass (or other body part, for me it's usually my booty which is why bowling can be a good first date lol), he wants to know more about you than you ever would've thought to put in your profile, and most of all if/when he builds the courage he tells you to lose the pants icon_wink.gif


    yea i agree with alot of what u said I think eye contact...theres a certai way guys look at u when they want u I feel like!
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    Jul 06, 2012 6:50 PM GMT
    when they purr and roll over on their back and show you their belly with their paws up


    oh...wait...that's a kitten....

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    Jul 06, 2012 7:19 PM GMT
    Bambino_Rex saidwhen they purr and roll over on their back and show you their belly with their paws up


    oh...wait...that's a kitten....

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    ...and some men
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    Jul 06, 2012 7:21 PM GMT
    this is something we all learn in h.s./college.

    your social skills right now...
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 06, 2012 7:27 PM GMT
    Sometimes it is really hard to determine. Recently there was a guy who manages for a convenience store chain in Wichita. Very cute, about 30, blond hair, names Jeremy... always very friendly to me, but I started picking up things he would say.. "you don't usually come in here this early" and when I had told him I was going to mow my lawn once, his comment the next day when he saw me was "so how was the lawn mowing" before I even got in the door.

    Very difficult to determine if he is just an extrovert and good at his job or if he really was interested. He is now "a floater"... haha (meaning that he moves from store to store, so I haven't seen him, but he made sure to tell me that he wasnt' going to be there anymore).
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    Jul 06, 2012 7:32 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidand when I had told him I was going to mow my lawn once, his comment the next day when he saw me was "so how was the lawn mowing" before I even got in the door.


    Maybe news of your lawn-mowing outfit has been getting around. icon_razz.gif
  • tiddlypush

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    Jul 06, 2012 8:17 PM GMT
    i can never tell.
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:45 PM GMT
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    HndsmKansan saidand when I had told him I was going to mow my lawn once, his comment the next day when he saw me was "so how was the lawn mowing" before I even got in the door.


    Maybe news of your lawn-mowing outfit has been getting around. icon_razz.gif


    You beat me to it!

    lol
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    Jul 06, 2012 8:58 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidHe seems nervous around you, maybe teases you with sexual overtones and/or tries to get you to tease him, he's eager to chat even when he has nothing to say, he compliments you any chance he gets and tries to point out everything you have in common, he finds reasons to casually brush against you, he can't take his eyes off your ass (or other body part, for me it's usually my booty which is why bowling can be a good first date lol), he wants to know more about you than you ever would've thought to put in your profile, and most of all if/when he builds the courage he tells you to lose the pants icon_wink.gif


    What if you do what I do? Get nervous and cant look the person in the eye... avoid bodily contact when you are close due to panic and anxiety, and start cutting your sentences and conversations short because you feel like a little girl that wants to hide in the face of this person
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    Jul 06, 2012 9:03 PM GMT
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    HottJoe saidHe seems nervous around you, maybe teases you with sexual overtones and/or tries to get you to tease him, he's eager to chat even when he has nothing to say, he compliments you any chance he gets and tries to point out everything you have in common, he finds reasons to casually brush against you, he can't take his eyes off your ass (or other body part, for me it's usually my booty which is why bowling can be a good first date lol), he wants to know more about you than you ever would've thought to put in your profile, and most of all if/when he builds the courage he tells you to lose the pants icon_wink.gif


    What if you do what I do? Get nervous and cant look the person in the eye... avoid bodily contact when you are close due to panic and anxiety, and start cutting your sentences and conversations short because you feel like a little girl that wants to hide in the face of this person

    Sadly I'm the same way.
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    Jul 06, 2012 9:18 PM GMT
    GreenHopper said
    HottJoe saidHe seems nervous around you, maybe teases you with sexual overtones and/or tries to get you to tease him, he's eager to chat even when he has nothing to say, he compliments you any chance he gets and tries to point out everything you have in common, he finds reasons to casually brush against you, he can't take his eyes off your ass (or other body part, for me it's usually my booty which is why bowling can be a good first date lol), he wants to know more about you than you ever would've thought to put in your profile, and most of all if/when he builds the courage he tells you to lose the pants icon_wink.gif


    What if you do what I do? Get nervous and cant look the person in the eye... avoid bodily contact when you are close due to panic and anxiety, and start cutting your sentences and conversations short because you feel like a little girl that wants to hide in the face of this person


    Aw, that's kinda sweet. I'm sure any guy who's right for you will pick up on your signals. Also, you have no reason to hide like a little girl. Clearly you're hot icon_wink.gif
  • chi_rock

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    Jul 06, 2012 9:25 PM GMT
    The look in his eyes is all you need to figure it out.
  • chaotic1

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    Jul 06, 2012 10:11 PM GMT
    chi_rock saidThe look in his eyes is all you need to figure it out.


    Maybe for you.

    Some of us need a neon billboard spelling it out for us :-P
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    Jul 06, 2012 10:24 PM GMT
    chaotic1 said
    chi_rock saidThe look in his eyes is all you need to figure it out.


    Maybe for you.

    Some of us need a neon billboard spelling it out for us :-P
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    Jul 06, 2012 10:28 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    chaotic1 said
    chi_rock saidThe look in his eyes is all you need to figure it out.


    Maybe for you.

    Some of us need a neon billboard spelling it out for us :-P
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    Jul 06, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidSometimes it is really hard to determine. Recently there was a guy who manages for a convenience store chain in Wichita. Very cute, about 30, blond hair, names Jeremy... always very friendly to me, but I started picking up things he would say.. "you don't usually come in here this early" and when I had told him I was going to mow my lawn once, his comment the next day when he saw me was "so how was the lawn mowing" before I even got in the door.

    Very difficult to determine if he is just an extrovert and good at his job or if he really was interested. He is now "a floater"... haha (meaning that he moves from store to store, so I haven't seen him, but he made sure to tell me that he wasnt' going to be there anymore).


    I was waiting to read his response as....

    "So how was the lawn mowing? By the way, nice swimsuit!!"

    Kill me....just beat my ass for that!! I had to throw it out there!
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    Jul 07, 2012 12:51 AM GMT
    Haha. At handsm - for me, as an introvert, if I said those things, I'd be like (internally) "I AM HITTING ON YOU SO HARDCORE YOU OBVIOUSLY DO NOT LIKE ME" whereas you're probably just thinking I'm being extroverted and friendly. Ugh. And I'd probably be like that for about 1 out of every 25 guys I meet? Now I get why I haven't met anyone actually significant for a while now . . .
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    Jul 07, 2012 12:53 AM GMT
    Bambino_Rex saidwhen they purr and roll over on their back and show you their belly with their paws up


    oh...wait...that's a kitten....

    icon_twisted.gif


    aww kitteh
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    Jul 07, 2012 12:56 AM GMT
    I wouldn't know. I'm completely oblivious.
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    Jul 07, 2012 12:56 AM GMT
    I'm so oblivious too man. Just assume everyone wants you and everyone thinks you're hot. ;) it's what i do.