USING HIV AS A WEAPON

  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 14, 2012 7:59 PM GMT
    So on Thursday night... Friday morning, for all practical purposes, I get a call from a long time friend of mine, I'll call Jeremy. He was in a panic telling me that he
    had finally had sex with "John". John and his partner (I'll call "Nick") have been in a long term relationship for about 6 years and Jeremy has been a friend of John's for about 10 years. They are friends, but have always had a very strong chemistry. I don't think Jeremy has any "designs" on John other than they find each other very appealing and so, while friends, there was an unspoken sexual
    attraction. Jeremy has continued the friendship with both John and Nick until the events on Thursday.

    Apparently John and Nick had a fight and Jeremy ended up consoling John. One thing led to another and they had sex, I mean they did everything apparently.. but.. with observance of safety, except for the fact, Jeremy apparently sucked
    John off after they screwed.

    Well Nick found out about it and told Jeremy, John is HIV positive (he isn't, apparently nobody involved here is... but to "pay Jeremy back", Nick told
    him John was positive, has been for about 4 years and is on medication.
    Jeremy freaked out and called me on the phone at 2:00 a.m.

    Drama... Jeremy now knows John isn't positive and is mad as hell... John is mad at Nick for the lie and Nick is mad since the other two had sex.
    My response was..... "you asked for the drama, you shouldn't have fucked John and you should always observe safe sex practices in all ways certain (if its casual sex)..

    While I want to be supportive of my friend, I was out 2 hours of sleep and yesterday was a long day.....lol. I just find this whole thing to be something I don't ... ever.. want to be caught up in.

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    Jul 14, 2012 8:12 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidMy response was..... "you asked for the drama, you shouldn't have fucked John and you should always observe safe sex practices in all ways certain (if its casual sex)..

    While I want to be supportive of my friend, I was out 2 hours of sleep and yesterday was a long day.....lol. I just find this whole thing to be something I don't ... ever.. want to be caught up in.

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    Seems like there's enough anger to go all around with those 3. Everybody loses, even innocent bystander you.

    Not sure if there's a single moral here: don't cheat with a friend behind his partner's back, or don't have unsafe sex, or don't cheat with a friend and think your own partner won't find out about it, or don't lie about a serious disease like HIV for revenge. Although the wicked side of me thinks the 3 of them got what they probably deserved: drama in triplicate. icon_twisted.gif