Masturbation and sex while standing

  • Alex_92

    Posts: 2

    Jul 12, 2012 3:46 PM GMT
    Hello this is my first post but I came here hoping to find some help with this subject.

    I recently have had sex a couple times with a guy who is now my ex-boyfriend. icon_cry.gif I am a TOP and he was the BOTTOM.

    Each time we did it, it was usually doggy-style or him lying on his stomach and me from behind. Every single time I could not seem to reach an orgasm at all. One time I fucked him for a good 15 minutes and I just couldn't get it.

    I have been thinking about it and realized that I can't even masturbate standing up. I just can't do it. No matter how long I stand there and jerk I just can't get an orgasm. However, if I lay down on my back I can get one much faster.

    Any suggestions? Do I need to "practice" more standing up?

    Thanks
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    Jul 12, 2012 6:22 PM GMT
    Well, if you cum faster laying on your back, why not have your botom ride you?

    Also, what about making sure he stimulates your erogenous zones (your dick isn't the only place involved in sex)...this might be your nipples, between your thighs...maybe him nibbling your ear whilst he's riding you. It'll make it hotter for you (and him) therefore (hopefully) making you cum faster.
  • Alex_92

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    Jul 12, 2012 7:28 PM GMT
    alex246 saidWell, if you cum faster laying on your back, why not have your botom ride you?

    Also, what about making sure he stimulates your erogenous zones (your dick isn't the only place involved in sex)...this might be your nipples, between your thighs...maybe him nibbling your ear whilst he's riding you. It'll make it hotter for you (and him) therefore (hopefully) making you cum faster.



    Hopefully the next guy will do that. I guess my ex just liked that position. We never really tried any other positions =.

    This is really the first time I've had sex, even though we did it like 5 times. I don't really know what my zones are to be honest. Haven't had enough experience you could say.

    It doesn't really matter now but it was just something I was concerned about. I'm no longer in a relationship and sex isn't something I'll be having anytime soon. I am welcome to more help as well.
  • 6packabs

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    Jul 15, 2012 10:30 AM GMT
    Dude, what fun to practice.

    You need a super-hungry bottom boy who turns you on. It's great to not cum fast. I've fucked guys for well over an hour, most can't take that much of a pouding, but if they are voracious bottom boys, then you are in a perfect setup.

    I think the suggestion was a good one, you'll need to experiment in time and you'll find ability to figure yourself out.

    Erogenous zones are freaking awesome. I love helping guys discover theirs---usually with my lips, tongue and mouth.

    Something I have found, is that I'm super passionate, and the more body contact I have durring sex the better. I love to wrap myself tight around my bottom boy, arms and legs intertwined, and flexing nearly every muscle I have in some way or fashion. This gives me a full body experience and the full body orgasm that otherwise I don't have when it's mainly just dick in ass contact.

    I have found that many guys I fuck really go wild when I wrap myself tight on them, holding their pectorals good, palming them, or some other part of their anatomy. Full body contact and embracing while fucking adds vastly more pleasure to the experience, I think.

    Good luck with it all. Sometimes that first try or first tries just have things all weirded out because of nervousness and anxiety that you've not really had to deal with before.

  • Koaa2

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    Jul 15, 2012 2:35 PM GMT
    Practice, practice, practice! Let people know what you would like to try and turns you on. Most are more than willing to help!
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    Mar 19, 2014 5:18 AM GMT
    6packabs saidDude, what fun to practice.

    You need a super-hungry bottom boy who turns you on. It's great to not cum fast. I've fucked guys for well over an hour, most can't take that much of a pouding, but if they are voracious bottom boys, then you are in a perfect setup.

    I think the suggestion was a good one, you'll need to experiment in time and you'll find ability to figure yourself out.

    Erogenous zones are freaking awesome. I love helping guys discover theirs---usually with my lips, tongue and mouth.

    Something I have found, is that I'm super passionate, and the more body contact I have durring sex the better. I love to wrap myself tight around my bottom boy, arms and legs intertwined, and flexing nearly every muscle I have in some way or fashion. This gives me a full body experience and the full body orgasm that otherwise I don't have when it's mainly just dick in ass contact.

    I have found that many guys I fuck really go wild when I wrap myself tight on them, holding their pectorals good, palming them, or some other part of their anatomy. Full body contact and embracing while fucking adds vastly more pleasure to the experience, I think.

    Good luck with it all. Sometimes that first try or first tries just have things all weirded out because of nervousness and anxiety that you've not really had to deal with before.


    Wow that got me hard just by the way you describied it sapiosexual!