Expectation vs. Reality?

  • Dbrad3693

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    Jul 07, 2012 4:12 AM GMT
    So, im up late at night and this is bothering me and I thought i would share it with all my RJ friends. (There is a point to this)

    Im in love, yes Dbrad is in love, with a porn star. Hahaha. I know what you are thinking right now, dumb stupid, not going to happen. And you are completely right. He is str8, and lives in CA. Guess who it is? The great wonderful top Cliff Jensen. Look him up.

    Anyway, the reason im making this thread is because I would have fantasies about Cliff (dont lie, we all have dreams about someone). How he would be this nice and sweet guy in public. Caring and wonderful to all. And in the bedroom would rock my would like he does on many of his bottoms in the movies. Sometimes I would dream what life would be like if I was him. LOL icon_cool.gif

    Well, (Im getting to the point), I thought i would look him up on a social networking site, aka twitter, and follow him. When I did, I could help but notice a couple of things....
    1) He had like 5000 followers
    2)He does a lot of drugs, like shurms
    3)He has a crimal record (nothing serious but still)
    4)He comes off dare i say, a complete and utter douche?? lol
    So maybe cliff isnt my dream man after all icon_sad.gificon_sad.gif Still hot though

    Have you ever had high expectations and been let down? or maybe up?
    What was your expectation vs the reality ?
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    Jul 07, 2012 6:03 AM GMT
    [Facepalm]
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    Jul 07, 2012 6:04 AM GMT
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    Jul 07, 2012 6:07 AM GMT
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    a good therapist and meds can help you sort these issues out.
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    Jul 07, 2012 6:17 AM GMT
    Don't take meds. They are for people who have no balls to confront their real issues. They are also prescribed by MDs, which aren't quite nearly up to par with their psych training as other mental health professionals. Maybe you should take a look at the differences:
    http://psychcentral.com/diff.htm

    I personally see a LCSW. I would never go to a psychiatrist.
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    Jul 07, 2012 6:25 AM GMT
    funny pictures bored cat
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    Jul 07, 2012 6:27 AM GMT
    bluey2223 saidDon't take meds. They are for people who have no balls to confront their real issues.


    Absolutely brilliant!!!
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    Jul 07, 2012 6:30 AM GMT
    average
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    Jul 07, 2012 6:32 AM GMT
    bluey2223 saidDon't take meds. They are for people who have no balls to confront their real issues.
    Misc-are-you-fucking-kidding-me-clean-l.
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    Jul 07, 2012 6:48 AM GMT

    2)He does a lot of drugs, like shurms


    lolwut? Isn't that a joint dipped in PCP? That's a helluva drug. He might eat your face.
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    Jul 07, 2012 7:00 AM GMT
    principal0 said[Facepalm]


    +1
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    Jul 07, 2012 7:06 AM GMT
    Sorry but you said Porn Star. There is a reason people resort to this profession. If it was easy everyone would do it. The lifestyle opens up to drugs and other things.
  • Dbrad3693

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    Jul 07, 2012 1:16 PM GMT
    msuNtx saidSorry but you said Porn Star. There is a reason people resort to this profession. If it was easy everyone would do it. The lifestyle opens up to drugs and other things.


    True and thank you for giving me an actual answer instead of just making fun of me.

    As for the others that commented, im not ACTUALLY in love with the guy, i dont even know him, but i could agrue that I had a crush on him. (Dont sit there and act like you have never ever had some sort of crush on a porn star before, thats what they are there for)
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    Jul 07, 2012 1:58 PM GMT
    Dbrad3693 saidAs for the others that commented, im not ACTUALLY in love with the guy, i dont even know him, but i could agrue that I had a crush on him.
    THEN WHY THE FUCK DIDN'T YOU JUST SAY SO IN THE FIRST PLACE?
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    Jul 07, 2012 2:09 PM GMT
    Anduru said
    Dbrad3693 saidAs for the others that commented, im not ACTUALLY in love with the guy, i dont even know him, but i could agrue that I had a crush on him.
    THEN WHY THE FUCK DIDN'T YOU JUST SAY SO IN THE FIRST PLACE?

    You had a crush on a porn-character, not on the actual person, the porn-star. It's like having a crush on Freddy Krueger and then being disappointed that Robert Englund shaves electric.
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Jul 07, 2012 4:14 PM GMT
    You love the image of him, but not 'him' the person. Jensen fits the mold of a fantasy or man you want in your sex / love life. This happened to me in college, but the object of my affection / attraction was for someone in my class.
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    Jul 07, 2012 6:01 PM GMT
    Anduru saidtumblr_kt6fexigi61qzs1al.png


    This
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    Jul 07, 2012 9:21 PM GMT
    redsoxfan791 said
    Anduru saidtumblr_kt6fexigi61qzs1al.png


    This


    I think this is true for most people, gay, straight, or bi.
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    Jul 07, 2012 9:32 PM GMT
    Anduru saidtumblr_kt6fexigi61qzs1al.png


    Very well said