Bf in hot water, his mom doesn't approved him doing AAG , certain fiitness pictorials, ... ( people are so close minded sometimes.)

  • MarcBodybuild...

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    Jul 07, 2012 8:54 PM GMT
    BF and his mom aren't speaking this past few days , after finding out her son used to be a part of the website ( All American Guys ) , plus the fact that he did a photo shoot for a fitness mag wearing some sexy man trunks, and posing a little bit ....... for her comfort.

    She texted me that she only knew her son, did jobs like men's wear at male fashion shows. ..............don't want to be caught between her and her son, but i just find her way to close minded. I think she is just a bit one sided , her daughter got a myspace pic that i'm sure ain't exactly considered wholesome.


  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Jul 07, 2012 10:09 PM GMT
    How old is he? she?

    I think the easiest way to resolve this is ask her if he ever did anything wrong when he was a kid? (I'm sure the answer will be yes.) Then ask her if she got upset/angry with him?( I'm sure the answer will be yes.) Then ask her if the love/enjoyment he brings her is worth ending because of this? (I'm sure she'll say no, if she's a sane human being.)
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    Jul 07, 2012 10:14 PM GMT
    Don't get caught in the middle. Pass her message on to your bf and maybe respond telling her you passed the message on, but prefer not to be the middleman.
  • Webster666

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    Jul 07, 2012 10:29 PM GMT
    If he's an adult, it's none of her damn business.
  • MarcBodybuild...

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    Jul 07, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    SwimBIkeRun949 saidHow old is he? she?

    I think the easiest way to resolve this is ask her if he ever did anything wrong when he was a kid? (I'm sure the answer will be yes.) Then ask her if she got upset/angry with him?( I'm sure the answer will be yes.) Then ask her if the love/enjoyment he brings her is worth ending because of this? (I'm sure she'll say no, if she's a sane human being.)


    I think his mom is in her late 50's. my bf just turned 24 this year
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    Jul 07, 2012 11:52 PM GMT
    If he's still worried about what his mom thinks, he's not ready for AAG.
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    Jul 08, 2012 12:04 AM GMT
    socalfitness saidDon't get caught in the middle. Pass her message on to your bf and maybe respond telling her you passed the message on, but prefer not to be the middleman.


    I agree with this. I think this is the first time I ever have agreed with Socalfitness lol.

    The best thing to do is let them sort it out. Being the middleman usually ends up with you being the fall out guy if it turns ugly.