Do you think that this guy is gay and or attracted to me, and how do you judge if guys are interested in you

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    Jul 15, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    So there is a coffee shop near my house that is known for having a significant amount of gay customers. Naturally I go there about once a week to check guys out and get use to the gay scene (which I am fairly new to).

    When I went today I saw a really attractive guy that I perceived to be gay; Not based on any stereotypes but I noticed that he looked at and would do a180 degree head turn on every attractive guy that walked by. So I got my coffee and sat across from him at a different table about 8ft. I preceded with light glances at him to try to make eye contact and see if he was interested. When we did make eye contact I got nervous and looked away quickly. So I grabbed my phone and pretended to start texting someone lol. Then I looked up again and I caught him looking at me, but he broke eye contact quickly. Half hour later of glances back and forth I decided to stop breaking eye contact so quickly and glanced at him, to which he glanced back and started to ferociously bite his nails (maybe he was nervous ?). However after that I had to leave and never built the courage to speak to him mainly out of fear of him not being interested. How do you determine if a guy is interested in you and do you think this guy displayed signs of interest ?
  • HapaDude

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    Jul 15, 2012 5:54 AM GMT
    I honestly wouldn't be able to tell you based off of that, unfortunately. If you were directly across from him....he may have just been looking up from his table when in thought...and where else would you really look than just straight ahead, ya know?

    Then looking away could have been him breaking eye contact because for some people, that is a little bit weird.

    Nail biting....habit?

    The best and probably most true way of finding out if a guy is gay is just to ask him, unfortunately.

    But in terms of showing interest...if he came over to your table and started up a conversation...that'd probably be a way of knowing for sure.

  • HottJoe

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    Jul 15, 2012 6:08 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidYes. He was attracted to you.

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    +1
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    Jul 15, 2012 3:24 PM GMT
    OP..make shure..the last guy that stared me up and down eventually told me .."You look like my cousin"..
    Say hello dammit and stop the silly stare and glare game..try it...HELLO..again..HELLO....not so hard !..Hugz.(just busting yer balls)..icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 15, 2012 3:26 PM GMT
    Akholic said


    It's an art, LOL. Next time you run into him (I'm sure your paths will cross again), smile and say hello.

    Guys over-analyze what to do. They forget the simplest thing is to be approachable. Saying hello is the perfect way to start a conversation.
  • synestheticxs...

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    Jul 15, 2012 10:55 PM GMT
    I figure a guy is into me if he asks me out.
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    Jul 18, 2012 3:58 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidYes. He was attracted to you.

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    Jul 18, 2012 7:23 PM GMT
    you could ask him
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 18, 2012 7:26 PM GMT
    I'd say he was attracted. If he wasn't, he wouldn't have ever looked at you after he noticed your first glance. He might have been nervous as well....I'd take that as a challenge. We would have talked before he ever left that establishment.
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    Jul 18, 2012 7:29 PM GMT
    I generally know if he's attracted to me when he starts to rub up against my body with his cock.
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    Jul 18, 2012 9:17 PM GMT
    I'm having a serious case of deja vu. Didn't you make this same exact topic a while ago, except the guy was groping himself?....
  • Jasonblue

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    Jul 18, 2012 9:31 PM GMT
    He either wanted to jump your bones or you made him nervous icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 19, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    Bivouac saidI'm having a serious case of deja vu. Didn't you make this same exact topic a while ago, except the guy was groping himself?....

    Same place, Different guys
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    Jul 19, 2012 5:28 AM GMT
    Akholic said
    Bivouac saidI'm having a serious case of deja vu. Didn't you make this same exact topic a while ago, except the guy was groping himself?....

    Same place, Different guys
    Thanks for not being a troll, and I agree with the guys above; he is attracted to you.icon_wink.gif
  • O5vx

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    Jul 19, 2012 5:40 AM GMT
    Darm, you have the habit of meeting the shy and the creepy onesicon_smile.gif