Another weekend alone

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    Jul 07, 2012 1:10 AM GMT
    Le sigh...
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    Jul 07, 2012 1:21 AM GMT
    more like "le yay"

    Time to get shit done and do what you want to do! While you can! If you got a boyfriend you'd fall behind in everything and have to *shudder* compromise.
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    Jul 07, 2012 1:22 AM GMT
    instead of crying about it, why don't you get up and do something about it?

    life only happens if you live it.
  • waccamatt

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    Jul 07, 2012 1:41 AM GMT
    Go out and have fun anyway!
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    Jul 07, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    getnassty saidinstead of crying about it, why don't you get up and do something about it?

    life only happens if you live it.


    YOLO
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    Jul 07, 2012 1:46 AM GMT
    getnassty saidinstead of crying about it, why don't you get up and do something about it?

    life only happens if you live it.


    that's real good advise actually
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    Jul 07, 2012 1:49 AM GMT
    Go do something.

    If that doesn't work, go do something else.
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    Jul 07, 2012 1:51 AM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidmore like "le yay"

    Time to get shit done and do what you want to do! While you can! If you got a boyfriend you'd fall behind in everything and have to *shudder* compromise.


    +1 That's the spirit! Instead of looking at this weekend as another weekend alone, I've tried to be productive. For example, I just finished rearranging the kitchen cupboards' contents so now everything is finally in the order I want them to be in. Since I've been single you wouldn't believe the projects around the house that I've been able to get done! icon_biggrin.gif

    And you know what's even more interesting? I used to feel alone on the weekends when my ex-boyfriend and I were still together and he was in one of his moods where he didn't want to get together because he didn't feel like it. Take it from me---it's a lot better being alone OUT of a relationship as opposed to being alone while IN a relationship. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 07, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    First, stop feeling sorry for yourself and get active. Life is what you make it. I am single and spend a lot of time alone. I enjoy my time to myself. If you can't stand your own company, you have bigger problems than you think.

    Try rewarding yourself for living by doing something fun each week. You can do it by yourself, or with a friend or two.

    You could start a social club. I started one with a friend in 1999. It's still going strong. We get together every couple of months for pot luck dinners and different members host each time. There are always new and interesting people who come and it's always enjoyable. Come up with a theme for them if you want. There's no end of ideas for club themes.

    Or join another group, like The Great Outdoors, if there's one in your area, or start one yourself. The only limits in your life are the ones you place on yourself. So, go out and live - the way you want to.
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    Jul 07, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    msuNtx said
    getnassty saidinstead of crying about it, why don't you get up and do something about it?

    life only happens if you live it.


    YOLO


    Ohhh the things I would do for nobody to say "YOLO" ever again... haha
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 07, 2012 2:38 AM GMT
    I enjoy a mix... time with friends and my partner and time alone. I get alot of things accomplished when I'm alone and when I'm with friends or my bf, I have fun.. great mix.

    If you are alone and dont' want to be, create activities for yourself.... talk on local gay forums like this one, but local, develop some friendships and see a movie, go out to eat, go shopping..or just take a walk with a new friend....
    So many things to do.. get out there and do em!!

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    Jul 07, 2012 3:35 AM GMT
    Or you could just get a puppy!..icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 07, 2012 3:37 AM GMT
    Weekends alone are awesome.
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    Jul 07, 2012 3:38 AM GMT
    It appears my plans have been cancelled, so I'll be spending the weekend alone too. Oh well. Life goes on. I should get something done, but it's going to be so insanely hot.
  • califun869

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    Jul 07, 2012 3:41 AM GMT
    yolo!!!!!!!!!!!

    and


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  • Suetonius

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    Jul 07, 2012 7:29 PM GMT
    Have you thought of acquiring a houseboy?
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    Jul 08, 2012 4:04 AM GMT
    Is this some sort of post to lure some of us into spending the weekend with you? If so....its working. icon_eek.gif
  • Machina

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    Jul 08, 2012 4:11 AM GMT
    Can't be too lonely... we live in the "Gayest City in America"

    http://news.advocate.com/post/15571734525/gayest-cities-in-america-2012
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    Jul 08, 2012 4:17 AM GMT
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    That's fucking creepy! That thing should NOT be animated! It just shouldn't!
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    Jul 08, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
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