gay guy in the gym

  • casinormal

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    Jul 13, 2012 4:42 PM GMT
    Hey everyone, I´m new here!

    well, there´s a guy I recently noticed at the gym and I´m pretty sure he is gay. He is HOT! but I don´t know if I should aproach him because I´m not the type of guy who flirts with everyone, no that i´m shy its just I dont want to be obvious. I noticed he looks at me sometimes but I dont want him to notice I do the same with him. I would like to start a conversation but in a casual way and start from there so I can confirm if he is gay and interested on me but avoiding questions like " how long have you been training", or tell him how good I think he does look...

    any advice?
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    Jul 13, 2012 4:44 PM GMT
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2519696
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 13, 2012 4:46 PM GMT
    you sound like a giddy school girl

    be a guy talking to another guy
  • casinormal

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    Jul 13, 2012 5:09 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidyou sound like a giddy school girl

    be a guy talking to another guy


    funny
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    Jul 13, 2012 5:19 PM GMT
    Ask him to spot you.

    Also, because you're gonna be wondering in about 45 minutes, #YCYL stands for "You Cruise You Lose"
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    Jul 13, 2012 5:22 PM GMT
    Dude...
    you are new...welcome; don't let Fire cock run you off...

    Why is so hard to give the guy a wink.

    pretty sure I rocked the world of the cutey at the drive-threw yesterday, when I caught him body checking my sweat soaked wife beater and gave him a wink. He definitely still has his wisdom teeth.
  • casinormal

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    Jul 13, 2012 6:31 PM GMT
    endo saidAsk him to spot you.

    Also, because you're gonna be wondering in about 45 minutes, #YCYL stands for "You Cruise You Lose"


    what does mean "you cruise you lose" ?
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 13, 2012 6:44 PM GMT
    casinormal said
    endo saidAsk him to spot you.

    Also, because you're gonna be wondering in about 45 minutes, #YCYL stands for "You Cruise You Lose"


    what does mean "you cruise you lose" ?


    see member profile: firebrand for more info.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 13, 2012 9:00 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidDude...
    you are new...welcome; don't let Fire cock run you off...

    Why is so hard to give the guy a wink.

    pretty sure I rocked the world of the cutey at the drive-threw yesterday, when I caught him body checking my sweat soaked wife beater and gave him a wink. He definitely still has his wisdom teeth.


    Oh god ... I saw when that happened ... he was like

    50513_475560125704_8016657_n.jpg

    .... all hot on you too
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    Jul 13, 2012 9:07 PM GMT
    c1b6a066746559370422bc397ee9466e.jpg

    #YCYL
  • disasterpiece

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    Jul 13, 2012 9:14 PM GMT
    Firebrand ---> animal_scares_boy.jpg <-- casinormal/new user
  • casinormal

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    Jul 13, 2012 9:19 PM GMT
    Disasterpiece saidFirebrand ---> animal_scares_boy.jpg <-- casinormal/new user


    so "you cruise you lose2 is when someone´s attempt to make contact with you ends with you scared and definitely not interested?
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    Jul 13, 2012 9:22 PM GMT
    You Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.
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    Jul 13, 2012 9:24 PM GMT
    Hahaha! I love this.

    Disasterpiece saidFirebrand ---> animal_scares_boy.jpg <-- casinormal/new user
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 13, 2012 9:25 PM GMT
    ^^^^^^
    Not in real life
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    Jul 13, 2012 9:57 PM GMT
    Disasterpiece saidFirebrand ---> animal_scares_boy.jpg <-- casinormal/new user


    This made me laugh so hard!! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
  • casinormal

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    Jul 13, 2012 10:37 PM GMT
    Firebrand saidYou Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.


    I see, well I go to the gym to work out not to socialize thats one of the reasons I had my doubts about this guy and if I should talk to him because I dont like when some people try to start a conversation with me, only if those were hot guys I would be more than interested but it has not happen yet

    pd. sorry, I´m aware my english its bad but sure I´ll get better soonicon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 13, 2012 10:43 PM GMT
    Firebrand saidYou Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.



    Where the fuck do you live dude? Walton's Mountain? I've met plenty of guys at the gym and I've never been thrown out, and I've certainly never had anyone beat me down. You must be super obvious. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 13, 2012 10:46 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    Firebrand saidYou Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.



    Where the fuck do you live dude? Walton's Mountain? I've met plenty of guys at the gym and I've never been thrown out, and I've certainly never had anyone beat me down. You must be super obvious. icon_rolleyes.gif


    My gym is full of gay dudes and some are super creepy

    Like totally tactless and obv and they don't stop staring even after I death-glare at them to try to get them to stop

    Super trashhhhhhhhhhy and they prob have STDs
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 13, 2012 10:48 PM GMT
    Firebrand said
    Scruffypup said
    Firebrand saidYou Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.



    Where the fuck do you live dude? Walton's Mountain? I've met plenty of guys at the gym and I've never been thrown out, and I've certainly never had anyone beat me down. You must be super obvious. icon_rolleyes.gif


    My gym is full of gay dudes and some are super creepy

    Like totally tactless and obv and they don't stop staring even after I death-glare at them to try to get them to stop

    Super trashhhhhhhhhhy and they prob have STDs


    uhhh ... maybe find a new gym
  • synestheticxs...

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    Jul 13, 2012 10:52 PM GMT
    Never had my membership revoked either. Then again I don't go for any reason but to work out, but I'm /very/ obvious and occasionally someone will talk to me. They typically lose interest when they find out I'm not interested in how much they bench or how big their cock is.
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    Jul 13, 2012 10:55 PM GMT
    Firebrand said
    Scruffypup said
    Firebrand saidYou Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.



    Where the fuck do you live dude? Walton's Mountain? I've met plenty of guys at the gym and I've never been thrown out, and I've certainly never had anyone beat me down. You must be super obvious. icon_rolleyes.gif


    My gym is full of gay dudes and some are super creepy

    Like totally tactless and obv and they don't stop staring even after I death-glare at them to try to get them to stop

    Super trashhhhhhhhhhy and they prob have STDs



    It doesn't have to be that black or white. I'm certainly not obvious and it's not like I'm sucking dick in the squat rack, but I've met some pretty cool guys at the gym. Doesn't happen every day but it does happen.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 13, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    synestheticxserenade saidNever had my membership revoked either. Then again I don't go for any reason but to work out, but I'm /very/ obvious and occasionally someone will talk to me. They typically lose interest when they find out I'm nI waot interested in how much they bench or how big their cock is.


    I'd like to know what "very obvious" at the gym entails lol.
  • mybud

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    Jul 15, 2012 2:06 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    synestheticxserenade saidNever had my membership revoked either. Then again I don't go for any reason but to work out, but I'm /very/ obvious and occasionally someone will talk to me. They typically lose interest when they find out I'm nI waot interested in how much they bench or how big their cock is.


    I'd like to know what "very obvious" at the gym entails lol.
    Think it involves drooling....
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    Jul 15, 2012 2:26 AM GMT
    Casino,,be patient..make youself available without seeming obvious,...don't stare..don't drool..give it a little more time..I had a cool guy talk to me a couple times..he was smooth ..after a few times he stared the conversation toward working out and sex drives..till eventually i told him i was gay..we have a night planned to hang out and kik back a few cold ones !!..Be patient