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    Aug 07, 2008 5:49 AM GMT
    so me and my ex boyfriend and his boyfriend. all had a threesome. a few different times. and i think my ex just wanted to have sex with me, and the only way he could do it was by inviting his boyfriend. but ontop of the fact that i think my ex still likes me, his boyfriend is hitting on me. and making moves on me. and this confuses me... cuz the last time we all did it, his boyfriend seemed to me mad my ex was paying so much attention to me? is it weird that there both hitting on me?
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    Aug 07, 2008 7:24 AM GMT

    no, you put out.
  • EricLA

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    Aug 07, 2008 7:28 AM GMT
    Sounds messy. If you're just looking for sex, you might want to stay in touch with them. But if you have feelings for your ex or his current bf, I say RUN! Run far!! These guys don't seem like guys you could have a healthy relationship with. Sex? Fine! Sounds fun -- as long as emotions aren't involved. If you have any feelings for your ex, or the bf, I think you could be in for disappointment if tried pursuing one or the other.
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    Aug 07, 2008 7:41 AM GMT
    Time to move on. If it's sex you're after, I believe you can find it elsewhere...with far less complications. icon_smile.gif
  • GQjock

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    Aug 07, 2008 9:07 AM GMT
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    Talk about a no win situation
    You're F**ked either way
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    Aug 07, 2008 9:37 AM GMT
    haha well im not going to lie. i have feelings for my ex. but i like his bf so i dont want to like fuck with there relationship? but i mean shit when two boys want to have sex with you its hard to say no lol.
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    Aug 07, 2008 9:48 AM GMT
    No. One slight problem with threesomes is 1 one of the 3 usually is the most popular. "Two is company three is a crowd" is one of those sayings that has some wisdom behind it.

    My only advice would be to simplify your life and keep the soap opera on the TV where it is safe and enjoyable!
  • GQjock

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    Aug 07, 2008 9:56 AM GMT
    But.. you didn't post this by saying you were just in this for sex
    If that was the case what harm done?
    You posted this supposedly because you were getting confused
    Which is it?
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    Aug 07, 2008 2:23 PM GMT
    Time for a triad!
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    Aug 07, 2008 2:58 PM GMT
    Sex with an ex can be depressing. If it's good, you don't have it anymore; if it's bad, you just had sex with an ex..
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Aug 07, 2008 3:02 PM GMT
    This is gonna end in one big gigantic mess. I'd run now while you can.
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    Aug 07, 2008 3:06 PM GMT
    Its just like you said, confused.

    People trying to live in the moment and not considering the past and the future. For the new guy, it must be unsettling to see the two others with history still sharing a certain bond .. where does that lead him .. etc? see the future and the past are there in the present colliding with someone looking like the deer in the headlights.

    Roadkill!!
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    Aug 07, 2008 4:09 PM GMT
    You are a trainwreck waiting to happen. An ex is an ex for a reason and now your brining in his current boyfriend....Did you think it was going to be smooth sailing?icon_rolleyes.gif Get out while you can. Otherwise enjoy it while it last and when it crashes, please dont post a forum question asking why it exploded in your face.
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    Aug 07, 2008 4:11 PM GMT
    gymguy1 saidYou are a trainwreck waiting to happen. An ex is an ex for a reason and now your brining in his current boyfriend....Did you think it was going to be smooth sailing?icon_rolleyes.gif Get out while you can. Otherwise enjoy it while it last and when it crashes, please dont post a forum question asking why it exploded in your face.


    You beat me to the punch gymguy1! Like he said, either run like hell or milk it for what it's worth.
  • EricLA

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    Aug 07, 2008 4:27 PM GMT
    chillsf79 saidSex with an ex can be depressing. If it's good, you don't have it anymore; if it's bad, you just had sex with an ex..


    Good point, Chills.
  • mrpandora

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    Aug 07, 2008 6:29 PM GMT
    EricLA said
    chillsf79 saidSex with an ex can be depressing. If it's good, you don't have it anymore; if it's bad, you just had sex with an ex..


    Good point, Chills.


    hmm indeed, but not quite original, considering it was samatha jones' wisdom icon_smile.gif
    *sjeez how gay am i hahaha LOL*

    http://www.hbo.com/city/cast/character/samantha_jones.shtml

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  • PRDGUY

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    Aug 07, 2008 8:54 PM GMT
    RUN, don't walk away from this situation.... As others said u can get sex elsewhere.
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    Aug 07, 2008 11:39 PM GMT
    It's up to you if this applies.

    From the immortal works of Romanovsky & Phillips:

    http://www.romanovskyandphillips.com/flauntitlyrics.htm

    Don't Sleep With Your Ex

    Bitter words slice through the night
    A desperate call, the final flight
    And then it hits you like a train
    Years of loving down the drain
    So why take even one step back
    When you know that it's a fact

    Refrain:

    Don't sleep with your ex
    Why would you complicate a life that's already too complex
    I know that you're lonely
    But you're better off alone
    Than to be borrowing a heart that you can never call your own

    Tears are falling from your eyes
    And anyone can sympathize
    You have a hurt you want to numb
    But he is not the place to run
    So you must be your own best friend
    It's time for this to end

    (refrain)

    Hope's a curse you cannot shake
    But a strong heart's unafraid to break
    You reach for him in search of clues
    Tomorrow you'll be more confused
    'Cause you don't need to lose him twice
    This is my advice