"Soft masculine"

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    Jul 10, 2012 10:58 AM GMT
    I don't believe in labels but it's a term I made up to kinda of make fun of myself.
    Does anyone else speak and have a society defined "masculine" personality with femish interests as well??? or is not hyper-masculine??? I feel like most dudes are either"MANLY" or "femy" but does anyone feel "BoTh" or "neither"
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    Jul 10, 2012 2:40 PM GMT
    There is a huge area to cover between "breeders" and "fairies" and people usually do it.
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    Jul 10, 2012 2:40 PM GMT
    I believe in labels. Your post makes no sense to me.
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    Jul 10, 2012 2:52 PM GMT
    I see where you're coming from with that, and it makes a good bit of sense to me. Most people would say I'm "straight acting," which is a term I personally loathe, but I'm definitely into fashion, feelings, art and other stereotypically-fem things; however, I do enjoy hiking, camping, canoeing, etc., so it's definitely possible to be this soft masculine. The gay community as a whole needs to just get over the whole masc/fem divide and encourage a more fluid gray area lifestyle.
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    Jul 10, 2012 6:56 PM GMT
    Everyone has masculine and feminine sides, but most people only embrace one or the other.
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    Jul 10, 2012 6:57 PM GMT
    I embrace both my masc and fem side. That way when people tell me to go fuck myself, I can do it in a totally hetero way. No homo brah.
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    Jul 10, 2012 7:14 PM GMT
    i believe that most of the things people tend to classify as "masculine" or "feminine" are just what our respective cultures dictate.. its a matter of what is the socially accepted norm for a man or a woman.. and since culture and socially-accepted-norm is time-relevant, that should not change your view of yourself... your identity should not be affected by what most people think.. you like what you like, thats it..
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    Jul 10, 2012 7:16 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI embrace both my masc and fem side. That way when people tell me to go fuck myself, I can do it in a totally hetero way. No homo brah.


    You and me alike duuude
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    Jul 10, 2012 7:20 PM GMT
    I don't believe in colors... why I can't seem to decide on what color paint at Lowe's; but if I throw some random colors together and call it my own... nah, then how will I know what went into it?
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    Jul 10, 2012 7:23 PM GMT
    Sailing_Officer said... your identity should not be affected by what most people think.. you like what you like, thats it..


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    Jul 10, 2012 7:26 PM GMT
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    Sailing_Officer said... your identity should not be affected by what most people think.. you like what you like, thats it..


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    Jul 10, 2012 7:38 PM GMT
    i think "goofy" and "fun loving" bridge that gap.
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    Jul 11, 2012 10:45 AM GMT
    Well always had fascination with androgyny, I myself don't feel that i am so but male femininity both perplexes and intrigues me. i'm not affraid of things like eye makeup or nail polish because of musical background growing up, but the way I speak and act to most people comes off as being more masculine or even "neither". A friend told me I don't act like either side which is odd to me. so I'd like to know if anybody else see both sides and think their both equally nuts and make no sense, but rather feels different then a "macho" guy or a "queeny" dude.