My anus is difficult?!

  • bobrockx

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    Jul 16, 2012 5:10 AM GMT
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    embarrassing, but I have mainly two big problems when I have sex, Im a bottom
    and dont have a crazy diet i eat fairly healthy and I have a bowl movement every other day... the thing is even when i use an enema im still dirty up there :/ i havent gone extreme or anything just a simple cleanse? is this a common problem?

    ontop of that my anus is very sensitive and gets inflamed easy when i have sex not to mention some rippage occures no matter how much I prepare and go easy with it. My partner is rather big 9" and thick. Thus limiting how often i can have sex witch is down to weekly.

    help? plz
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    Jul 16, 2012 1:24 PM GMT
    fiber supplements?
  • Latenight30

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    Jul 16, 2012 1:33 PM GMT
    and get to know your hole very well. buy some toys, and spend a lot of time with yourself, in the shower. Know your limits.
    I also hope you are just using water to cleanse.
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    Jul 16, 2012 4:39 PM GMT
    Get the psyllium husk fiber that is in caplets. Amazingly clean bowel movements, you'll be amazed.

    As far as the tearing is concerned. that's just gonna take some time babe. You'll eventually adapt to your lover.
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    Jul 16, 2012 4:47 PM GMT
    your partner could make slow oral love to your anus as if there's no guarantee he's going to be penetrating it on a given night....as if it's a gift you are opening up to him, but that may not open at will or all the time... note that i'm not saying use sex as a weapon... but in my experience, a relaxed and appreciated anus is a happier anus.....

    kinda like plants that you talk to grow better

    i'd offer, but you have a boyfriend
  • MikemikeMike

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    Jul 16, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    Bambino_Rex saidfiber supplements?


    Benefiber- I make anyone who bottoms for me drink it daily. No one wants to pull out and have a fudgesicle over their condom--no one!!
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    Jul 16, 2012 5:42 PM GMT
    You know your anus is nasty when it has rings around it.

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  • HottJoe

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    Jul 16, 2012 6:01 PM GMT
    Try doing it more often, not less.
  • bobrockx

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    Jul 17, 2012 2:33 PM GMT
    Thanks guys, seems easy enough. I'll look into fiber supplements and F*n more icon_smile.gif

    Do ppl do anything to stop the inflammation?

    thanks again!
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    Jul 19, 2012 4:02 AM GMT
    Psyllium Husk Fibre..1 or two table spoons of this..(metamucil)..will keep you nice and cleanicon_biggrin.gif

    For the swelling..make shure you are using a dense silicone based lube (swiss navy)..and look up "anal ease"
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    Jul 26, 2012 1:14 PM GMT
    bobrockx saidicon_redface.gif



    ontop of that my anus is very sensitive and gets inflamed easy when i have sex not to mention some rippage occures no matter how much I prepare and go easy with it. My partner is rather big 9" and thick. Thus limiting how often i can have sex witch is down to weekly.

    help? plz


    patience is the key. i mean really overdo the foreplay and establish just how prepared you are being at the moment. what might seem like taking it slow to you,could still be rushing a little too much. just go slow and if you still get sore go slower...and if you still get sore go smaller lol
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    Dec 31, 2012 7:39 PM GMT
    you should be having a major shit every day.... remember there are 2 layers of shit to clean.... you will know when you reach the second one... thats the important one, and make sure you are using only water....
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    Dec 31, 2012 8:23 PM GMT
    When your anus is being difficult it really needs a good tongue lashing
  • seafrontbloke

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    Jan 01, 2013 11:35 PM GMT
    hairyandym said remember there are 2 layers of shit to clean....


    There are?
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    Jan 02, 2013 1:01 AM GMT
    Back! For a return engagement, GAMRican's How to get your ass ready to be fucked! thread!

    Timeless wisdom from the heart of the hardcore!

    Also, get fucked more often by big dick (and/or toys) and you'll have less problems with cleaning out. Really.
  • squally

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    Jan 02, 2013 4:16 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidBack! For a return engagement, GAMRican's How to get your ass ready to be fucked! thread!

    Timeless wisdom from the heart of the hardcore!

    Also, get fucked more often by big dick (and/or toys) and you'll have less problems with cleaning out. Really.


    Is that really a good idea? Then you wont be able to hold poo anymore?! Plus you wont be tight right? I have no idea~
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    Jan 02, 2013 4:34 AM GMT
    squally said
    GAMRican saidBack! For a return engagement, GAMRican's How to get your ass ready to be fucked! thread!

    Timeless wisdom from the heart of the hardcore!

    Also, get fucked more often by big dick (and/or toys) and you'll have less problems with cleaning out. Really.


    Is that really a good idea? Then you wont be able to hold poo anymore?! Plus you wont be tight right? I have no idea~


    It works for me. I'm 47, and every day I'm clean as a whistle. I do not have a loose, sloppy cloaca. And, it's great practice for later in life.

    Additional tips for the wise to consider: Do not eat starchy foods. This makes your poo the consistence of Twisty Freeze and that gums up your intestines. Eat lots of fresh fiber to naturally scrape your colon clean on a regular basis. After you naturally pass stool, clean yourself out. Poo at least daily to stay "regular".