He probably will turn out to be straight...

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    Aug 04, 2008 7:02 PM GMT
    I always like guys who end up to be straight, its a curse.

    Well anyways there is this guy I think is a cutie and when we talk I feel sexual chemistry. Maybe, I am just wanting to feel that and I am in lala land. Well needless to say I now saw his profile says "unsure" for orientation.

    I figured what the hell I am just gonna come out and tell him I like him. The problem is he is also a jokester, so the unsure on the profile, while prob isnt homophobic might just be him being a wiseass.

    God I hope he is gay and wants me, haha he is so hot.
  • BlackJock79

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    Aug 04, 2008 7:52 PM GMT
    I'm kinda in the same boat. There is this guy at my second job that is HOT! I know he's caught me checking him out before and I thought I caught him looking at me too, well, I did actually catch him looking at me and he just smiled and I smiled back and we went back to working. When I got up and walked to the bathroom one time I saw him in the reflection of the window in front of me looking at me as I walked away. I want him to be gay sooooooo bad, but I haven't been able to tell and my gayday sucks! It's just ain't right that some guys get a good gaydar and mine is just flat out terrible. icon_cry.gif
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    Aug 04, 2008 8:28 PM GMT
    I always tell everyone that if I'm attracted to him then he's straight! NEVER fails!
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    Aug 04, 2008 8:30 PM GMT
    yep it's called reverse gay dar. If I like someone, means they're straight.

    60% percent of the time, it works every time icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 04, 2008 8:37 PM GMT
    Go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.Hip- you're bright enough to approach the subject without totally tipping your hand. You will never want to say "What if?"
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    Aug 04, 2008 8:43 PM GMT
    Maybe you should keep your eye out for guys who are proudly out...
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    Aug 04, 2008 9:53 PM GMT
    What if....
    What if....
    What if...

    I say go for it. Otherwise, you'll be left with....

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    Aug 04, 2008 9:56 PM GMT
    Mighty_Q saidWhat if....
    What if....
    What if...

    I say go for it. Otherwise, you'll be left with....

    What if.icon_wink.gif


    Couldn't agree more. One of the few luxuries I will never allow myself to have; "What if questions". They are usually pointless, and only serve to create doubt and waste valuable time that could be spent on other things.
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    Aug 04, 2008 10:06 PM GMT
    another angle- guys talk to me as if I'm straight, then you've got to listen to them go on how straight they think you are, how ur different from the 'usual' gay guys, one guy even said if he was Gay I would be his typeicon_lol.gificon_lol.gif



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    Aug 04, 2008 11:30 PM GMT
    yeah, unfortunately real life isn't like Queer As Folk icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 05, 2008 4:40 AM GMT
    I am on my second major crush with a guy I think is straight. I chalk it up to my inexperience in dating, but I just can't tell when a guy is sending out a signal or just being friendly. I relate stories to my friends, and they are all sure the guys are gay. And then when it comes down to the discussion, they are straight. I mean, how many straight guys are going to request Elton John from a piano bar? Not many my age. Most straight guys would be terribly afraid of the stigma of being gay. But I think I found one who can overcome that....
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    Aug 05, 2008 12:44 PM GMT
    bah. I sent him a message saying he was cute and he responded with "right."

    WTF lol. 1. He either, is like riiiiiiiiiight and weirded out. or 2. He agree's he is cute.

    Either way I guess the idea of anything with him is a dead end cuz he is either str8, or not interested.
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    Aug 05, 2008 1:08 PM GMT
    Ask him why he wrote "unsure" in his profile. However, it sounds like he uses joking as a defense mechanism so you're not likely to get past that barrier. Or you could turn his joking around on him and tell him that after 20 minutes with you he'll be sure.......
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    Aug 05, 2008 1:56 PM GMT
    hippie4lyfe saidI always like guys who end up to be straight, its a curse.

    Well anyways there is this guy I think is a cutie and when we talk I feel sexual chemistry. Maybe, I am just wanting to feel that and I am in lala land. Well needless to say I now saw his profile says "unsure" for orientation.

    I figured what the hell I am just gonna come out and tell him I like him. The problem is he is also a jokester, so the unsure on the profile, while prob isnt homophobic might just be him being a wiseass.

    God I hope he is gay and wants me, haha he is so hot.


    You are still a babe in arms, this curse or affliction will go away once you start meeting more gay men. I just came back from Montreal, it was full of interesting and sexy homos! icon_cool.gif

    BTW be prepared for some emotional rollercoasters dealing with a guy who is "unsure" about his sexual orientation (I don't understand how a person can be in that state if they are brutally honest with themselves). Do you really want to be the one that he experiments with to find out?
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    Aug 05, 2008 2:35 PM GMT
    lissenup saidOr you could turn his joking around on him and tell him that after 20 minutes with you he'll be sure.......


    OMG if I had 20 minutes with that boy, he would be sure and would never ever question his sexuality AGAIN! LOL
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    Aug 05, 2008 2:40 PM GMT
    hippie4lyfe said
    lissenup saidOr you could turn his joking around on him and tell him that after 20 minutes with you he'll be sure.......


    OMG if I had 20 minutes with that boy, he would be sure and would never ever question his sexuality AGAIN! LOL


    That's exactly what you should tell him. If he gets weirded out just say, "What? I was just joking."
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    Aug 05, 2008 4:26 PM GMT
    PLAY GAY CHICKEN WITH HIM! Doh! icon_rolleyes.gif

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    Aug 05, 2008 7:58 PM GMT
    Sedative saidPLAY GAY CHICKEN WITH HIM! Doh! icon_rolleyes.gif

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    Ha! Perfect!
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    Aug 09, 2008 11:03 PM GMT
    I will leave him alone, I probably scared him enough. I want to be civil, I will see him at school. I don't want him to think I am gonna jump him and begin making out. (Not a bad idea lol)
  • Nautical

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    Aug 09, 2008 11:11 PM GMT
    you over think things, talk to him face to face to find out
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    Aug 09, 2008 11:18 PM GMT
    nautical i def over think things. when i talk to him in person i feel he is into me. maybe im just reading wrong? I guess ill find out when I see him in person again.
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    Aug 09, 2008 11:28 PM GMT
    hippie4lyfe saidI will leave him alone, I probably scared him enough. I want to be civil, I will see him at school. I don't want him to think I am gonna jump him and begin making out. (Not a bad idea lol)


    he cud have responded rite as a modesty play wanting u to say more online or in person....... once told a str8 dude he had a huge bulge.... i got a phsewwwwww, i just said wut u dont think so.... he said he wished.... elplained he was looking down at it- different angle.... and things progressed

    above all be his bud

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    Aug 10, 2008 6:03 PM GMT
    true, plus maybe there is always conversion therapy? if we electro-shock the str8 guys they will come to our side. lol. god knows their depraved lifestyle sickens me.
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    Aug 10, 2008 6:21 PM GMT
    Ick. Straight guys. Who wants to work that hard when the world is full of cute gay guys?
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    Aug 10, 2008 8:31 PM GMT
    Yep