If u can not come out, what would u do?

  • Romerolax

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    Jul 17, 2012 1:59 PM GMT
    i am a gay guy in mid twenties, i feel like i can not handel it any more, it is so difficult to come out in this part o the world, not cause u would be judge but because consequencies would be jail or death, i tried immigration as well as seeking work permits in different countries but still nothing came back positively.
    would like to here some advices, someone was trying to convince me by fraud marrige as well, any comments on that?!!
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    Jul 17, 2012 2:34 PM GMT
    Take a "vacation" to Cuba. Make a raft. Float to the US and tell them you're from Cuba.

    Just an idea...not a suggestion. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 17, 2012 3:46 PM GMT
    Have you looked into emigrating to australia, or new zealand? Or argentina, or brazil, or costa rica/panama/another stable country in south/central america? Argentina has gay marriage...
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    Jul 17, 2012 3:58 PM GMT
    Romerolax saidi am a gay guy in mid twenties, i feel like i can not handel it any more, it is so difficult to come out in this part o the world, not cause u would be judge but because consequencies would be jail or death, i tried immigration as well as seeking work permits in different countries but still nothing came back positively.
    would like to here some advices, someone was trying to convince me by fraud marrige as well, any comments on that?!!


    :'( the situation of women itself is not that good in Middle East Countries, cannot even think of gay men then !!
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    Jul 17, 2012 4:11 PM GMT
    While there are no countries that are "easy" to emigrate to, there are some countries that are actively looking for people. Australia is actively recruiting Britons with certain skillsets.

    One in 5 Canadians is an immigrant, one reason is that the country is short on labor.

    Getting into New Zealand is like having a job interview, they'll give you an Occupational Ability" score based on your skills and value to the economy. If you score above the threshold you're admitted to the country.

    Spain has the world's most open immigration policy. The only absolutely necessary skill is learning the language, you won't be able to function without it.

    Hope that helps sweety.
  • Romerolax

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    Jul 17, 2012 6:27 PM GMT
    thanx guys for the replies
    well i tried Canada, still under process been almost a year :s
    other countries need me to stay there for 2 years studying to get certificate equivelence, and i can not just stay without work

    i will have a look on the south american countries, did not know abour Argentina

    would any one recommened me to get in to a fraud marrige with either a guy or a girl? although i do not know what is the consequencesor the process of that.
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    Jul 17, 2012 6:33 PM GMT
    Romerolax saidthanx guys for the replies
    well i tried Canada, still under process been almost a year :s
    other countries need me to stay there for 2 years studying to get certificate equivelence, and i can not just stay without work

    i will have a look on the south american countries, did not know abour Argentina

    would any one recommened me to get in to a fraud marrige with either a guy or a girl? although i do not know what is the consequencesor the process of that.


    Fraud marriage?
    Not.a.good.idea.
    You're gonna leave anyway, so why bring another person into the whole deal?
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    Jul 17, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    i'm in your same position, i applied for Canada 2 months ago, still a long way to go.
    You might consider applying as refugee but not sure if it's a good idea
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    Jul 17, 2012 11:00 PM GMT
    Try asylum status.......... that might actually be your ticket out.
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    Jul 17, 2012 11:25 PM GMT
    Its horrible when the price of being true to yourself is punishment and triibulation. Hang in there and keep enduring until you find the best advice and solution. All I can offer is my hope and vote of confidence that you will endure.
  • Romerolax

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    Jul 18, 2012 12:38 PM GMT
    wowiemio saidi'm in your same position, i applied for Canada 2 months ago, still a long way to go.
    You might consider applying as refugee but not sure if it's a good idea


    refugee is a good choice the problem is that, as refugee u have to stay in certain area without having the right to work legally for 2 whole years :s
  • Romerolax

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    Jul 18, 2012 12:40 PM GMT
    TropicalMark saidTry asylum status.......... that might actually be your ticket out.

    Asylum is only allowed when u r in the country, refugee on the other hand is asking for help from another countrym both have the same process although
  • Romerolax

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    Jul 18, 2012 12:40 PM GMT
    guyathome74 saidIts horrible when the price of being true to yourself is punishment and triibulation. Hang in there and keep enduring until you find the best advice and solution. All I can offer is my hope and vote of confidence that you will endure.


    thanx for the support icon_smile.gif
  • buymeasoda

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    Jul 24, 2012 10:51 AM GMT
    Canada is great, i do have alot of friends who immigrated here, though it takes along time.... but worth the wait.