Are People Intimidated by your Hottness.

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    Jul 11, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
    Alot of you guys here are gorgeous, but just wondering, has there ever been a time where guys were too afraid or shy to date or talk to you because they felt like you were to hott.

    I heard this can be the case with women, but I never heard it before with gay men. I think someone with low self esteem can have this issue.

    Has any of you ever had guys afraid to approach you because of your looks.
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:50 AM GMT
    Even God is intimidated by my heavenly hotness.
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:50 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidEven God is intimidated by my heavenly hotness.
    Is that why he never calls me?
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:51 AM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidEven God is intimidated by my heavenly hotness.
    Is that why he never calls me?
    Yep. He's a fucking asshole. However, he does enjoy vacationing at Uranus. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:53 AM GMT
    Yeah.

    But then they actually talk to me and the intimidation etc goes away.
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:53 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidEven God is intimidated by my heavenly hotness.
    Is that why he never calls me?
    Yep. He's a fucking asshole. However, he does enjoy vacationing at Uranus. icon_biggrin.gif
    I didnt know uranus liked assholes!
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:53 AM GMT
    Every time I leave the house.
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:54 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidEven God is intimidated by my heavenly hotness.
    Is that why he never calls me?
    Yep. He's a fucking asshole. However, he does enjoy vacationing at Uranus. icon_biggrin.gif


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    Jul 11, 2012 4:54 AM GMT
    Firebrand saidYeah.

    But then they actually talk to me and they goes away.
    Thats terrible!icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 11, 2012 5:00 AM GMT
    Firebrand saidYeah.

    But then they actually talk to me and the intimidation etc goes away.


    I dunno Fire, I seen your ass...it's kinda perfect.

    Two round pieces of intimidation.icon_cool.gif
  • DR2K

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    Jul 11, 2012 5:02 AM GMT
    I don't really consider myself attractive so I wouldn't be able to tell if it's my horrible personality or if it's because I'm not out of shape, but whatever.
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    Jul 11, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    Not because they think i'm too hot...It's because they think they might get robbed!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 11, 2012 5:17 AM GMT
    I don't have any hotness to intimidate anybody with, but there must be some reason why guys runaway when they see me. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 11, 2012 5:20 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidNot because they think i'm too hot...It's because they think they might get robbed!icon_biggrin.gif
    Well hell! Ya might as well get rich then!icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:10 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidNot because they think i'm too hot...It's because they think they might get robbed!icon_biggrin.gif


    LMAO!icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:12 PM GMT
    IDK if they are; IDC if they are; or how much or even if I really am... the guys I work with best, wouldn't mind talking to me if I was hot, or ugly. I'm a blue collar joe; aside from the facet you see.
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:16 PM GMT
    I've heard of it before. I have no idea if it applies to me though. I don't view myself that way and I feel like if I were to walk around proclaiming that my being single is because i'm too hot, well wouldn't that make me more than just a little conceited? and guess what? Conceited guys? Totally not hot icon_wink.gif
  • rf_dal

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    Jul 11, 2012 4:18 PM GMT
    I'm not sure how I'd know, but I'm assuming it's not the case. Sadly. :/
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:19 PM GMT
    Comrade_Cranky said
    RoadsterRacer87 saidI've heard of it before. I have no idea if it applies to me though. I don't view myself that way and I feel like if I were to walk around proclaiming that my being single is because i'm too hot, well wouldn't that make me more than just a little conceited? and guess what? Conceited guys? Totally not hot icon_wink.gif

    It's a paradox---once you admit to being hot, you're no longer hot.

    Wow, this is like Schrodinger's cat or something.


    fuck...that was a horrible experiment. he'd have his license revoked today, heheh.
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:23 PM GMT
    I had a guy once who I saw in a bar and I gave him the "fuck eye" not like you wanna have sex, but the "hey, I'm interested" look..He looked for like two seconds, then looked away to talk to his friends. I assumed he wasn't interested and moved on, later that night they had karaoke at that bar, and me being a singer--I sang (very drunkenly I may add). As I got off the little stage, he smiled and said, you were great and we started talking from there. I told him later, that I had gave him "the eye" before, but since he looked away I thought he wasn't interested. He said, "Nooo! I was very interested! I was stalking you down the entire night, but I got intimidated by you, and thought you were one of "those" guys. But after seeing you sing, I got a better sense of your personality.... and my friend pushed me to say something..lol"

    So I guess it does happen. I know plenty of guys I get too intimidated to talk to, but most times that's just a fear of being rejected thing. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:24 PM GMT
    My hotness doesn't intimidate people, it's my ex's hotness that intimidates people. Some think they have no chance because of it, so they won't even talk to me (true story)...

    as for me, it's the scowl that always seem to be on my face that intimidates people. People say I look mean.
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:31 PM GMT
    no. not in person. i'm shy if anything. i'm nice to people and they are nice to me.
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:39 PM GMT
    I'm single because no one wants to be the ugly one in the relationship. ;)
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    Jul 11, 2012 4:41 PM GMT
    I can feel the precise moment when a man shuts down on me and turns tail, and it's usually when my vocab puts him off or because I tend to physically dwarf most men. I also suspect that many is the man who equates being soft-spoken and well-mannered with not being "masc."

    Not sure if that's the same thing, but it does happen more often than it doesn't.
  • mybud

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    Jul 11, 2012 4:46 PM GMT
    If a guy is intimidated by your looks..it becauses he lacks self confidence..Hook up with such a guy and you'll spend years acting as his therapist...