Problem with being naked in the presence of others

  • latennisbuddy

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    Jul 16, 2012 5:23 PM GMT
    First off, I m no way an exhibitionist. I m actually extremely shy but I am not sure what has gotten into me that the thought of being naked at the gym and possibly be seen by a bud or two had sparked my interest! I gi ti the gym all the time and do shower there. The showers do have curtains some of which are turn of course. I do stripped down to my shorts and will take it,off once I closed the curtain. Afterwards, I have my towels around my waist and put on my clothes that way. the idea of getting naked and perhaps seen by someone in the shower/locker gets me excited. the problem is I get hard easily even just the thought of it. I guessed its not within my nature to do this kind of stuff si I don't know. Also if I gey hard, what will the other think of me? Anyone else have the same problem? What can I do?
  • MikemikeMike

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    Jul 16, 2012 5:25 PM GMT
    Go to a nude beach. You will get over it fast. What's the problem? Are you hung like a hamster?? NO then go for it. You have a nice bod!
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    Jul 16, 2012 5:39 PM GMT
    The only problem I have with being naked in the presence of others is that it's hard to do them all at once.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 16, 2012 6:10 PM GMT
    Interesting you start by saying you're not an exhibitionist. I am one, and it sounds like you are discovering that side to yourself you didn't know existed.

    If you're like me it's not about looking to Fuck. It's about being an attention whore. Don't feel bad about it. Everyone has their thing;)
  • mpp677

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    Jul 17, 2012 4:01 AM GMT
    I have to agree with MikemikeMike... I was always bashful, and fraid of a inappropriate hard-on, until i started going to a clothing optional pool. I almost instantly lost my bashfulness. Men have been nude together for centuries, as have women. Its natural... we weren't born with clothes, and our bodies weren't designed for them either. I'm not complete nudist, but i am about the human body, and being as comfortable s possible.

    Just keep in mind, were all men here, we all have the same junk, just different sizes and shapes.
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    Jul 17, 2012 4:09 AM GMT
    Take a second and think about how ridiculous it looks to put clothes on with a towel around your waist, doing everything you possibly can to prevent your dick from getting even slightly exposed. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 17, 2012 4:11 AM GMT
    If you get hard... #YCYL
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    Jul 17, 2012 4:16 AM GMT
    Firebrand saidIf you get hard... #YCYL


    Last night FireBrand and I shared a Fleshlight at an all-night carwash.

    We were shy at first....but then as We helped each other out it just seemed natural and right.
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    Jul 17, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    Cash said
    Firebrand saidIf you get hard... #YCYL


    Last night FireBrand and I shared a Fleshlight at an all-night carwash.

    We were shy at first....but then as We helped each other out it just seemed natural and right.


    Did you share the same end, face each other, or just take turns? Was it the clear kind or the pink kind? We can't really pass judgment unless we know details.
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    Jul 17, 2012 4:21 AM GMT
    Firebrand saidIf you get hard... #YCYL
    That's good advice, and completely on topic. So incisive. So succinct. So constructive. Everything a poster needs wrapped up neat and tidy like a Christmas present from an anal-retentive Lutheran (gosh, is that redundant? sorry!). Win, and win.
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    Jul 17, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    showme said
    Cash said
    Firebrand saidIf you get hard... #YCYL


    Last night FireBrand and I shared a Fleshlight at an all-night carwash.

    We were shy at first....but then as We helped each other out it just seemed natural and right.


    Did you share the same end, face each other, or just take turns? Was it the clear kind or the pink kind? We can't really pass judgment unless we know details.


    It was the Ice.

    Clear.

    Firebrand said he wanted Me to see his manhood sliding in and out.

    We went back and forth because He thought it was more intimate that way.

    FireBrand likes to feel close to the guys He jacks with in an all-night carwash.
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    Jul 17, 2012 4:44 AM GMT
    If I had a body like yours I'd get naked and go shirtless all the time. If you get hard everyone will know you're gay. If you don't have a problem with that, go for it. If you do, don't get naked.
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    Jul 17, 2012 4:56 AM GMT
    joe122 said If you get hard everyone will know you're gay


    Not sure this really helps...
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    Jul 17, 2012 5:01 AM GMT
    I stripped for a while years ago. A boner just makes the show better.
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    Jul 17, 2012 5:07 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidInteresting you start by saying you're not an exhibitionist. I am one, and it sounds like you are discovering that side to yourself you didn't know existed.

    If you're like me it's not about looking to Fuck. It's about being an attention whore. Don't feel bad about it. Everyone has their thing;)
    I KNEW there was something about you I had in common!
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    Jul 17, 2012 5:10 AM GMT
    Daas saidI stripped for a while years ago. A boner just makes the show better.

    LMAO..Alrighty Then !!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 17, 2012 5:20 AM GMT
    joe122 saidIf I had a body like yours I'd get naked and go shirtless all the time. If you get hard everyone will know you're gay. If you don't have a problem with that, go for it. If you do, don't get naked.


    Straight Men get boners all the time ya know.

    They just don't make dumb-ass excuses and get over it.

    Why would there be a problem with everyone knowing yer Gay??
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    Jul 17, 2012 5:22 AM GMT
    As long as it has some pertinence to situation; or figurative, I don't have any problem being nude in front of others... probably why of all the dreams I can recall, none of my symbols have lined up with what is in a book. icon_question.gif?icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 17, 2012 5:24 AM GMT
    JR_RJ saidAs long as it has some pertinence to situation; or figurative, I don't have any problem being nude in front of others... probably why of all the dreams I can recall, none of my symbols have lined up with what is in a book. icon_question.gif?icon_confused.gif
    Ok cause imma gonna take you up on that!
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    Jul 17, 2012 5:28 AM GMT
    JR_RJ saidAs long as it has some pertinence to situation; or figurative, I don't have any problem being nude in front of others... probably why of all the dreams I can recall, none of my symbols have lined up with what is in a book. icon_question.gif?icon_confused.gif


    I dreamed I went to the snake races and the anaconda won. I have no idea what that means but it was a freakin awesome dream. ANACONDA man.
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    Jul 17, 2012 5:48 AM GMT
    I don't have a problem of getting naked at a nude/gay beach or in the locker room/in front of other guys! If there are children present or females around, I'm a little shy by it and yes I'd cover the towel around my waist to change.

    * I remembered I was at North Baker Beach in SF about 2 years ago, I was naked semi hard, tanning and listening to my music on a really hot summer day. This *straight Asian couple, both the male and female kept staring at me and making out, when I looked at them, they looked away. They were like 12 feet away, I thought that was kind of funny that they said something in Korean and kept smiling at me. Maybe they wanted me to join ??? lol icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 17, 2012 5:49 AM GMT
    I'm proud of my body thus far and anybody can look at it, I don't care. Did I say I'm proud of my body?
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    Jul 17, 2012 6:09 AM GMT
    As many neurotic threads as there are about nudity and ridiculous baggy bloomers... I'm thinking it's time to bring back mandatory gang showers in skool. A few minutes of acute trauma seems better than a lifetime of neurosis.

    Or some sort of naked ritual maybe. Did you know that all of the people who spend the winter in antarctica... cooks, drivers, Ph.D. scientists... get naked in a tent and one by one, jump into the sea through a hole in the ice? The rest of the group pulls them out in the 40 seconds before hypothermia sits in, and rubs them warm. I'm not sure who thought of that, but afterwards, nobody gets too upset if somebody sees their ass in the shower.
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    Jul 17, 2012 6:20 AM GMT
    Anocxu said
    Daas saidI stripped for a while years ago. A boner just makes the show better.

    LMAO..Alrighty Then !!icon_biggrin.gif


    Link to pic of me stripping. bleh.

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    Jul 17, 2012 6:49 AM GMT
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    Firebrand saidIf you get hard... #YCYL

    Last night FireBrand and I shared a Fleshlight at an all-night carwash.

    We were shy at first....but then as We helped each other out it just seemed natural and right.

    Did you share the same end, face each other, or just take turns? Was it the clear kind or the pink kind? We can't really pass judgment unless we know details.

    Do they make a double-ended Fleshlight? That would be hot, sorta like docking. If they don't then they should, I'd buy one today.