Straight people preoccupied with gays???

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    Jul 12, 2012 4:31 PM GMT
    I swear to Christ i have taken my earphones out two times at the gym in the last week and both times overheard a few straight guys talking about gays. It just happened again like 5 minutes ago. Is that all they talk about??? Are we that fascinating ? Or am I just that lucky that I get to catch every gay conversation happening at the time?? I'm pretty fed up with it.
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    Jul 12, 2012 6:25 PM GMT
    If they're saying homophobic shit tell them to cut it out because it's disrespectful to those around them.

    edit: oh wait im pretty sure u blocked me
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    Jul 12, 2012 8:15 PM GMT
    I find straight men make a lot of gay jokes. But, I have to say, that the majority are not offensive (but just sexual in nature). I think it's just a guy thing (straight or gay).
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    Jul 12, 2012 8:17 PM GMT
    pf008 saidI swear to Christ i have taken my earphones out two times at the gym in the last week and both times overheard a few straight guys talking about gays. It just happened again like 5 minutes ago. Is that all they talk about??? Are we that fascinating ? Or am I just that lucky that I get to catch every gay conversation happening at the time?? I'm pretty fed up with it.


    What were they actually saying?
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    Jul 12, 2012 8:18 PM GMT
    it´s mostly conservative christians who are fascinated by gay sex. icon_rolleyes.gif

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    Jul 12, 2012 8:18 PM GMT
    Were just that important.
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    Jul 12, 2012 8:19 PM GMT
    pf008 saidI swear to Christ i have taken my earphones out two times at the gym in the last week and both times overheard a few straight guys talking about gays. It just happened again like 5 minutes ago. Is that all they talk about??? Are we that fascinating ?



    Why don't you ask them? Seriously. That's what I do. There's an old Act-Up saying: Silence = Death.
  • Hothouse

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    Jul 12, 2012 8:20 PM GMT
    Turn your gaydar down a couple of notches, you're picking up the hetro frequencies.
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    Jul 12, 2012 8:21 PM GMT
    pf008 saidAre we that fascinating ?



    Well, DUH icon_rolleyes.gif We are that fascinating...and infinitely more fabulous
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    Jul 12, 2012 8:23 PM GMT
    They are closet cases working on their cover
    If they're cute ask them out for a drink
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    Jul 12, 2012 8:30 PM GMT
    Maybe it's just everyone I've ever met and it especially happens with guys who are teammates, but straight guys act sooo gay sometimes and flirt in a goofy way
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    Jul 13, 2012 1:21 AM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ said
    pf008 saidAre we that fascinating ?



    Well, DUH icon_rolleyes.gif We are that fascinating...and infinitely more fabulous


    Sigh. Todd is right. SOMEBODY has to be fabulous. God made it gays.
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    Jul 13, 2012 2:00 AM GMT
    pf008 saidI swear to Christ i have taken my earphones out two times at the gym in the last week and both times overheard a few straight guys talking about gays. It just happened again like 5 minutes ago. Is that all they talk about??? Are we that fascinating ? Or am I just that lucky that I get to catch every gay conversation happening at the time?? I'm pretty fed up with it.
    Tell them you're gay, and be mean about it.

    The homophobic chattering will stop.
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    Jul 13, 2012 2:02 AM GMT
    GonzoTheGreat saidit´s mostly conservative christians who are fascinated by gay sex. icon_rolleyes.gif



    Lol. Rick Santorum did spend an awful lot of time thinking and talking about it. He was so well versed in it, you'd almost think he fantasized about it daily.
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    Jul 13, 2012 2:05 AM GMT
    pf008 saidI swear to Christ i have taken my earphones out two times at the gym in the last week and both times overheard a few straight guys talking about gays. It just happened again like 5 minutes ago. Is that all they talk about??? Are we that fascinating ? Or am I just that lucky that I get to catch every gay conversation happening at the time?? I'm pretty fed up with it.


    It depends on what they were saying. I wouldn't get too worked up about it unless they were using threatening or offensive language.
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    Jul 13, 2012 2:32 AM GMT
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    Jul 13, 2012 2:34 AM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ said
    pf008 saidAre we that fascinating ?



    Well, DUH icon_rolleyes.gif We are that fascinating...and infinitely more fabulous


    The jokes are sexual and kind of funny

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    Jul 13, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    MuchoMasQueMusculo saidHOMOS ARE AMAZING.

    BASK IN YOUR FABULOUSNESS.
    Agreed* Keep this mentality, if you say something to them or not... but if you do... I say: take note of what they've said, and ask them if they're looking to hook up. Then tell them you have a friend. icon_twisted.gificon_confused.gif
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    Jul 13, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
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    Jul 13, 2012 2:42 AM GMT
    pf008 saidI swear to Christ i have taken my earphones out two times at the gym in the last week and both times overheard a few straight guys talking about gays. It just happened again like 5 minutes ago. Is that all they talk about??? Are we that fascinating ? Or am I just that lucky that I get to catch every gay conversation happening at the time?? I'm pretty fed up with it.


    WELL..??? What the hell were they saying???..there is one guy at my gym i swear..every time i see him he looks at me and gives this odd half ass chuckle..i caught him staring at me a few times..he does this thing where if he passes me ...he slows down and gives this "home boy stare"..its a little annoying but the guy could be an idiot ..who thinks i'm hot..or an idiot who wants to kik my ass...or just ..an idiot..wait..what were we talking about???..
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    Jul 13, 2012 9:21 AM GMT
    As far as i have seen

    nearly 80 % of the straight men i have been are all bi-curious

    why would a straight talk about a gay ?
    coz he's got hots for a gay !


    obvious

    they are curious too
    i have turned many such straight guys into bisexual & now they embrace the gay tag

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    Jul 14, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    I had to explain to my neighbors, with whom I have recently started hanging out, what bears are, and explained why he would probably be described as a cub. It somehow came up in casual (drunk) conversation.