Are you submissive or dominant when having sex?

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    Jul 11, 2012 7:16 PM GMT
    If you like to be good in bed you do as your told. and it doesn't imply that you're submissive just because you bend over.
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    Jul 11, 2012 8:36 PM GMT
    aggressive....which doesn't mean either, just that i like to sweat.
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    Jul 11, 2012 8:49 PM GMT
    ...unless you're flexible enough to bend over backwards.
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Jul 13, 2012 11:05 PM GMT
    I'm either an aggressive top or aggressive bottom.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 13, 2012 11:24 PM GMT
    Bambino_Rex saidaggressive....which doesn't mean either, just that i like to sweat.


    Hello there;)
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    Jul 13, 2012 11:33 PM GMT
    Aggressive, either side. When I want it, I want it. Yes, even us oldies have needs.
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    Jul 18, 2012 11:28 PM GMT
    Pretty submissive i love to please. Anything my man wants my man gets. As long as he tells me firmly what i want and what i am going to do for him first. Which is tough to find when youre a big guy like me icon_sad.gif
  • Timbales

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    Jul 18, 2012 11:33 PM GMT
    Honestly, I prefer to let my partner take the lead.
  • arcimboldo

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    Jul 19, 2012 6:16 PM GMT
    depending on the instinct...some guys like a strong hand...other need gentleness.

    The sadest situation is when you are programmed to do only one thing...hello Mr freud ?
  • arcimboldo

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    Jul 19, 2012 6:18 PM GMT
    once I met a guy who wanted to play the tough guy with me. I let him start, come over me and talk rough...then, as a form of play, I huged him and swung him under me ...he lost any erection and courage...so far with role play
  • Jr_boy

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    Jul 23, 2012 9:28 AM GMT
    it depends on what turns you on. I like play fighting and wrestling, and fighting the guy off, but ultimately I'd want him to rough me up, slam me down, pin me to the bed or table or whatever, and just breed me hard and rough, completely dominating me.

    if he doesn't do this, i'll have to do it. Either you dominate me, or I dominate you, it can't be anything in between.
  • FireDoor211

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    Jul 23, 2012 11:25 AM GMT
    I'm definitely a pleaser in bed, I like to make sure my partner is having a great time, but I like to be in control. Sometimes I kick back while they ride it, but it's more for them and not me. I prefer to be the active one who's in control, but I will make room if they wanna do something. I like to think of myself as a dominant top, with a willingness to let someone else do the work if they have to.
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    Jul 24, 2012 9:22 AM GMT
    i am submissive i like to do what i'm told and get slapped around like a good whore just ask dontknowwhy
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    Jul 24, 2012 10:19 AM GMT
    sub in theory
  • TheBizMan

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    Jul 24, 2012 10:24 AM GMT
    I fuckin choke bitchez out.
  • NorthChinaLi

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    Jul 27, 2012 2:12 AM GMT
    sometimes, it depends on the other guy i have sex with.



    sometimes, i just like to be manipulated.

  • jayatl56

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    Jul 27, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    I have to say that I'd like to explore being submissive but I'm a little scared of just letting go. I just haven't found the guy I trust enough to let go and know that he won't go so far that I'm threatened or unsafe.
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    Jul 27, 2012 3:53 PM GMT
    Badly biting , Spanking , Deeply fucking ...Holy >>>> the bottom must be really a strong one to resist my anger i put in to destroy the hole !


    i have this fantasy of "rapping the bottoms"

    Its a fetish i cant stop doing



    When u turn me on
    there's no stopping
  • cobra2814

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    Jul 27, 2012 8:17 PM GMT
    I love being forced into submission. Being pinned down or even tied down so the other guy can have his way is a huge turnon for me. Being "raped" is so hot
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    Jul 29, 2012 3:12 PM GMT
    That's my guy !
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    Jul 29, 2012 3:57 PM GMT
    Mild or wild, I can give it, and I can take it.

    I can be an twisted, sadistic top.

    I can be a meek, sycophant bottom.

    I can also pretend to be a meek, sycophant bottom who will suddenly disobey, rebel, and break my bonds. If I break my bonds, the dominant may find themselves slave and with "hell to pay".

    Word to the wise: Use proof coil chain (not rope) and heavy sturdy locks in at least "5-point stainless steel restraint" at all times. NEVER allow for any more than one point of restraint to be unteathered to solidly anchored eye hooks (ideally sunk in concrete).

    The care, feeding, and breeding of a submissive is a serious responsibility. And, there is no animal more dangerous than the human in captivity. Humans are not like domesticated house pets which can be broken in and stay that way for life. Never be fooled by the submissive nature of the captive human. Never allow yourself to feel "soft" for captive pet lest you allow yourself to become vulnerable to an escape attempt by the most vicious predator to walk the earth. Frequent fuckings by you and a gang of your buddies my help to keep the human weary and placated, but beware to always keep it under maximum secure bindings.



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    (above) A sloppy top may find himself hurting and unconscious, only to wake up in fetters. There is too much slack in the chains securing the neck restraint. Legs free allow the submissive to throw devastating kicks to the chin and groin. The submissive could potentially strangle their top with those thighs. This is just an escape waiting to happen leaving the top nowhere to run in the prison cell.


    (below) Would you want this angry guy getting off the chain after you've tortured and gang-banged him for a long weekend?
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    (below) Here is a much better use of 4-point restraint in preparation for gang action with what looks like a lovely specimen. The large room is a great party space where you can invite all of your horny friends for some entertainment. The raised floor allows for easy cleaning with a high-volume water hose.
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    (below) This novel heavy pipe frame makes for a secure, yet mobile means of keeping your submissive in place, while allowing for a few strong men to turn the frame into a variety of positions which expose different vulnerabilities. Ball gags make for a wonderful means of muting angry submissives to unintelligible blather.
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    Play safe! Be safe! Keep your submissives well tethered!
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    Jul 29, 2012 6:20 PM GMT
    GAMRican saidMild or wild, I can give it, and I can take it.

    I can be an twisted, sadistic top.

    I can be a meek, sycophant bottom.

    I can also pretend to be a meek, sycophant bottom who will suddenly disobey, rebel, and break my bonds. If I break my bonds, the dominant may find themselves slave and with "hell to pay".

    Word to the wise: Use proof coil chain (not rope) and heavy sturdy locks in at least "5-point stainless steel restraint" at all times. NEVER allow for any more than one point of restraint to be unteathered to solidly anchored eye hooks (ideally sunk in concrete).

    The care, feeding, and breeding of a submissive is a serious responsibility. And, there is no animal more dangerous than the human in captivity. Humans are not like domesticated house pets which can be broken in and stay that way for life. Never be fooled by the submissive nature of the captive human. Never allow yourself to feel "soft" for captive pet lest you allow yourself to become vulnerable to an escape attempt by the most vicious predator to walk the earth. Frequent fuckings by you and a gang of your buddies my help to keep the human weary and placated, but beware to always keep it under maximum secure bindings.



    bg180.jpg
    (above) A sloppy top may find himself hurting and unconscious, only to wake up in fetters. There is too much slack in the chains securing the neck restraint. Legs free allow the submissive to throw devastating kicks to the chin and groin. The submissive could potentially strangle their top with those thighs. This is just an escape waiting to happen leaving the top nowhere to run in the prison cell.


    (below) Would you want this angry guy getting off the chain after you've tortured and gang-banged him for a long weekend?
    aa79860a-26fc-4797-840d-6829097f2559

    (below) Here is a much better use of 4-point restraint in preparation for gang action with what looks like a lovely specimen. The large room is a great party space where you can invite all of your horny friends for some entertainment. The raised floor allows for easy cleaning with a high-volume water hose.
    042012mrkristofer_male_bondage_d2.jpg

    (below) This novel heavy pipe frame makes for a secure, yet mobile means of keeping your submissive in place, while allowing for a few strong men to turn the frame into a variety of positions which expose different vulnerabilities. Ball gags make for a wonderful means of muting angry submissives to unintelligible blather.
    3312935.jpg

    Play safe! Be safe! Keep your submissives well tethered!



    um......um.....so........that was terrifying, horny as hell, but terrifying
  • Hothouse

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    Jul 30, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    cobra2814 saidI love being forced into submission. Being pinned down or even tied down so the other guy can have his way is a huge turnon for me. Being "raped" is so hot


    duly noted.
  • RyanChase

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    Jul 31, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
    That last pic kinda turned me on... I'm not too much into the domination or pain thing... but I've never tried a ball gag. That shit looks fucking sexy!
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    Jul 31, 2012 4:46 AM GMT
    My boyfriend and I are both dominant but he tends to be not dominant. I guess I fall in the submission role icon_sad.gif.. I sit on his lap and he usually gets on top