Not incredibly attractive

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    Jul 08, 2012 11:42 PM GMT
    But not a 0 either, is there anything I can do to improve my general magnetism?
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    Jul 08, 2012 11:48 PM GMT
    Self-confidence is key.
    Be happy with yourself as you are with what you have.
    I find that guys I wasn't initially attracted to can really turn things around once they open their mouths and I have a chance to see how they carry themselves.
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    Jul 09, 2012 12:02 AM GMT
    Increase the electrical field around the coil.
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    Jul 09, 2012 12:09 AM GMT
    First figure out what you need to improve..are you kind..?..open minded..? a good listener..? thoughtful ?.. How is your overall charm..??..also is shyness getting in the way of your magnetism..?..This question is well suited for someone that knows you very well..get my drift??..icon_biggrin.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 09, 2012 12:23 AM GMT
    Free weights, like dead lifts, bench presses, chin ups. Cut carbs. Increase protein. Shave head. Shirtless pics.

    Start now, work hard.

    Be amazed by what you can do.
  • lifeat84

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    Jul 09, 2012 12:27 AM GMT
    step 1 get a plan together about who you want to be. what do you find attractive in other that you are willing to take on as part of yourself?
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    Jul 09, 2012 12:33 AM GMT
    The problem with trying to make oneself "more attractive" is that you look very attractive to someone now. And you are just changing away from one attractiveness to another.

    For example, I think you are as cute as a button in your pics when you are smiling. I think the hair suits your face and the simple sweater is very attractive.

    What is there to change?
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    Jul 09, 2012 12:35 AM GMT
    Don't underestimate yourself. You look fine to me.
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    Jul 09, 2012 12:38 AM GMT
    mikeinslc saidNot incredibly attractive
    But not a 0 either, is there anything I can do to improve my general magnetism?


    Change your attitude! Like yourself without being haughty. It's up to you.
    Also, don't be too concerned what others think of you. When a person thinks negatively of himself, others will feel that about him too.
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    Jul 09, 2012 3:47 AM GMT
    Haircut. Punch in the face. And give up. Yes! Give up, because you being.unattractive is all you are and all you bring to the table, right?
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    Jul 09, 2012 11:58 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidIncrease the electrical field around the coil.



    Zingggggggggggg LOL
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    Jul 09, 2012 2:37 PM GMT
    Magnetism has so little to do with looks - its the whole package baby..

    You're a fine looking fella from what I can see, you have a nice smile and beautiful eyes.

    How you'd come across to me would depend on how confident you were, how polite you were - whether you could hold my interest with a conversation.

    Some of the guys I've found sexiest haven't been what I would call classically handsome, nor have they had adonis like physiques.

    Its about making the most of what you've got, working to your advantages.

    And I'd say you're doing ok in the general magnetism from what I can tell.

    Ok - but this IS a Jock site, so I guess you're trying to get feedback on physical aspects?

    Big Shoulders, great posture and a strong core - they all do it for me... doesn't matter if a guy is carrying 30% body fat, if he's got a good shape to him, its irrelevant. Work those shoulders baby icon_smile.gif

    A Strong chest - You don't need to have bulging pecs you can pulsate to the beat of a lady gaga track, just a little shape, keep the boys perky, manboobs are not so attractive.

    Muscular waist - it doesn't need to be narrower than the hips, just firm, stocky works for me too, as long as the guy's strong there.

    All the best
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    Jul 09, 2012 2:51 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidHaircut. Punch in the face A loving hug and a motivating pat on the back.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 09, 2012 3:03 PM GMT
    A lot of well meaning people are saying to look deep within and... Change your personality?

    Ouch. It's easy to make physical changes. Don't try to change who you are on the inside. There's someone out there who will love you as you are icon_smile.gif
  • TheBizMan

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    Jul 09, 2012 3:55 PM GMT
    Assuming you are asking for advice on appearance (general magnetism...wtf) I'd say go bald.

    Your hairline is just.... well it's not doing you any favors. And it looks like you have a nice round head as well. Perfect for that bald look.
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    Jul 09, 2012 6:41 PM GMT
    TheBizMan saidAssuming you are asking for advice on appearance (general magnetism...wtf) I'd say go bald.

    Your hairline is just.... well it's not doing you any favors. And it looks like you have a nice round head as well. Perfect for that bald look.


    I think you're right, I had been shaving it for a long time and decided trying to grow it out.
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    Jul 09, 2012 10:32 PM GMT
    You have a cute face. Drop 50 lbs, do weight training to add some definition to your body, experiment with your hair style (maybe totally shaved?), and you'll have guys flocking to you.
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    Jul 10, 2012 12:28 AM GMT
    smartmoney saidHaircut. Punch in the face.


    I like a rough man...
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    Jul 10, 2012 2:45 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    smartmoney saidHaircut. Punch in the face.


    I like a rough man...

    For what it's worth, I am sure plenty of people would be happy to punch you in the face.
  • synestheticxs...

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    Jul 11, 2012 5:56 AM GMT
    Actually I think you're kinda' handsome. You have a happy smile. Be glad you aren't covered in scar tissue like I am; the first reply was right-- confidence! Learn to be happy with who and what you are. In my experience, as soon as I open my mouth to complain, I meet someone who has it worse and wishes they could be in my place. It's very humbling.. We're all blessed in our own ways.