Trying To Impress You

  • NyRuinz

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    Jul 12, 2012 12:29 AM GMT
    Have you ever had a guy try to impress you and make a complete ass out of himself to the point you get turned off? For some reason I always get prejudged and guys think they need to put up a facade for me to like them. I tend to have a thing for dorky guys because they are the total opposite of me, however I always get turned off when they start to pretend to be someone they are not icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 12, 2012 12:40 AM GMT
    Key point: trying to be someone they are not.

    I don't mind if a guy tries to impress me so long as they remain true to themselves. If they are not, then I can only be a negative component in their lives.

    I have sacrificed many possible relationships because of this.

  • NyRuinz

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    Jul 12, 2012 12:44 AM GMT
    Sustenance saidKey point: trying to be someone they are not.

    I don't mind if a guy tries to impress me so long as they remain true to themselves. If they are not, then I can only be a negative component in their lives.

    I have sacrificed many possible relationships because of this.



    Same here, I can never change who I am to appeal to a potential spouse. Id someone does not like you for who you are you definitely should not be trying to pursue a relationship with them.
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    Jul 12, 2012 12:48 AM GMT
    Got the same problem. People assume so much about me; usually based on how I do my job, but consider nothing for me outside of my work, that they don't bother to get to know me before assuming I'm complete uptight and shut off from the world. I mean, they can ask anyone around me what they think about me, and my work, but unless they bother to get to know me as a person they can't really know me as a person. Same goes for me and them, as individuals... this is my next step where I'm at now. icon_wink.gificon_wink.gificon_wink.gif
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    Jul 12, 2012 1:23 AM GMT
    Flattery...Hmm...A guy taking the time out to make an ass of himself..just for me..??..How about you giving him a signal..One that saids.."Ok i get ..i like you too..you can calm down now"..or.."Never gonna happen"..If this is happening to you constantly..You could also be doing something wrong??!!
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    Jul 12, 2012 2:27 AM GMT
    #HotGuyProblems

    One of the few benefits of being not hot. There aren't as many reasons for people to blow smoke up your ass.
  • NyRuinz

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    Jul 12, 2012 11:14 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidFlattery...Hmm...A guy taking the time out to make an ass of himself..just for me..??..How about you giving him a signal..One that saids.."Ok i get ..i like you too..you can calm down now"..or.."Never gonna happen"..If this is happening to you constantly..You could also be doing something wrong??!!



    I thought I was, but he obviously wants me to wear a sign in neon lights.