Noisy or quiet: which are you, and which do you prefer?

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    Jul 12, 2012 8:55 PM GMT
    Do you make a lot of noise when being pleasured and cumming? Or are you a quiet one?

    I find it fascinating that some guys (like me) moan, grunt, and groan involuntarily, and their facial expressions clearly display the pleasure coursing through their bodies -- especially when the big moment arrives -- while others remain quiet throughout, and if you just looked at their face, you'd never have a clue they were getting off.

    I've always wondered if guys in the latter camp really don't feel as much as guys in the former camp do, or if the pleasure centers in their brains just aren't wired to their vocal cords and facial muscles in the same way. (In other words, it's every bit as intense for them, but they don't show it.) I guess one could never really answer that question, since one guy can't know what another guy is feeling.

    Anyway, how about you? Noisy or quiet?

    **Note that I'm not talking about putting on a show for effect, fake-moaning like you're in a bad porn film. I'm talking about being absolutely unable to not make noise.

    EDIT -- The 1 to 10 responses are great. Also, does it turn you on when your partner makes noise, or do you prefer quiet? It makes a big difference to me, personally. I find it a huge turn-on when a guy is noisy and twitchy! icon_biggrin.gif
  • sbwlguy

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    Jul 12, 2012 9:27 PM GMT
    If quiet is 1 and noisy 10 I'm about a 4.
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    Jul 12, 2012 9:43 PM GMT
    sbwlguy saidIf quiet is 1 and noisy 10 I'm about a 4.


    Same
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    Jul 12, 2012 10:05 PM GMT
    Depends Some orgasms are more intense than others and the reaction accordingly.
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    Jul 12, 2012 10:09 PM GMT
    sbwlguy saidIf quiet is 1 and noisy 10 I'm about a 4.

    ...maybe a 1 1/2 or 2
  • Timbales

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    Jul 12, 2012 11:16 PM GMT
    I was raised Protestant. I'm quiet.
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    Jul 12, 2012 11:36 PM GMT
    Noisy. Like 8.5 on a 10 scale.

    My husband is, too - he's a moaner/groaner/grunter/dirty-talker. I like it. icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:57 AM GMT
    noisy and noisier
  • Coachfan

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    Jul 13, 2012 8:44 PM GMT
    Noisy is niceicon_razz.gif
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Jul 13, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    On a scale of 1-10, with 10 being loud, I'm a 7. I also like my sexual partner(s) to make some noise too.
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:48 AM GMT
    It's all good. I'm a 1 at most.
    L-M-A-O:
    Once I met a nice handsome guy in a bar and we really hit it off well, including just talking. He took me back to his place and we started making out on his couch, and then after ~10 minutes he took me to his bedroom. It got more and more intense and sweaty. ... Then after 45 minutes he said I was too quiet, so I thanked him and said I'd try to make more noise. In about 5 minutes he told me that it just wasn't working for him. ... The only time I was ever kicked out by a guy! Also never since has anyone complained that I was too quiet in bed, just accept me as I am (rarely though some guys have mentioned it). I think it's a hangover from dorm life.
  • spacemagic

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    Jul 14, 2012 1:54 AM GMT
    When "the big finish" arrives, I go from like a 2 to a 7.
  • BlueMoose

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    Jul 15, 2012 1:40 AM GMT
    probably and 8 when i get fucked and a 5-6 when i fuck. i grunt more when i top and moan more when i bottom.
  • 6packabs

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    Jul 15, 2012 10:12 AM GMT
    As a top, I'm relatively quiet beyond heavy breathing, though I do like to announce when I'm going to shoot my load.

    As for bottom boys who really get me going: moaners. Oh yeah. Guys who go nuts and get loud as I work them good really amp up my intensity and arousal. Seeing, hearing, and knowing a guy is enjoying what I'm doing to him, get me really quickly into climax mode.

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    Nov 25, 2013 1:51 AM GMT
    I don't know if its the way I was raised but I'm too shy to make noise . In those moments you can see my face and ears turning very red and my body tensing up.

    Only under intense pleasure that I would let out soft suppressed moans that would involuntarily escape my mouth. I think that is also sexy because its real.

    Hopefully one day I can learn to be loud for my guy if he wants it . May be I can write sexy notes beforehand and just read them off to him when the time cums? :p
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    Nov 25, 2013 3:55 AM GMT
    Hmm why is that?


    woodsmen saidRestrained expressions like this point you to be a top.

    Solomono said
    Only under intense pleasure that I would let out soft suppressed moans that would involuntarily escape my mouth. I think that is also sexy because its real.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Nov 26, 2013 5:35 PM GMT
    SwimBIkeRun949 saidOn a scale of 1-10, with 10 being loud, I'm a 7. I also like my sexual partner(s) to make some noise too.


    Same, love the interaction
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    Nov 26, 2013 5:46 PM GMT
    Loud and proud.