The guy I'm dating is gay, I mean REALLY gay!

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    Jul 13, 2012 12:28 PM GMT
    Ok, he has Liza Minneli's Cabaret poster above his mantelpiece, he has every season of the Golden Girls on Boxset, He love's Marlene Dietrich and the movie Pink Flamingo's. Ok Ok I'm not that femaphobic, personally I have a live and let live attitude, but just wondering, what is the gayest guy you have dated and why was he gay?
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 13, 2012 1:01 PM GMT
    That's really not all that gay. I like guys waaaay gayer than that... Like so gay they might as well be fierce pink aliens from Rainbow Bright's home planet.
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    Jul 13, 2012 1:06 PM GMT
    I always thought, that if a male is attracted to 'males'.. he is gay.

    How then, can one be 'waaay gayer' than just simply, gay?

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    Jul 13, 2012 1:23 PM GMT
    TropicalMark saidI always thought, that if a male is attracted to 'males'.. he is gay.

    How then, can one be 'waaay gayer' than just simply, gay?

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    Jul 13, 2012 1:25 PM GMT
    Its funny, I know straight guys who like gay things and no one gives a shit because they are straight.

    But if you are gay, if you dont masc out all the time then its a big deal.

    How about this? Maybe he likes those things because he likes them and not because he is gay?

    I mean, will I do an activity because it is gay? No. Will I not do an activity because it is gay? No.

    Quite frankly, as a masculine man I dont give a shit what people think about me.

    And THAT is a masculine quality.
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    Jul 13, 2012 1:31 PM GMT
    Chainers saidQuite frankly, as a masculine man I dont give a shit what people think about me.
    And THAT is a masculine quality.
    Preach sista.
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    Jul 13, 2012 1:57 PM GMT
    Chainers said

    But if you are gay, if you dont masc out all the time then its a big deal.


    Really? I don't see it like that at all. If anything it's the opposite where I'm from.
    The straight-acting guys always seem to have no one to talk to and have envy in their eyes at the bar.

    Then again we may be defining this differently. I might think you were a big queen if we met in real life lol.
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:09 PM GMT
    In the words of Weezer. "Say it ain't sooooooo-oo-ooo"


    HottJoe saidThat's really not all that gay. I like guys waaaay gayer than that... Like so gay they might as well be fierce pink aliens from Rainbow Bright's home planet.
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:12 PM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidIn the words of Weezer. "Say it ain't sooooooo-oo-ooo"
    A dumb hick like you wouldn't stand a chance either way.
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:14 PM GMT
    Didn't you just make a thread about being nice?


    Anduru said
    ConfederateGhost saidIn the words of Weezer. "Say it ain't sooooooo-oo-ooo"
    A dumb hick like you wouldn't stand a chance either way.
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:16 PM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidDidn't you just make a thread about being nice?
    Yeah it's a test run thread. If being nice there works then I'll be nice everywhere else. Get your ass in there and I'll try to come up with something nice to say about a fucking republican.
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:17 PM GMT
    hahahahahahahaha. You think I'm a republican. hahahahahahahahahahaha.

    Good shit man.



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    ConfederateGhost saidDidn't you just make a thread about being nice?
    Yeah it's a test run thread. If being nice there works then I'll be nice everywhere else. Get your ass in there and I'll try to come up with something nice to say about a fucking republican.
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:18 PM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidhahahahahahahaha. You think I'm a republican. hahahahahahahahahahaha.
    Good shit man.
    Well then why the hell are you "confederate"ghost?
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:20 PM GMT
    It's about being haunted by a past that I didn't create. It's about accepting where I come from and embracing what comes along with that.



    Anduru said
    ConfederateGhost saidhahahahahahahaha. You think I'm a republican. hahahahahahahahahahaha.
    Good shit man.
    Well then why the hell are you "confederate"ghost?
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:21 PM GMT
    Chainers saidIts funny, I know straight guys who like gay things and no one gives a shit because they are straight.

    I just saw "Rock of Ages" at the Helen Hayes Theatre, which draws the straightest Broadway musical crowd I've ever seen. You know how during show intermissions you can pick up a certain vibe at the bar? None there, except for this - since you can take photos in the lobby I snapped it. What's wrong with this picture?

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    Jul 13, 2012 3:30 PM GMT
    I don't come across as a feminine guy but i do collect every Jennifer Anison movie on dvd.
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:33 PM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidIt's about being haunted by a past that I didn't create. It's about accepting where I come from and embracing what comes along with that.



    Anduru said
    ConfederateGhost saidhahahahahahahaha. You think I'm a republican. hahahahahahahahahahaha.
    Good shit man.
    Well then why the hell are you "confederate"ghost?


    Haha, Owned! Well played Confederate ;)
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:41 PM GMT
    i dated a guy when i was 20 who was nice,and he wasn't flamboyant, but he had come out late and EVERY SINGLE thing had to be about being gay. it didn't slow down over the years. he's still the same.

    i think if he could eat food coloring and shit rainbows, he would

    it just got boring

    like when someone has no other interests....they beat you to death with it

    flamboyant guys are fun. lots of "masc" guys are just weak pussies who aren't really being who they want to be, whatever that is...and are trying to police other people. give me a drag queen over that bullshit anyday

  • TroyAthlete

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    Jul 13, 2012 3:46 PM GMT
    darren222 saidOk, he has Liza Minneli's Cabaret poster above his mantelpiece


    You needed not cite anything else. That's pretty gay.

    Also, I love it.
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    Jul 13, 2012 3:47 PM GMT
    Bambino_Rex saidi think if he could eat food coloring and shit rainbows, he would


    Awesome line. also:

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    To answer the OP's question: I'd rather date an empathetic drag queen than a chill masc musc bro jerk.
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    Jul 13, 2012 4:02 PM GMT
    i kid you not....if a song came on the radio that had a female name, he'd want to change it to a male name....EVERY SINGLE TIME

    it was like when you first come out and you tell someone to go straight through a light and they insist on going "gaily forward"

    it's cute for a bit, but srlsy....it's not you're a circus freak. you're gay. it's not that big of an anomaly.

    we are still friends.
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    Jul 13, 2012 4:05 PM GMT
    HottJoe said...Like so gay they might as well be fierce pink aliens from Rainbow Bright's home planet.


    Probably a little late... but i'm quoting this to my mother next time I see her.

    Anyway...

    I've only dated pretty masculine men, I keep the flamboyant ones as friends, as I don't have much in common with them.

    Who doesn't like getting down and dirty? Literally... dirt... on the ground.. now on you..

  • neosyllogy

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    Jul 13, 2012 4:20 PM GMT
    Lighting designer, said "heeeey Girl!" a lot, famished twink type (whic I confess canbe kinda hot), wore make up (though, did a damn good job, I didn't know for the first month : ), and was generally a gay caricature.
    Wonderful guy and super glad we dated! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 13, 2012 5:49 PM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidIt's about being haunted by a past that I didn't create. It's about accepting where I come from and embracing what comes along with that.



    Anduru said
    ConfederateGhost saidhahahahahahahaha. You think I'm a republican. hahahahahahahahahahaha.
    Good shit man.
    Well then why the hell are you "confederate"ghost?


    Ooooh little bitch got owned!
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    Jul 13, 2012 5:55 PM GMT
    kudos to you for still getting an erection. Id have to bolt out of there at the first whiff of that shit.