When I was little I didn't play with GI Joe, trucks, cars, army. And I didn't play with girls, dolls, makeup. I was sort of neutral. I drew shapes, built with blocks, biked, had fights with the neighborhood black kids because they picked on my for being a different race. I guess that is why I'm bisexual rather than only gay. I bet there are a lot of guys that played army though and became gay. I think they are talking about the extremes in the article.