WHAT IF....

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    Jul 13, 2012 8:22 AM GMT
    what if we actually were nice to each other??? what would the forums be like??
    can we do a test run in this thread??

    i'll start

    yourname and intensity: i admire your relationship and i'm glad you both found someone who loves you and cares for you the way everyone deserves to be.

    meninlove: same goes for you.

    cash: i'm sorry that something has happened between us. i wish i knew how to go back in time and fix it but i truly don't.
  • TheBizMan

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    Jul 13, 2012 8:25 AM GMT
    WHAT IF.... we weren't?

    Now shut the fuck up biatch.

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    Jul 13, 2012 8:35 AM GMT
    TheBizMan saidWHAT IF.... we weren't?
    Now shut the fuck up biatch.
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    Jul 13, 2012 1:32 PM GMT
    I guess nobody wants to play nice.
  • Hothouse

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    Jul 13, 2012 1:40 PM GMT
    I agree it's nice to read a positive and supportive message. I do understand that gay men can get kinda nasty from time to time (including myself) and I often really wonder why that is. Are we that angry with the world?
    It's cool to disagree with someone on a topic, but do we have to add the personal attack? Seems to me gay men (and women) face enough opposition as it is, we don't need to promote it within.

    Maybe we could take a more active role to focus on the ways we are the same and not they ways we are different.

    It will be interesting to see where this thread goes, hate to see all the
    bitchiness end, cause some guys are really funny when they let go.

    I do try to play nice, Anduru!
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    Jul 13, 2012 1:41 PM GMT
    It could still catch on.
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    Jul 13, 2012 1:48 PM GMT
    Hothouse saidI agree it's nice to read a positive and supportive message. I do understand that gay men can get kinda nasty from time to time (including myself) and I often really wonder why that is. Are we that angry with the world?
    It's cool to disagree with someone on a topic, but do we have to add the personal attack? Seems to me gay men (and women) face enough opposition as it is, we don't need to promote it within.
    Maybe we could take a more active role to focus on the ways we are the same and not they ways we are different.
    It will be interesting to see where this thread goes, hate to see all the
    bitchiness end, cause some guys are really funny when they let go.
    I do try to play nice, Anduru!
    I'm angry with the world for plenty of reasons. I don't know what everyone else's problem is.
    That's what I was thinking when I made this topic. I noticed how ridiculous the personal attacks were getting in the "What happened to onaquest" thread and thought "it's not cool if I'm not the only person being this mean".
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    Jul 13, 2012 1:49 PM GMT
    showme saidIt could still catch on.
    Let's hope. Seriously, if it's ME starting this thread, you know there's something really wrong happening.
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    Jul 13, 2012 1:53 PM GMT
    Anduru saidI guess nobody wants to play nice.


    Patience, young Jedi. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 13, 2012 1:54 PM GMT
    Anduru said
    showme saidIt could still catch on.
    Let's hope. Seriously, if it's ME starting this thread, you know there's something really wrong happening.


    ...or something really remarkable and stunningly impressive.
  • Hothouse

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    Jul 13, 2012 2:00 PM GMT
    There have been a couple of occasions where I've posted in a thread and have been personally "attacked" by a guy with a different opinion.
    So you don't agree with me, fine, but why go after me personally? State your opinion and leave the venom out of it.
    I felt hurt (stupid, I know) and angry (because they make a statement about ME and they don't have a clue as to who I am or what I'm about.)
    When that happens I think "fuck this" if you can't say something and be adult about it, I don't want to participate.
    But, I still post, because my opinion is valid, even if it's not shared, and I don't give a fuck if you don't agree. I, however, will not attack back. I'm a nice guy. I may not agree with you, or you with me, but that should not mean we can't have intelligent debate.
    There are times when I read these thread and shake my head and think "what a bunch of asses...."
    And, in the spirit of being nice, a lot of these guys have some very pretty asses!
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    Jul 13, 2012 2:47 PM GMT
    Gauging the intensity of your trolling? Best accomplished on a single reply, post to post manner. I do like this juxtapose avant garde thread. icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 13, 2012 2:50 PM GMT
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky saidI'm never nice.


    OH YES YOU ARE. icon_wink.gif

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    Jul 13, 2012 2:51 PM GMT
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky saidI'm never nice.
    Yeah but you're fabulously witty, truthful, and not hurtful for absolutely no reason, unlike the rest of us cunts.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 13, 2012 3:04 PM GMT
    It must be a 'good' bi-polar day

    .... or the new meds are working
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:13 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk said.... or the new meds are working
    They are thanks.
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:13 PM GMT
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky saidI'm never nice.


    Oh puhleeze. You're sometimes even a softie. icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:15 PM GMT
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky said
    showme said
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky saidI'm never nice.


    Oh puhleeze. You're sometimes even a softie. icon_smile.gif

    I can sue you for saying that.


    Truth is a defense to libel and slander. I remember it from the bar exam.
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    Jul 13, 2012 4:09 PM GMT
    Psh, I'm always nice
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    Jul 13, 2012 4:31 PM GMT
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky said
    showme said
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky said
    showme said
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky saidI'm never nice.


    Oh puhleeze. You're sometimes even a softie. icon_smile.gif

    I can sue you for saying that.


    Truth is a defense to libel and slander. I remember it from the bar exam.

    Fine. I'll sue you in a British court, where it isn't.


    I'd tell you to pipe down, but you'd probably just put it down on the table and say, "Now whot, old chap?"
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    Jul 13, 2012 4:34 PM GMT
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky said
    showme said
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky said
    showme said
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky saidI'm never nice.


    Oh puhleeze. You're sometimes even a softie. icon_smile.gif

    I can sue you for saying that.


    Truth is a defense to libel and slander. I remember it from the bar exam.

    Fine. I'll sue you in a British court, where it isn't.


    Nice try, but they couldn't get jurisdiction. I might have to avoid ever connecting at Heathrow again, though, or they could drag me away in handcuffs. See, I know some of these things.
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    Jul 13, 2012 4:53 PM GMT
    i'm only nice to users i like.

    but i will ~try~ i guess...
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    Jul 13, 2012 5:59 PM GMT
    getnassty saidi'm only nice to users i like.
    but i will ~try~ i guess...
    be the change u want to see~~~~ u kno
  • disasterpiece

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    Jul 13, 2012 6:49 PM GMT
    Aw this thread is full of cuteness.











    Makes me wanna vomit.


    Nah, I'm joking, it's cute.
  • mizu5

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    Jul 13, 2012 6:50 PM GMT
    I like to think I'm nice D: